Four Words

[cookiecat]

Listening yesterday to someone talk about branding yourself - wait! Not that branding! More like personal branding - summing up who you are in a few words.

This person said choose four words to sum yourself up. These words could be aspirational or they could be the person you are today.

As you go through every day, these four words become your mantra. In the most simple way, these words should guide your decisions as well as form how you present yourself.

Eventually, this is the vibe you project. How others know you. "cookiecat? She's the sparkly chick."

In the vanilla world, what are your four words?

What about the kink world? What four words would you choose to tell the world who you are?

 

[gracie920101]

In the vanilla world, what are your four words?

What about the kink world? What four words would you choose to tell the world who you are?

introvert, loyal, CATS, forgetful


Wait! I need more than four for kink!

 

[cascadiabound]

Vanilla: Creative. Thinker. Colorful. Educator



Kink: Creative. Naughty. Submissive. Lovey



Idk. That's the best I can do tonight. I'm gonna think on it some more

cb

 

[seela]

Easy.

“She’s the uptight/reserved/matter-of-fact/boring one.”

At least that’s what the people who don’t know me well see me as. Probably quite a few of those who know me, too.

 

[cheekygirl75]

Easy.

“She’s the uptight/reserved/matter-of-fact/boring one.”

At least that’s what the people who don’t know me well see me as. Probably quite a few of those who know me, too.

Hey, sounds like what people say about me! lol

 

[SissySalina]

The Absolute Weirdest Thing

With Permission Such Fun

Loving Giving Obedient Sissy

 

[seela]

Hey, sounds like what people say about me! lol

*high five*

 

[Fingerfuxs]

In the vanilla world, what are your four words?

What about the kink world? What four words would you choose to tell the world who you are?

In the vanilla world, what are your four words?

eccentric / eclectic / random / ridiculous


What about the kink world?

eccentric / eclectic / spontaneous / verbal

 

[MeekMe]

Cautious. Complicated. Compromised. Cunt.

 

[Shankara20]

Vanilla = Creative - Compassionate - Funny - Independent

(the above developed following many years and $$$ of therapy)



Kink = Bisexual Crossdressing Switch Exhibitionist (Retired)

(the above developed from not-enough years spent living in San Francisco)

 

[IrisAlthea]

Difficult.

What vibe people get, probably depends on the context I meet them in. I’ve been thinking about what I’ve heard often/from several sources. I came up with calm, dependable, analytical, fair-minded.

 

[Blase]

In here? Something like

wickedly sweet, subtle, sensual...

 

[Bramblethorn]

"Nerd, aspires to kindness" maybe?

 

[Zionisacat]

Good at maths

 

[seela]

Good at maths

Hah!

 

[midwestyankee]

For both spheres: teaching matters, learning more.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Vanilla: Outgoing, nerdy, passionate, persuasive

Kinky: Subdued, serving, curious, trusting

 

[Lady2020]

I kind of dislike the idea of "branding" on Lit. Maybe that's because it's too easy to assume things about others on here that aren't based on reality.

I guess if I had to choose 4 words/terms: power play, role play, don't rush me ( I want to enjoy it), love mature men who can put up with my schedule and directness.