Forced Male Chastity

[mrsmillwood]

For the purposes of a story I'm writing, I would like to know how long a college-aged athletic male could be locked in chastity before he was mentally 'broken.' Wouldn't there be a point when he would stop resisting his keyholder and willingly submit to her rule over him? Does having a chastity device on - without relief - have a long term psychological effect upon males of that age? As often as they need to get off, I would think being kept chaste would affect them greatly. And what about 'blue balls' setting in? Would that not happen as well? Thank you for your insight.

 

[PaxNurgle]

Very good, and informative post; thanks for that!

 

[mrsmillwood]

Mshorny4, thank you very much for your insightful analysis of the effects of chastity of a male. I never thought of it in the terms you described, but it does make sense. I will have to pause and consider how this works into my story. I had planned to keep him locked up entirely, but the periodic edging would most definitely keep him wanting. Hmmm...

 

[Everthen]

Hello. If anybody is interested in this subject still then let me know if I should bother putting in some time to try and cover a few various points. Thank you. Edit: alternatively feel free to private message me.

 

[traill]

For males one of the issues with chastity is also physical work or training. There's a lot of logistical issues as mshorny was saying that are generally ignored in stories and pornography. In general, we tend to also try several locks to see which one works best and in which situation. I also personally wouldn't describe getting aroused in one to be "painful" except in play situations where it does definitely actually get painful. In some cases, especially with physical movement cages can be incredibly uncomfortable and/or impractical. This mostly has to do with running or stuff like that where the cage generally should actually be taken off to avoid possible injuries (especially in the case of sports or physical labour).

 

[Downfor]

Locktober is upon us

 

[Goldenfinger]

Locktober is upon us

I’m afraid it falls upon deaf ears here now a days

 

[newhere2learn]

Mshorny4, thank you very much for your insightful analysis of the effects of chastity of a male. I never thought of it in the terms you described, but it does make sense. I will have to pause and consider how this works into my story. I had planned to keep him locked up entirely, but the periodic edging would most definitely keep him wanting. Hmmm...

I was caged mid/late 20s onwards. Longest stint was just under 2months.

However I was instructed to remove 3x per day and edge for 2minutes without cumming. The 2minutes used to just get me hard after being uncaged, then back on.

I alternated between raging horny, and not getting hard. If I saw a female colleague dressed sexily, I'd shoot precum into my cage and panties.


Night times are the worst. Sleep erections for me can last hours, 5-7hours sometimes and like granite.

This when caged was painful and hell.


The O when finally released and had sex, was mind-blowing.

 

[GeorgiaGuy48]

I am not really forced. It was a mutually agreed upon thing, and we have an agreement that if ever stopped being exciting to us anymore it will be removed and discarded. I am on a 2 week on / 1 week off cycle. It has been fun, I like it, I like that it interests her, and she pays attention to it, not just locked and forgotten about.

 

[MissMayhem69]

I'm not a huge fan of cages, personally. The aesthetic just doesn't work for me. I like making a man edge for me daily until I'm ready for him to release.
I particularly enjoy watching him do this while I drink my morning coffee. The routine of it speaks to me. When we've done this, there are times he's begged to cum and denying that need when he's on the edge, is where the power struggle is so sweet. Could I have et him? Sure and it would be fine. But it was better for us both if he waited. We would do this every morning until he just stopped asking and knew when to stop all on his own. That was total submission and I rewarded him. The reward wasn't an orgasm that we saved for later. And he would have told you it was well worth the wait.

Ah, I miss that man.

 

[GeorgiaGuy48]

As I stated above, I am not forced. This is something I do for my wife as she thinks is sexy and has said to me and thanked me for agreeing to be in chastity. The idea began while we were at a well-known adult-oriented resort in Jamaica. A couple that was there while we were there had no interest in hiding that fact that the man was in chastity. My wife commented on how sexy she thought it was. When we got back to the states, I offered to buy a cage, she said she would love that. At first it was play time fun, but after I had admitted to liking it, it became a permanent thing in our life.

 

[Goldenfinger]

As I stated above, I am not forced. This is something I do for my wife as she thinks is sexy and has said to me and thanked me for agreeing to be in chastity. The idea began while we were at a well-known adult-oriented resort in Jamaica. A couple that was there while we were there had no interest in hiding that fact that the man was in chastity. My wife commented on how sexy she thought it was. When we got back to the states, I offered to buy a cage, she said she would love that. At first it was play time fun, but after I had admitted to liking it, it became a permanent thing in our life.

Like you I’m not forced. It is something I gave to her willingly.

 

[GeorgiaGuy48]

Like you I’m not forced. It is something I gave to her willingly.

I am assuming that she likes it and appreciates it.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I am assuming that she likes it and appreciates it.

she does. She loves the control and the knowing that I gave her control of my erections and orgasms. she loves that they are all for her.

 

[GeorgiaGuy48]

she does. She loves the control and the knowing that I gave her control of my erections and orgasms. she loves that they are all for her.

When I offered it to my wife, she was elated, but somewhat surprised. After a month and I told her I loved it and wanted more, she was very excited by it.

 

[MissNikkiDomGurl]

For the purposes of a story I'm writing, I would like to know how long a college-aged athletic male could be locked in chastity before he was mentally 'broken.' Wouldn't there be a point when he would stop resisting his keyholder and willingly submit to her rule over him? Does having a chastity device on - without relief - have a long term psychological effect upon males of that age? As often as they need to get off, I would think being kept chaste would affect them greatly. And what about 'blue balls' setting in? Would that not happen as well? Thank you for your insight.

My personal experience as a keyholder for a few in that age group says that yes... It does have effects on behaviour. Now, my subjects are cd/sissy types, and most have a deep submissive streak, so that has to be taken into account. But, over a period of weeks, the neediness and submissiveness does grow exponentially!!! Im not sure that they become "broken", per se, but I think "more compliant" is certainly accurate. Im still trying to learn and understand the dynamics between between being submissive and the longer term effects of denial, but theyre certainly intertwined!!!

 

[staciedix]

My personal experience as a keyholder for a few in that age group says that yes... It does have effects on behaviour. Now, my subjects are cd/sissy types, and most have a deep submissive streak, so that has to be taken into account. But, over a period of weeks, the neediness and submissiveness does grow exponentially!!! Im not sure that they become "broken", per se, but I think "more compliant" is certainly accurate. Im still trying to learn and understand the dynamics between between being submissive and the longer term effects of denial, but theyre certainly intertwined!!!

I would like to try it to see if it gets tiny and if I get sexier

 

[Goldenfinger]

My personal experience as a keyholder for a few in that age group says that yes... It does have effects on behaviour. Now, my subjects are cd/sissy types, and most have a deep submissive streak, so that has to be taken into account. But, over a period of weeks, the neediness and submissiveness does grow exponentially!!! Im not sure that they become "broken", per se, but I think "more compliant" is certainly accurate. Im still trying to learn and understand the dynamics between between being submissive and the longer term effects of denial, but theyre certainly intertwined!!!

My wife says that I’m more attentive and mushy. I believe she is correct but for different reasons.