For those who were or are involved with married people

[Beck31]

Is/was it worth it? Apologies if there is already a thread on this subject.

 

[beeftestical]

She said she was in the process of getting a divorce and they'd been separated for about a year. I realize she could've been lying to me, but she was too attractive for rational thought.

 

[chargergirl]

Is/was it worth it? Apologies if there is already a thread on this subject.

Don't worry about it, it's fine.

 

[Scrubber]

At the time it seemed worth it.

Looking back, no.

 

[twister947]

Yes. Very.

 

[CuriousThroat2]

Don't worry about it, it's fine.

Yeah. One of my fetishes is reading threads where a thread already exists. It really gets me off DONTJUDGEME! =)

I've never been involved with an involved person, except in highschool with The Standard Nice-Guy Fallacy Relationships-- y'know, where I would crush on a girl, she'd have a boyfriend who I totally knew wasn't good for her, would "be there for her", lambast the guy for being a jerk who is faking his emotions and just wants to use her-- all the while effectively faking my "supportive" emotions for her just because I wanted to "use" her to date.

Ah, youth. =)

I can only assume mature, adult, healthy "open" relationship are much, much different.

 

[heatsink]

Why not, it's up to the individual. If the ride scares you stay on the pavement.

 

[Beck31]

Why not, it's up to the individual. If the ride scares you stay on the pavement.

Good point.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Not worth it for me. Single women are much less drama.

 

[IceyBlue]

I guess I'm the odd man out. Mind you I do her with the full knowledge and permission of both her husband and my wife.

And since the wife bedded her before I did, she can hardly protest now can she?

 

[Beck31]

involved...married

What can I say? I was young, dumb, and full of cum as the expression goes.
Now that I am older and much more mature I can say without a shadow of a doubt it was not worth the heartbreak.

 

[RedAllan]

Sleeping with a married woman. yes worth it we shared fetish that our partners did not, we kept emotional involvement out. Having said that I did become emotionally involved with a different married woman not worth the grief. Or as a married man becoming involved with another woman. Now only no strings.

 

[April99]

I have had a few encounters with married men and I loved every moment. It was just sex....hot hot sex...and I like it when there are no emotions involved.

 

[Beck31]

Good for you on the no emotion. I am just an emotional person. Silly I know in that sort of situation. Wish I did not keep falling for those who are only in it for sex.

 

[CurvAppeal]

I went over to this guys house -- he was so goddamn sexy. Jet black hair down to his shoulders, blue eyes....8 pack...muscular 6'1 -- him and I got done fucking and I lied down on his lap to rest and about two minutes later his Wife walks through the door. My clothes are next to me, I grab them and I walk up to her saying "hmm...your husband is a great fuck, don't lose him." Patted her back and walked out. (yes I walked out naked then got dressed by the door) I got an email from him almost a year later saying "surprisingly, you saved our marriage." strange how things work...

 

[BruisedBareback]

I was a booty call to a guy that later alluded to the fact that he was married. I felt horrible and didn't answer any of his messaging from that point on.

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

I wish a man would get involved with my married wife.

 

[30bandits]

I wish a man would get involved with my married wife.

ok, send me some more details....

 

[pearldiver69]

Even though I've been, oooh, so tempted ...... "Homie don't play dat!"

While I don't believe in garden fairies, ghosts, UFOs, or Big Foot, I do have a strong feeling that there's such a thing as "karma", although it probably has something to do with what's become my "conscience". In other words, what goes around, comes around. Awhile back, a friend was asked why he didn't take advantage of an "offer" from married woman who had come on to him. He replied, "What? Do I look bulletproof to you?"

 

[creampieluvr79]

Question For those who were or are involved with married people

Is/was it worth it? Apologies if there is already a thread on this subject.

I am involved with a married woman, my wife! It's definitely worth it! Outside of that I have no experience, nor do I truly wish to.

 

[RunningJib]

We enjoyed each other's company immensely

We're both were married at the time.

We made two rules--we didn't discuss are respective spouses and our relationship was just about sex.

And we had some wonderful sex

 

[TinyWetPanties]

I've slept with a married man once--my good friend's father.

It was a one time thing, and the dad and I still see each other every once and awhile, but that is about it.

I would never get involved with a married man if I was looking for a long term thing. Not worth the emotional energy, and chances are he won't leave his wife. I'd rather be alone than go through that heartache.

 

[Marcus63]

When I was younger I had sex or tried to have sex with anyone I found sexually appealing. I ended up having a relationship with three different married women and at the time, because of the excitement of a new relationship and the fact that they were all very sexual beings, I thought it was ok.

Now, because I know I wasted a lot of time in dead end relationships, and the fact that I fell differently about having sex with anyone but my wife, I don't think it is ok.

I indulge in fantasy about neighbors and other women, but I don't think I could truly act on it.

 

[Japanafana]

I've had short flings with three married men (that I know of) to me it was worth it as The sex was great and I knew not to get attached. Also, these guys were serial cheaters so I didn't feel guilty like I was the one ruining their moral code. Pretty much the other way around actually.

 

[Aurelia_Malys]

Is/was it worth it? Apologies if there is already a thread on this subject.

I carried a lot of guilt when I was involved with a married man.