For Those Who Feel Disenfranchised

aledon

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This post is going to be long and there of those of you who want me to get to the point. My point is that I am looking and I am just as lonely as you are..... Do I know what I am looking for..... well, yes, I do.... I am looking for openness, honesty, sincerity, politeness, tolerance, acceptance, sexual turn-ons, sharing of feelings, mentors, proteges, friendship.......and, the list could go on and on..... just like your list......

Once I stated that I was open to anything and got slammed because I obviously did not mean everything, that should have been qualified.... and, yes, that is true and I stand (or sit) corrected.

I have nothing to prove and nothing to gain other than frienship. So, if you want to be macho and carry a gun, I will support your right to do so.....

But, while we are doing our "verbal tangos" can we not become friends?

So, that is what I am looking for here, and my additional comments are below......


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Roget's New Millennium™ Thesaurus - Cite This Source
Main Entry: powerless
Part of Speech: adjective
Definition: weak
Synonyms: blank, chicken*, debilitated, defenseless, dependent, disabled, disenfranchised, dud, etiolated, feeble, frail, gutless, helpless, impotent, incapable, incapacitated, ineffective, ineffectual, inert, infirm, paralyzed, passive, prostrate, putty, subject, supine, tapped, tapped out, tied, unable, unarmed, unfit, vulnerable, wimp*, wishy-washy*
Antonyms: powerful, strong
Source: Roget's New Millennium™ Thesaurus, First Edition (v 1.3.1)
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* = informal or slang

I am not sure how long that I have been a member here, but I am not sure if that really matters. And, I know that I have not posted that often and when I do, I undoubtedly piss someone off, because of whatever.... if I have pissed you off recently, I apologize, but as a teacher of adult learners, I try to stimulate conversation and I guess sometimes I take this too far. And, I am truly sorry.

But, I am like YOU (in some way, shape, or fashion) otherwise, I would not take the time to post here. And, I am not representing any agency of law enforcement to try and entrap you.

I guess I am disenfranchised like my definition indicates above........

I am in my 50"s, married (twice), well educated (although it has not really done much for me) attended Woodstock and VietNam (although this was only a part-time job)... As I mentioned I am a teacher. But, I am also an aritst (painter, photography, drawings) and somewhat of a writer, although nothing has really been published yet other than I find myself in a couple of Anthologies.....

Do I like online posting? I guess I do, otherwise I would not continue to spend time here..... Do I live through the experiences of others? Well, yes, in part, but mainly through the stories that I read...which is why I got interested in Literotica from the getgo..... The stories that I like are: Loving Wives, Incest, Lesbian, Gay, Interracial, Mind Control, and Non-consent..... However, I am open to almost any kind of literature because I look also at the way it was written, and the style, and the use of words and phases, and the sensations that have been created in the mind of the reader.

Posting on the Forums is a way of extending that connection and expanding on the experiences that I have received from the reading...

However, like you, I tend to want more. I begin to look, not just for people who share my same feelings, but for those who will email me at my personal address so that we can be free from the scrunity of the general public. Some like cybering and some actually have meetings......

But, for me at least, as soon as I get too honest or too personal with the other person, then, the relationship has to stop, and this is always by the other person. And, this usually results when I start to disclose who I am, like married, and oh shit, I only want single. Or, I have a penis that is cut, and oh shit, I don't want that either.... Or, I send a photo, and now the other person feels that they are in a position where they will need to send one, and they have lied about who they are........so, oh shit, better stop this right now....

IT IS THOSE PEOPLE TO WHOM I REFER TO AS THE DISENFRANCHISED AND WHO ARE LIKE ME!!!

So, regardless of your personal limitations, feelings, handicaps, and/or personal appearances, this THREAD is for you......

all I ask is that you take off your mask (you can still keep your fake name) and just be honest with the rest of us...... and, let's just share our feelings, wants, desires, needs, etc.

I mean, this is the US of A, United we Stand and divided we fall............

I am an old fart with many experiences...... I grew up in the 60's during the time of drugs and free love and anti-establishment...... I went to Woodstock and VietNam.... I went to High School in Cairo, Egypt and have traveled all over Europe (getting thrown into all the best jails)... I have been married twice, had numerous affairs while married, had several interracial affairs as well....... I have run alcohol from VA to NC during the race riots of the 70's..... have sat in gasoline lines in the 70's as well.... I have been with other couples (both male and female)....

AND, I have managed to remain drug and disease free......

I have owned a muscle car - '67 Barracuda with a 383........

I have worked as a laborer, janitor, supervisor, and manager..... I have run my own consulting company.......

But, my thoughts are still in the 60's...........

So, if you want to stop the pretenses and be who you are and want to be, and let others be who they want to be - live and let live - then, stop by and have a chat with me or put your thoughts down....... and, let's begin to respect one another for our differences and opinions and become friends...

Now, some of the femdoms are not going to readily accept this because I really do that all of us were created equally... Because we are have to be born, we all have to die, and while we are alive, we all have to beathe and pay taxes....

I am a Scorpio....
I am a middle child...
I am an INTJ - according to Meyers-Briggs Personality Profile
I wear glasses
I am average in looks and in size
In the 3rd grade I was told that I looked like a monkey and have been bother by that for the rest of my life
I have failed in marriage, at least once
I am liberal in my politics and conservative in my economics
I do not carry a firearm
I believe that world peace can eventually be created
I believe that everyone has the right to become educated
I believe in globalization
I am spiritual in nature
I enjoy listening to books on tape as I read very slow
I am a Southerner
I am an American
I am a citizen of the world
I try to embrace all cultures and all races
I am not wealthy
I love to drink coffee
I don't smoke but I used to
I like to drink wine
I have used pirated software
I have a collection of videos from Morpheus and LimeWire
I can build and repair computers
I love to fantasize and I am very curious about many things
I am over-weight


I am who I am............ so, why not let yourself be who you are.... introspection......

Well, I think this is enough to get us started on some topics, if the Forum Monitors let my post be posted.....

TTYL
 
Another place to make friends in the Literotica world are in the various specialty Forums. GLBT, BDSM, Stories, Poetry... There are many niches, nooks and crannies, with people who have lots of different interests, fetishes, ideas to share, etc.

I've made many OL friends through the BDSM forum, you might find lots of like minded souls out there in the Forum(s) that matches your interests. Good hunting!
 
Bravo!

while i am not a dedicated user on literotica, i only joined about a month ago as a matter of fact, i would just like to say that you sir, are an excellent person and should be given a round of applause for this. i think that to admit many flaws that you have found in yourself and all of the things you think you excell at, on a internet site where so many people exadgerate themselves and there accomplishments, and where it is easy to lie about oneself, to come in and state the truth and ask others to do the same, i think you are a hero in your own right, and i hope you feel liberated, and i hope that other people here recognize what kind of courage and dedication that took , i just want to say thank you for being a real individual and i hope that you get everything you look for on this site

admirably, mbrotation
 
I don't think I've ever come across you before so you haven't pissed me off. I would have loved to have gone to Woodstock! If only I had been born sooner. I would have raised a lot more hell. What you said was written very well. Maybe more people will stop by to say hi.
 
Thank you, each and everyone of you, both those who read and did not respond and those who read and did respond.....
 
All was very well written and wonderfully thought out... Kudos! :rose:
I sincerely hope you find what you're looking for.
 
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