For the record

[BlkPnthr]

This is NOT a flame post, nor an attack on anyone. I'd just like to point one thing out to everyone. Take what you read as you will and do with it as you will.

Anyone who came to my defense at any given time in the "big battle" did so of thier own volition. I did not ask anyone to stand up for me and I did not mention anyones name who did go up to bat for me. I believe I was extremely respectful in this manner. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. Yes, certain people asked me a few times to not bother posting responses, or take the bait. So does that truely make me disrespectful towards anyone who is/was associated with me? Not everyone heeds warnings all the time, and this is a fact.

If anyone truely believes that I dragged any "friend" into this, well you may want to take a step back yourselves as I have done, and look at it. Not once will you see me mention anyones name, who I respect, while posting a flame, or slinging shit as you all call it. Does this make me less of a friend? Any logical person would think not. On the same token, countless times, the opposing parties had dragged others into it all. Somehow it's justified for them but not myself, even though I didn't do that.

You all have your opinions of me based on my actions. That's all fine and well, and I won't try to change how you view me. Those who do know me, know I am not as dimwitted as a fair number of people have stated. Call me a drama queen, or whatever terms you want to use. Really makes no difference to me. However, I will not let this go completely without stating that I am the second half to the negativity that's been floating around here. It takes two or more to tango. Nothing is one sided.


So again....to anyone who was not directly involved but was offended in any way shape or form by my posts/comments, I am sorry. I will not apologise for the actions of others however.

 

[Starfish]

Huh? Hey forget about this shit.

Mostly everyone will see your apology and will try to get to know you from here on out... Mostly.

Try and make the next thread you start be about hardcore fucking or about how ppman has a crystal cut, red, white and blue, led filled glass bottle up his ass just waiting to drop on the USA from 50,000 ft in attepmts to take out a visiting Canadian with it.


Just a tip.

 

[BlkPnthr]

Of course....forget about it. Let's not put any responsibility for it all on anyone but me right? Everyone else can just go about thier merry way without having to accept blame or responsibility for thier roles in it. Am I the only one who is strong enough to admit when I am wrong?

Cory

 

[Starfish]

Am I the only one who is strong enough to admit when I am wrong?

Cory

Maybe, maybe not. But be it with them to decide, not you.

Did the insults make you feel inferioriated by them? If so, then say so. You might be suprised.

I think that some here have natural humility and others do not. You will not get an apology from some because they feel that based on what you did, they were entitled to be enraged and say things to you. Others will not want to have bad feelings about you, if you indeed prove to be a likable person. They were on the defensive and outraged by you too, because of the meanness that you showed Cheyenne. Are they really at fault for what they said to you? That is for each of them to decide for thier own selves.

Your concious led you to care and feel bad for what you did. Who is to say that they won't feel regret and learn from having said things in rage to you.

Just some thoughts.

 

[BlkPnthr]

Time will tell I reckon, but I am not going to hold my breath.

 

[Sabineteas]

You know, I try to stay out of this but I cannot.

BP, just let it go. Every new thread is like a new boil on too many people's butts. If you cannot let it go, then follow through on your statement that you were going to live the General Board and do it once and for all.

You keep saying you want to be done with this, then do it. Stop posting about it, stop starting new threads. Just stop it.

And so you know, I read all of the crap that you started and others did too. None of what is going on now makes any sense or is in any way productive for anyone. Got that? For Anyone.

I just want to come here and not see another thread about you or people that you are having problems with here.

Take it to PMs for god's sake. If you keep posting on this crap, you have enough of a reputation with people that you are going to get flamed. Period, end of story. The only way is to re-build your rep so that people don't think you are an ass. You are not doing that with posts like this.

And if you don't want to be flamed change your attitude. You are bringing it on yourself.

 

[Starfish]

What I am about to say could only manage to put you on the defensive moreso than now, but I only call it as I see it. If I am going to discuss this matter than I am going to tell you how it is.

Not how you see, Not how I see it.... How it is. How it is on this board....


Something you have to understand is that you are alone responsible for putting those people in the postition to be outraged and thus increasing the chances for being attacked.

You do not try and get in the middle of a pack of animals and try and attack someone and not get attacked by the others that are protective in nature. It is just not wise.

Hurtful or not, you came into a situation and you treated someone with total lack of respect and attacked them with words of spitefulness and hate and you allowed to be shown publicly. We all saw it, and we all said.... that person could be talking to ANY of us.

???What to do???? Are we just going to sit here and let this person be a total dick to this person, and then the next one and the next one, utill they prove to be a troll or let them know that we don't and won't put up with it, insults included?
Are we going to react?

Some do, and will, and it can get ugly.

What did you expect? Really?

I am not sure if I understand your emotional situation, but you can't vent your real life feelings here on us and then expect us to ask you to forgive us for being royally pissed and saying things to you in anger. It is ostentatious of you, with a touch of pretentiousness, to expect that or anything....
hence Problem Child viewing you as a drama queen.

You really must see this and move on. You did right in the end and that is all anyone can expect.

 

[Guest]

 

[EvilBrat74]

I must have missed this one.
LOL

 

[MissTaken]

Moving on ...

How is everyone this morning?

Coffee, tea or...............


starfishie?

*winks at starfish*

 

[tn_8tiv]

Re: Moving on ...

How is everyone this morning?

Coffee, tea or...............

Yes please

 

[Guest]

Coffee please.

 

[EvilBrat74]

*mumblin*
That 74.
That post by EvilBrat was me.