There is not one single type of course, but I have such sincere appreciation for all those lovely ladies out there that just rock what they got. There are many great examples of gorgeous women that post here, of all different body types... but sadly too many women that are still so self conscious of their looks. Ladies, moms, you have earned your marks, your scars, and your curves. They are only flaws in your eyes. Believe it or not, others do see past that stuff! Beauty is in your attitude, and sexy is in your confidence. Give it a try - strut your stuff and be the confident sexy woman that others already see in you. Just sayin...
For the love of the mom bod...
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One of the best posts ever made
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Heck yes it is.
That was so beautifully written! I really needed to read this at this point in my life. At 35, I haven't had children (my dogs are my children 
) but I have struggled with weight issues my whole life and self acceptance. Though I have lost the weight, there are many reminders that it was there. I need to remember that what I see is not what everyone else sees and embrace who I am. Very hard to do for most people. Thank you for reminding us to love ourselves. 
) but I have struggled with weight issues my whole life and self acceptance. Though I have lost the weight, there are many reminders that it was there. I need to remember that what I see is not what everyone else sees and embrace who I am. Very hard to do for most people. Thank you for reminding us to love ourselves. 
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That was so beautifully written! I really needed to read this at this point in my life. At 35, I haven't had children (my dogs are my children
This is the worst "crime" that men as a whole have committed, we've made entire sections of the female populace feel less than beautiful because of some arbitrary ideas of what a woman "should" look like. Without remembering that we all like different bodies, personality, and confidence levels.
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Nailed it! I spend half my life telling my wife this, curves and baby scars are earned and beautiful.
All women are beautiful.
There are enough external challenges in life, that there is no need to create additional barriers for yourself.
And that's not to say that people don't have their own preferences and everybody is going to like everything, but there is definitely no place better than here to show that there is pretty much a taste for whatever you got!!!
Love yourself first and foremost!
And that's not to say that people don't have their own preferences and everybody is going to like everything, but there is definitely no place better than here to show that there is pretty much a taste for whatever you got!!!
Love yourself first and foremost!
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I'd take issue with the opinion that this is the "worst crime committed by men...".
From my observations it is a crime committed by women against their own. It is "women's media" that sets this unreal and, for most women, unachievable body image stereotypes. Not men.
And yet, still so gorgeous!!!
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Like!
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Absolutely wonderful post. It is EXACTLY how I feel about so called 'older' women. Bravo.. bravo.. bravo
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There's a lot of companies that would go bankrupt if people woke up and decided they looked fine.
I think a good way to tell if a thought is genuine or an imposed insecurity from an outside force is to ask yourself, "Who profits from this emotion?"
If the answer is you, because you genuinely want to change your own aesthetics, then go for it.
If the answer is some weight-loss company, or make-up company, or literally anyone except for you- you've been programmed. It's not really about you. And then you can figure out what you want to do with that information.
I think a good way to tell if a thought is genuine or an imposed insecurity from an outside force is to ask yourself, "Who profits from this emotion?"
If the answer is you, because you genuinely want to change your own aesthetics, then go for it.
If the answer is some weight-loss company, or make-up company, or literally anyone except for you- you've been programmed. It's not really about you. And then you can figure out what you want to do with that information.
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This is so refreshing to read. For years I'd never let hubby near me with a camera. Only lately have I allowed him not only to shoot me nude but also take pics and vids during my dates. Believe me, I'm nowhere near anyone's fantasy woman as far as looks go. But when I met my husband 38 years ago, I decided after 4 days that he was going to be mine forever. I adopted that attitude and the attitude that I'd do whatever it took to keep him. Must have worked, we're more in love now than ever.
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Enjoy it.
One of the most refreshing things about Fetlife when I browsed was that women of a shapes, sizes, ages and styles were worshipped and adored.
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Wow so damn sexy!
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