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THROBBS

I am Fauve
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So The Playground is for:
"If you want to talk about personals, instead of posting a personal ad, please do it here!"


I'm far from naive, so I fully expect some: exaggeration, hyperbole, evasiveness, bluffing etc. in profiles, on posts etc.

I am also well aware that there is plenty of phishing going on.

I sure hope that most other people are aware and that few are duped or hurt by it, either emotionally and/or financially.

I've had a few responses in PMs that are....umm.... "suspect" :rolleyes:

"too good to be true"
very few substantial posts.
Posts that have info which fluctuates over years — age waxing and waning over the years.

Of course a few are VERY obvious spammers and they get reported, but what to do, what to do about those less blatant?
ex: not being strictly "cut and paste" PMs
 
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Unfortunately, there are more fakers and scammers now that we are in the age of heavy social media posting. It is rampant everywhere, not just on LIT. These people prey on those that are trusting. Of course they also prey on those that are greedy. It is an age old problem long before fire and the wheel most likely but today it is so much easier to remain anonymous and tell lies that cannot really be verified.

I think all we can really do is listen to that "little voice in our head or gut" and be careful. And if we see the scammers report them and warn others.
 
True.

I wonder about "alerting" folk...
The most recent incident made me consider naming a name, but...

maybe not.
 
This seems to be a common theme today. :eek:

Wait.....
Ami not a 43 year old man from sheffield UK.??

ooo goody.

Can i be a 25 year old girl from Leeds:D:heart:

Sorry sarcasm is my first form of reply.
I work in the industry and i can tell you about 30-45% of profiles out there are fake.
I dont know if this is reflected on here.
 
Wait.....
Ami not a 43 year old man from sheffield UK.??

ooo goody.

Can i be a 25 year old girl from Leeds:D:heart:

Sorry sarcasm is my first form of reply.
I work in the industry and i can tell you about 30-45% of profiles out there are fake.
I dont know if this is reflected on here.

LOL. I should totally shave 20 years and 10 pounds off and add 6 inches of leg. I'll keep my own boobs though.
My guess all along has been that 50% of the "female" profiles on here are bored/horny guys.
I can spot the difference between a guy pretending to be a woman and an actual woman almost all the time.
I'm always shocked when people can't seem to tell on a thread, but I figure some of it has to be embracing the fantasy yes?
 
LOL. I should totally shave 20 years and 10 pounds off and add 6 inches of leg. I'll keep my own boobs though.
My guess all along has been that 50% of the "female" profiles on here are bored/horny guys.
I can spot the difference between a guy pretending to be a woman and an actual woman almost all the time.
I'm always shocked when people can't seem to tell on a thread, but I figure some of it has to be embracing the fantasy yes?

Really? I've never noticed! I guess I lack that skill. I need a list or something. LoL
 
Ok, I admit it. I'm a hologram that only Dr. Sam Beckett, children, and animals can see.
 
I'm a 54 year old curvy grandma. Down to earth and as real as it gets. It may not make me popular but it sure keeps me truthful.
 
Wait.....
Ami not a 43 year old man from sheffield UK.??

ooo goody.

Can i be a 25 year old girl from Leeds:D:heart:

Sorry sarcasm is my first form of reply.
I work in the industry and i can tell you about 30-45% of profiles out there are fake.
I dont know if this is reflected on here.

Seriously this made me laugh! Great post!!!

LOL. I should totally shave 20 years and 10 pounds off and add 6 inches of leg. I'll keep my own boobs though.
My guess all along has been that 50% of the "female" profiles on here are bored/horny guys.
I can spot the difference between a guy pretending to be a woman and an actual woman almost all the time.
I'm always shocked when people can't seem to tell on a thread, but I figure some of it has to be embracing the fantasy yes?

In the interests of the above, I have decided that I am 5'10" and around 170lbs.
Oh, and lets add curly dark hair and kind of rugged good looks....
Hell, let's just say I'm Patrick Dempsey...That works for me. You can call me McDreamy!

I'm a 54 year old curvy grandma. Down to earth and as real as it gets. It may not make me popular but it sure keeps me truthful.

You forgot sexy...you're a 54 year old sexy curvy grandma...

:rose:
 
Seriously this made me laugh! Great post!!!



In the interests of the above, I have decided that I am 5'10" and around 170lbs.
Oh, and lets add curly dark hair and kind of rugged good looks....
Hell, let's just say I'm Patrick Dempsey...That works for me. You can call me McDreamy!



You forgot sexy...you're a 54 year old sexy curvy grandma...

:rose:

I was going to respond with what you can call me but I can't think of the name of a single 25 year old actress. LOL
Wait! I'll be Blake Lively I think she's about that old.
 
LOL. I should totally shave 20 years and 10 pounds off and add 6 inches of leg. I'll keep my own boobs though.
My guess all along has been that 50% of the "female" profiles on here are bored/horny guys.
I can spot the difference between a guy pretending to be a woman and an actual woman almost all the time.
I'm always shocked when people can't seem to tell on a thread, but I figure some of it has to be embracing the fantasy yes?

Is it only me who wants to know more about these amazing boobs.???:devil:
 
I was going to respond with what you can call me but I can't think of the name of a single 25 year old actress. LOL
Wait! I'll be Blake Lively I think she's about that old.

Well, I'm not sure why you want to be 25, I don't want to go through all that SHIT again...;)

Why don't you be Emily Deschanel...sigh...;)

Is it only me who wants to know more about these amazing boobs.???:devil:

Nope, not just you....so tell us about them...eh??? :devil:
 
Well, I'm not sure why you want to be 25, I don't want to go through all that SHIT again...;)

Why don't you be Emily Deschanel...sigh...;)



Nope, not just you....so tell us about them...eh??? :devil:

Why be 25? Energy. Stamina. Abs. :D

Emily Deschanel? I think Zooey is hotter. Although I currently have a thing for Gal Gadot if we're being honest here. I don't know if I want to be her, hang out with her or fool around with her, but I think I'd be ok with any of the above.

https://thumbs.worthpoint.com/zoom/images1/1/1207/05/fantasy-pin-sexy-tinkerbell-as-wonder-woman_1_6bc55bd62db495be7a9e2f8535ce3b51.jpg
 
Why be 25? Energy. Stamina. Abs. :D

Emily Deschanel? I think Zooey is hotter. Although I currently have a thing for Gal Gadot if we're being honest here. I don't know if I want to be her, hang out with her or fool around with her, but I think I'd be ok with any of the above.

https://thumbs.worthpoint.com/zoom/images1/1/1207/05/fantasy-pin-sexy-tinkerbell-as-wonder-woman_1_6bc55bd62db495be7a9e2f8535ce3b51.jpg

I work with a woman who is the spitting image of gal gadot
She keeps promising me a pic of her dressed as wonder woman.:eek:
 
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