For Piper and other romantics, best place to cuddle?

[jamjunior]

Sex is wonderful, don't get me wrong. I am ike most males, and we usually can take or leave anything that isn't on a direct path towards the Big O.

But I want to know about cuddling, foreplay, and anteplay. Where is the best place to just cuddle, or cuddling with a purpose. Are there any particular techniques that you like, either for relaxation or stimulation.

Get to the details, you may help a (another?) male to be a better lover, boyfriend, and/or soul mate. IT'S ALL UP TO YOU!

JAM


Edited to actually be English.....[/SIZE]

 

[jamjunior]

Also.....

Just to mention, if someone wants to help tutor me, it would be greatly appreciated.



JAM

 

[DustyWolfe]

If you want intimacy, cuddling is where it is at. You don't have to worry about pleasing each other or anything. Just sit on the couch listening to music or watching a fire in the fireplace and enjoy being with each other, touching and caressing and loving fully.

Massages are always good for relaxation and often make for good foreplay....

 

[jamjunior]

Thank you

If you want intimacy, cuddling is where it is at. You don't have to worry about pleasing each other or anything. Just sit on the couch listening to music or watching a fire in the fireplace and enjoy being with each other, touching and caressing and loving fully.

Massages are always good for relaxation and often make for good foreplay....

Thanks for posting Dusty.

Here is what I wonder about. Without being to sexist, I think most males are very goal oriented. We all know what that goal is. Women, on the other hand, do not appear to me to enter intimacy with a particular goal in mind. This makes them more receptive to long periods of time of purposelessness.

Yet, I don't think that women view this time as purposeless. How do you keep it interesting for the man? Or is there an attitude change necessary on my (the male's) part?

Or am I completely off base?

JAM

 

[jamjunior]

Massages are always good for relaxation and often make for good foreplay....

Oops, shouldn't have ended that last post.

I remember a scene from Friends where Monica and Rachel are telling Joey how to pleasure a woman without penetration. Seven spots, like behind the kneecap, the ear, and others.....

What do you like to have massaged? What don't you like?

JAM

 

[tigerjen]

oohhhh cuddling and snuggling w/ a lover is wonderful
esp. when its cold outside.........



tigerjen

PS.....i agree that massages are a wonderful part of
the intimacy aspect.....I've been told that I give good
massages

 

[riff]

Spread some blankets and pilliow on the floor and watch old movies. The couch and bed are fine too.

 

[pipercatt]

Hey JamJr,

Looks like I need to stalk you more often! (grin) I had no idea you'd posted this thread.

So, you think I am a romantic, huh? I never thought of myself as one before...LOL.

Cuddling is wunnerful. I can do it anytime, anyplace. In the car, to and from destinations, in bed, in the bath tub.

Standing up in the kitchen while cooking dinner or doing dishes, if a man comes up behind me and kisses my neck, puts his arms around me, lets me lean into him - another form of cuddling.

Watching TV, cuddling on the couch.

ok, so maybe I am romantic...lol.

Thanks for the thread, sweetness...I hope more people post here...

 

[aussie-Couple]

CRACKLE - goes the fire
POP - goes the champagne
AHHHH - Nice Warm Fuzzies everywhere tonight!

 

[Belilica]

I make it a point to cuddle with my sweetie every night before bed, at least for a few minutes. Watching movies is great, naked, under blankets, him behind me

-Bel

 

[freescorfr]

I make it a point to cuddle with my sweetie every night before bed, at least for a few minutes. Watching movies is great, naked, under blankets, him behind me

-Bel

Me behind her, balls and willie snuggled up to a warm bum. But the question is where? In a tent, in a parador. Siesta time.

 

[Belilica]

freescorfr,

That sounds wonderful, and anywhere is great!

-Bel

 

[Allexus_TN]

My personal fav is on the couch, under a quilt. Watching some sappy movie.
However, our pool offers a nice place in the evenings when no one is around. We just wrap our arms around each other and talk and kiss and snuggle in the water.

 

[pipercatt]

My personal fav is on the couch, under a quilt. Watching some sappy movie.
However, our pool offers a nice place in the evenings when no one is around. We just wrap our arms around each other and talk and kiss and snuggle in the water.

oh yes, pool...hot tub, bath tub, shower...there is a reason I am a water sign!!

 

[lobito]

Be careful, I hear that cuddling stuff leads to other things.

My Wife and I like to cuddle on the floor, ontop of some blankets, or out on the deck, around a fire in the chimenea.

 

[jamjunior]

oh yes, pool...hot tub, bath tub, shower...there is a reason I am a water sign!!

O.K. I have to ask. Is the AV you? It almost looks professional, but I'm thinking that it's not.

If so, then all I need now is a hot tub....

JAM

 

[pipercatt]

O.K. I have to ask. Is the AV you? It almost looks professional, but I'm thinking that it's not.

If so, then all I need now is a hot tub....

JAM

It's not, unfortunately..I found it last night. Thought it was a great match considering the catsuit and the celebratory balloons, though.

does this mean no hot tub???

Just my friggin' luck...

 

[Impetus]

ooh, ooh, ooh...

Ack! I am *such* a romantic I *have* to post here.

Here, i'll even make a list: top cuddling places, in the order in which they come to me

1) Bed (obviously)
2) Couch (almost as obviously)
3) Outdoors under the starts (Note: this doesn't work in my native state of Alaska...the Mosquitos will *kill you*)
4) The Dance floor (Oh yes...good music)
5) Anywhere outdoors but alone (It's almost like exhibitionism)
6) In front of a fire (Cheeze!)
7) On a Boat (Nice rocking motion, but bring a blanket in case it gets cold)
8) Anywhere with someone you love (awww...)
9) A treehouse (Childhood memories...)
10) A Classroom (Works better if one of you is a teacher...and alone)
11) In a Dojo (Very eastern...and I just love martial arts)
12) In a Hotel (What is it about hotels...?)
13) In a library (Books are *SO* sexy)
14) On the Moon (I wish)
15) At work after everyone else has gone home
16) A park bench (She won't bring a coat, but she'll take yours, guys, so wear two)
17) The Theatre (Romance movies!)
18) My House (with me)
19) Almost anywhere with neat-colored lights (Discos and Head shops being notable exceptions...buy your own colored lights!)
20) Church (Not in a blasphemous way...)
21) A sexy, low-key, Jazz/Blues/Beatnic Poetry bar (With Barry White on the mic)
22) In the Trance section of a rave (Okay, it's not *quite* cuddling, but I think raves are romantic...or at least sexy)
23) In a Hospital Bed (The healing powers of love)
24) An Empty Concert Hall (Where even the gentle sound of her breathing is echoed a thousand times)
25) At a Performance of Adagio for strings (Serious cuddle-music)

It's time for me to go to bed now...I must stop. Pitty, this was fun.

-I