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Not many of you may have heard but Nirvana is in South Africa at the moment.
A very close and dear friend of hers was brutally murdered. This lovely woman lived next door to her parents house, her dad found her.
Without going into the horrid details I do want to say that the murderer was caught.

From what I briefly learned of this woman was that we have lost a truly beautiful, smart and loving human being. I can see why Nirvana loved her.

I know many have sent her emails and PM's but I thought it might be nice for her to come home to a thread of well wishes and happy thoughts. She's going to need them.

So if you would like to express something, I'm sure she would love it. :rose:

And a special :rose: to femininity for being such a great friend to her at this time.

Thank you,
Abs.
 
My best to her and her family.
And the understanding of loosing a dear friend!

Forever in the plight that life is
there is always a light that shines
whether it be from heaven or next door
the light will shine on us to light our way.

:heart:
 
Nirvana, remember that you have friends here who love you and will give you all the support you need. You are in our thoughts. :heart: :heart: :heart:
 
Nirvana
All my thoughts and wishes go out to you at this time.
You are loved and cared for by so many.
Condolences through this horrible period.
:rose: :heart: :rose:

Hugo
 
Nirvana, I don't know if references to the sentimental American movie "It's a Wonderful Life" crosses cultures, but like the character played by Jimmy Stewart, it's remarkable how your life touches so many others in such positive ways. Be well, doll - we are all thinking of you and share your pain.
:rose:
 
I love you Vana. So many times you have been the reason i get up and go on when i feel like i should stay down way down. You lift me up even if it is a thought of you or a call or a text message. I have never met anyone who gives so completely of who they are to everyone who needs it. You are the best friend that I could ever imagine having and more. Thanks for always being there for me even when i was an idiotic woman too much in love to see what was best for us. The friendship we share is very important to me. I am here for you for whatever you need. You know where to find me. :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :kiss:
 
I Measure Every Grief

I measure every grief I meet
With analytic eyes;
I wonder if it weighs like mine,
Or has an easier size.

I wonder if they bore it long,
Or did it just begin?
I could not tell the date of mine,
It feels so old a pain.

I wonder if it hurts to live,
And if they have to try,
And whether, could they choose between,
They would not rather die.

I wonder if when years have piled--
Some thousands--on the cause
Of early hurt, if such a lapse
Could give them any pause;

Or would they go on aching still
Through centuries above,
Enlightened to a larger pain
By contrast with the love.

The grieved are many, I am told;
The reason deeper lies,--
Death is but one and comes but once
And only nails the eyes.

There's grief of want, and grief of cold,
A sort they call 'despair,'
There's banishment from native eyes,
In sight of native air.

And though I may not guess the kind
Correctly yet to me
A piercing comfort it affords
In passing Calvary,

To note the fashions of the cross
Of those that stand alone
Still fascinated to presume
That some are like my own.

~ Emily Dickinson ~



Love always Kitten. I honour you with two posts. One from the poetry part of my soul. The other from the Goddess. Blessed be :rose:
 
Nirvana, my inestimable Dragoness, my heart is with you through this painful time, you have many shoulders to cry on should you need to.. :rose:
 
My thoughts, prayers, hugs and kisses go to you and yours. May they be a comfort that adds up with the others and gives you a bit of a smile. :kiss: :kiss: Thinking of you my friend. :kiss:
 
Platitudes are a waste of time, breath, and space. i don't give them.

However, i offer a shoulder and an ear if needed.
 
If and when you need to talk, if and when you want to cry..please consider me a friend that you can safely do those things with.

You are in my thoughts. :rose:
 
“Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. Christopher Robin to Pooh” :)
 
I posted a craving for you after I got your email.

You have been there for me, and I am here for you, sweetie, whatever you need, just let me know. :rose: :heart:
 
I am so sorry to hear that. I just got the message. You have my condolences.
 
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