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[SxyTigress76]

The best term for me is Bi-Curious (I guess)

If it was a girl with a strapon (or a dildo) I would pretty much give it the ok.

I guess some of the fascination comes from porn (involving DP BTW)

With those clubs, I'll bet the ladies night outnumbers the mens nights 3:1 (or so)

We went on a single guys night which is on a Friday & there were a bunch of guys there, not too many single ladies there on the nights we went...ladies night & guy nights are totally on different days with couples being able to go whenever they want.

 

[Elengil]

I'm curious as to how that works though. Is it kind of like a party setup, where people just "mingle" and if someone strikes your fancy, you and your partner invite them to a private room of sorts.

 

[Silverbackdad]

I'm curious as to how that works though. Is it kind of like a party setup, where people just "mingle" and if someone strikes your fancy, you and your partner invite them to a private room of sorts.

Well, the last time I went to a club, which was in a small town out west called Las Vegas, it was pretty much that. There was a cash bar, many people sitting, talking, and such, just basically mingleing. There were some private areas, which weren't very private.....you could watch people having at it, and no one complained. There was a dungeon room, a couples only room, where singles couldn't get in unless escorted by a couple,and an orgy room. The orgy room was odd, because you had to sign up for it, you had to be a couple or a single lady, and the room was fairly large, with one wall made from three sheets of glass floor to ceiling, and streching the entire length of the wall, about 30 feet. Sometimes the action outside the orgy room was better than inside it. I guess the best way is to not be to uptight, and go visit them.......and ask questions..they are always very ready to answer, so that you will learn exactly what is going on ahead of time, and be comfortable while inside. The number one rule, which is almost anywhere is a simple..NO means NO. Go check one out, call them up, find out what is what, and when you are here, you are amongst friends.

 

[SxyTigress76]

I'm curious as to how that works though. Is it kind of like a party setup, where people just "mingle" and if someone strikes your fancy, you and your partner invite them to a private room of sorts.

There's a bar. You bring your own alcohol & they provide the mixers. There's a DJ, dance floor, another bar in the back, then there are different rooms (Semi private, private, a massage room & a fantasy room). There's porn on the TV's all throughout the club, there is a buffet (which has some good food surprisingly, even better when you are drunk & it's 2a.m. lol). Basically, we just hang out at the bar, everyonce in awhile we head back to see if anyone is fucking, there are couches in the main bar area..etc..etc... We were invited back to a private room with one couple, I licked her pussy, she sucked my man off, and then each couple fucked their significant others. The last two times we went, Jay brought my pocket rocket in & he got me off at the pool table & at the bar

 

[SxyTigress76]

Well, the last time I went to a club, which was in a small town out west called Las Vegas, it was pretty much that. There was a cash bar, many people sitting, talking, and such, just basically mingleing. There were some private areas, which weren't very private.....you could watch people having at it, and no one complained. There was a dungeon room, a couples only room, where singles couldn't get in unless escorted by a couple,and an orgy room. The orgy room was odd, because you had to sign up for it, you had to be a couple or a single lady, and the room was fairly large, with one wall made from three sheets of glass floor to ceiling, and streching the entire length of the wall, about 30 feet. Sometimes the action outside the orgy room was better than inside it. I guess the best way is to not be to uptight, and go visit them.......and ask questions..they are always very ready to answer, so that you will learn exactly what is going on ahead of time, and be comfortable while inside. The number one rule, which is almost anywhere is a simple..NO means NO. Go check one out, call them up, find out what is what, and when you are here, you are amongst friends.

Ohh la la..Las Vegas. You are right, SilverBackDad, NO Means NO. For us, it was setting rules up before we even went into the club. He knew I'd let him fuck another girl as long as I was there, she could do whatever she wanted to do. Like when we were with that other couple, he made sure it was okay with the girls husband that she could suck his cock.

There was an older couple, and I mean OLDER, who I didn't really like--his personality was shit & he's an ass--well, he made a comment to Jay about letting the ladies go in the other room while they watched. While I would have enjoyed being with her, he just creeped me out...Subtle pinches to Jay's back lol told him I didn't want to. Lucky enough for me, Jay already knew that we weren't going to be with them & Jay is outspoken & not reserved like I am so it works out well b/c he'll voice his opinion..or rather "our" opinion.

That's what we did..we found one close to my house & we went. Where they get you is door fees & membership but honestly, our membership was $100 for 3 months & then it varies on which night you go. Sat. nights are couples & single ladies & it's $60, but they have specials--like if ladies wear red panties you get $10 off. We really like it. Plus, it's not bad b/c like I said, you bring in your own alcohol, hell if we went out for a night on the town just drinks alone would wind up costing us more. We get hit on by single guys too, one guy loved watching us play pool and watch us kiss & Jay have his hand up my dress...but it never went any further than that.

I really can't stress it enough, It is honestly laid back. Coming from someone who is shy at first, take my word for it. I might even be going there tomorrow night while he is out of town just to hang with the bartender for a bit. That's how laid back it is. Now, each club may be different, but the one we found is a keeper!

 

[Silverbackdad]

I really can't stress it enough, It is honestly laid back. Coming from someone who is shy at first, take my word for it. I might even be going there tomorrow night while he is out of town just to hang with the bartender for a bit. That's how laid back it is. Now, each club may be different, but the one we found is a keeper![/QUOTE]

I definitely understand that. I enjoy going, but my other half doesn't, so I don't go....anymore. But after 20 years of marriage, I guess some sacrifices must be made. When you do go, have lots of fun, cuz it keeps you young, sexy, and always smiling.

 

[SxyTigress76]

I really can't stress it enough, It is honestly laid back. Coming from someone who is shy at first, take my word for it. I might even be going there tomorrow night while he is out of town just to hang with the bartender for a bit. That's how laid back it is. Now, each club may be different, but the one we found is a keeper!

I definitely understand that. I enjoy going, but my other half doesn't, so I don't go....anymore. But after 20 years of marriage, I guess some sacrifices must be made. When you do go, have lots of fun, cuz it keeps you young, sexy, and always smiling.[/QUOTE]

LOL It's been 3 weeks of dating & we are already hitting the sex clubs

Honestly, you couldn't have said it better, we have lots & lots of fun, even if we don't hook up with anyone & we are always smiling. This morning he told me he's going to fuck some girl next time we are there while I watch. Mmmmm that turns me on soooo much! I can't wait!! Wish it was next weekend already!!

I'm sorry your other half doesn't enjoying going You could always come out on a single guys night & just look around but not touch

My ex husband wouldn't have gone either...hell, now looking back I wonder what the hell made me stay so long with him. haha.

I love what I have here, good open communication about everything & about sex, amazing sex and I get to fulfill my fantasies! I mean, I'm in HEAVEN! My next step is the dress up & I PROMISE SilverBackDad..you will have plenty of pictures to view!!!

 

[Elengil]

That does sound like a lot of fun SxyTigress76, dunno if I could join you on short notice (would depend on the distance, and if the club allowed it)

I also wonder what I would be considered as, if I was all dressed up...

 

[Silverbackdad]

A New Invention

I know this may a bit off topic, but a California man has invented a new exercise bike geared solely for women. Once this thing gets produced and distributed, The ladies won't stay out of the gym. I was lucky enough to get some promo pics of it. I posted one of them below.

 

[SxyTigress76]

I know this may a bit off topic, but a California man has invented a new exercise bike geared solely for women. Once this thing gets produced and distributed, The ladies won't stay out of the gym. I was lucky enough to get some promo pics of it. I posted one of them below.

LOL I LOVE it!!

 

[SxyTigress76]

That does sound like a lot of fun SxyTigress76, dunno if I could join you on short notice (would depend on the distance, and if the club allowed it)

I also wonder what I would be considered as, if I was all dressed up...

Well, like I said, the club we go to is in Pompano Beach. I may or may not go there tomorrow night but we will definately be making up for lost time next weekend

You go however you want to go...the membership is the same but the nights you can go varies.

You could always call them on the phone & ask questions, or go there in person. They are nice & accepting. Or maybe there's another club..I know there's one in Jupiter we've wanted to go, but we are content with our club here.

 

[Elengil]

Thats a good distance for me... Well over an hours drive time.

 

[SxyTigress76]

Thats a good distance for me... Well over an hours drive time.

Yep I know. But like I said...I know there's a club up in Jupiter.

SilverBackDad was nice enough to put together a list for me Sooo I think it's in this thread...Scroll back a few pages & you can see if you can find it.

Too bad the clubs are all membership--we could just have the Lit get together at one of the clubs...Although....I did find a place up in Lakeland where it's a private house but along the same lines (you bring the booze) there are cottages & 7 party rooms..etc... No membership fees...Although we'd have to drive up there & get a hotel room somewhere, so that probably kills the idea...Although...maybe not??? How far is Lakeland? HAHA. I need mapquest!

 

[Elengil]

Split the costs? 3 or 4 rooms for like 2-3 days?

As to the booze, I am NOT splitting there (I have yet to drink, and don't plan on doing much)

I do think the clubs might give a break, if we had like 5-10 new people coming (as it might mean many new members)

 

[SxyTigress76]

Split the costs? 3 or 4 rooms for like 2-3 days?

As to the booze, I am NOT splitting there (I have yet to drink, and don't plan on doing much)

I do think the clubs might give a break, if we had like 5-10 new people coming (as it might mean many new members)

The clubs probably won't give us a break on the membership, it's not a one night thing, usually it's 3 months or 6 months or a year type deal. Our 3 month membership was $100 and then each time you go there is a door fee. Soooo for people who won't be going back to the club, it would be pointless to do it that way b/c they will be out a hell of a lot of mula.

I mentioned that house party b/c there are no membership fees. Just the booze. Kudos to you for not drinking yet, but I love my alcohol. LOL Just teasing.

I guess we should figure out if we are just having a casual get together or if people want to come out & play if given the opportunity. Or we could just do like SilverBackDad suggested...just hit a bar/club with a local hotel or something...As far as sharing a hotel room...welll....I dunno know about that one...it'd be one thing if we all crash out from partying too hard & drinking...but none of us have met & I dont know if sharing a hotel room the first time we all meet would be cool with everyone?

I probably can't do 2-3 days unless I bring my dog with me. LOL Single mom here unless it's on a weekend when she is with her dad..that would probably work if we do the Lakeland house, but if we do something local I'm assuming it's just overnight? Hungover breakfast in the morning? LOL

Thoughts? Suggestions? Comments?

 

[Elengil]

SxyTigress76, you would be surprised what they will do to add new members (you can always ask)

Somewhere along the lines of

"Hey, I've got a bunch of friends from an online forum who are interested in clubs like this, and I was telling them about yours. Is there any way I could show them around?"

If they give a straight no, its ok, but if the idea intrigues the owner, you might be able to work something out (like a 1 day deal of 1/3 the 3 month cost, then paying the rest of the cost if anyone decides to join, with a 3 month pass)

Its a good deal for them, as it would give them a good return, and an even better return if someone actually joins.

 

[SxyTigress76]

SxyTigress76, you would be surprised what they will do to add new members (you can always ask)

Somewhere along the lines of

"Hey, I've got a bunch of friends from an online forum who are interested in clubs like this, and I was telling them about yours. Is there any way I could show them around?"

If they give a straight no, its ok, but if the idea intrigues the owner, you might be able to work something out (like a 1 day deal of 1/3 the 3 month cost, then paying the rest of the cost if anyone decides to join, with a 3 month pass)

Its a good deal for them, as it would give them a good return, and an even better return if someone actually joins.

If you want to call around to some of the clubs, go ahead..but I'm not too sure about whether or not they would accept something like that...we would have to see who all is interested in attending our get together....I need to post a new thread about it..maybe that will get everyone's attention.

Silverbackdad--where are you?? My partner in crime for the planning of this!!

 

[Silverbackdad]

If you want to call around to some of the clubs, go ahead..but I'm not too sure about whether or not they would accept something like that...we would have to see who all is interested in attending our get together....I need to post a new thread about it..maybe that will get everyone's attention.

Silverbackdad--where are you?? My partner in crime for the planning of this!!

I am trying to figure out a place where we can pull this off, make everybody happy, and not cost everybody an arm and a leg...you know, pull off a miracle. I am leaning towards a public style gathering in a semiprivate area. It may be a good idea to call some of the clubs, as they may know some other places that would work for us.

 

[SxyTigress76]

I am trying to figure out a place where we can pull this off, make everybody happy, and not cost everybody an arm and a leg...you know, pull off a miracle. I am leaning towards a public style gathering in a semiprivate area. It may be a good idea to call some of the clubs, as they may know some other places that would work for us.

Ok. I am going to make a new thread. We need to see how many people are going to come and from where. Also if people are interested in ummm just meeting or some freaky freak action

 

[south_florida_bicur]

Honestly I was just teasing around!

you didn't have to say that you were teasing. Seriously we all knew it!!!!

and to answer you other question... I am much shorter then you 5'7" and carry a big stick....LOL

 

[nonclichename]

Hey guys...been busy...but I'm back.

This is off-subject but you all are like family/friends around here so I thought I would share:

Last night I had a dream I met an older women (in her 50's I think) who was flirting with me at some family get-together (my family has a lot of those), but she wasn't family. A friend of my aunts or something.

Well we ended up discussing sex etc and by the end of the dream, just like most of my luck in real life, she was just teasing me, so I woke up pretty sad.

=(

 

[south_florida_bicur]

Did someone mention Anal Sex?

Well I have to say, I've found a few guys who love to have their ass played with & I am more than happy to assist in that department. Coming from a gal who absolutely hands down loves anal sex....I know how good it feels.

I think most guys would like their asses played with if they didn't have that stupid notion that if I like it then I must be gay. That is such bullshit.

An exgf of mine teased my ass and I went up the fuckin wall. It was such a turn on. When she finally inserted her fingers into my ass I came so hard I almost passed out. I never came that hard before. We bought an anal toy together and since then bought a bigger and better one. Its the best feeling. Cumming without a toy in my ass is only 2nd best.

Anal play is such a big turn on for me. I am still looking for that gal that is into it. She doesn't have to be a receiver as long as she is a giver.

 

[Elengil]

@south_florida_bicur:
Kinda ditto for me (though I havent had the chance to play with someone else yet)

The idea of having a girl play with my ass (be it a toy, strap-on, or fingers) is just sooooo fucking erotic its hard to describe

I do so hope I can find a girl who is ok with being the giver AND the receiver (its not gay if a girl does it, DUH)

 

[south_florida_bicur]

If you want to call around to some of the clubs, go ahead..but I'm not too sure about whether or not they would accept something like that...we would have to see who all is interested in attending our get together....I need to post a new thread about it..maybe that will get everyone's attention.

Silverbackdad--where are you?? My partner in crime for the planning of this!!

there are a few clubs in South Florida. I heard of the one in Pompano and I think there is one in Boca (or neighboring city) too.

I've thought about going but as a single guy I would think it would be pretty weird. I know there are single guys that go but mostly couples look for either other women or other couples. These clubs do not advertise for single men.

 

[Elengil]

@south_florida_bicur:
Not like they NEED to advertise...

Provide the willing pussy, and guys will come in DROVES!

I am wondering how they would look at me, seeing as I could kind of provide for both people in a couple (provided the guy was gentle, and treated me like a lady is SUPPOSED to be treated. Like a rose to be treasured and cared for.)