Flirting

[Maidinusa]

Are you good at it? Has it ever gone too far? Who do you flirt with?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Are you good at it?

Mediocre, at best.

Has it ever gone too far?

Define "too far." For me at least, flirting occurs with the intention of "sounding out the waters" to see if further activities might be in the cards. If such further activities would be anathema to me, or dangerous to my relationship with my significant other, I wouldn't flirt; therefore, "too far" is not likely possible.

Who do you flirt with?

Any female of appropriate age who is sufficiently intelligent, witty, and socially compatible to arouse my interest in pursuing "further activities," primarily of a strictly social/sexual nature, since I have little or no interest in pursuing an ongoing outside relationship of an S/m or D/s nature. I'm not prepared - or probably able - to entertain an ongoing poly relationship, so anything that happens with a "flirt-ee" would necessarily be of a (most likely) temporary FWB-type structure, even if it included - and probably would have to, for me to be very interested - S/m activities.

 

[NomadLady]

Are you good at it? Has it ever gone too far? Who do you flirt with?

I'd say I'm pretty good at it ....I don't flirt unless I want something so it never goes "too" far.
I flirt with people I'd like to fuck...

 

[SimonBrooke]

Are you good at it? Has it ever gone too far?

I'm getting much better at it, but I still get too serious at times. No, I don't think it's ever gone too far - I don't really know what 'too far' would mean in the context of flirting. So long as everyone knows that it's play - and agrees when ceases to be play - I don't see that it can go to far.

Who do you flirt with?

Kybele. And MoHousewife.

 

[ownedsubgal]

i don't flirt.

 

[Dici]

.....

 

[sb2009]

I try, but I am not sure if I'm good at it or not.

 

[Maidinusa]

these are some great answers! I guess alot depends on how serious you are

 

[Ravenwind]

Very, albeit unintentionally. Yes, and once again, many times unintentionally. And only my Husband anymore.

 

[KoPilot]

If I do, I do in unintentionally. I have no active desire to flirt. (And if I did, I'd be awful at it.)

I also have no idea when someone's flirting with me, too. Unless they're using pickup lines or buying me things.. I know those when I see them at least!

 

[sb2009]

I have actually been trying to flirt with this guy at work, but I come across as a dingbat. So, i'm trying to get pointers. I know now that the chicken talk doesn't come across as sexy.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

If I do, I do in unintentionally. I have no active desire to flirt. (And if I did, I'd be awful at it.)

I also have no idea when someone's flirting with me, too. Unless they're using pickup lines or buying me things.. I know those when I see them at least!

lol same.

My ex used to tell me when guys were looking at me too, but I never noticed!

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I know now that the chicken talk doesn't come across as sexy.

Depends on the guy.

Go, Samantha!

 

[where]

Are you good at it? Flirting is like sex. it takes two to make it work.



Has it ever gone too far? only when I've wanted it to.




Who do you flirt with? Pretty much anyone who is up for it. Men, women, whoever, as long as they are over 18.

I generally think of flirting as something that can make people feel better. even a little flirt can give you a nice warm glowing feeling. When I worked in a residential care home, I used to constantly flirt with the residents. It gave them a bit of humanity to be treated like sexual beings for once.

 

[YourCaptor]

How do you not flirt? and how can it go too far?

 

[SimonBrooke]

Are you good at it? Flirting is like sex. it takes two to make it work.

Harsh, but fair.

Has it ever gone too far? only when I've wanted it to.

But, dahling, you know you want to.

Who do you flirt with? Pretty much anyone who is up for it.

I'm up for it. You're up against the wall.

I generally think of flirting as something that can make people feel better. even a little flirt can give you a nice warm glowing feeling.

And honey, don't I plan to make you glow...

 

[where]

Harsh, but fair.




But, dahling, you know you want to.




I'm up for it. You're up against the wall.




And honey, don't I plan to make you glow...

keep on practicing, baby

 

[Cattypuss]

I find it hard know where the divider falls in me between sexual flirting (e.g. with someone I fancy) and social flirting (e.g. with my 80-yr-old female neighbour, to cheer her up a bit). I think it's cos all the flirting I do is humour-based - I use humour as a sort of social KY Jelly.

 

[where]

I find it hard know where the divider falls in me between sexual flirting (e.g. with someone I fancy) and social flirting (e.g. with my 80-yr-old female neighbour, to cheer her up a bit). I think it's cos all the flirting I do is humour-based - I use humour as a sort of social KY Jelly.

yeah, I do it with a giggle, too. I usually do it as a 'carry on' style.

I'm aware of the difference between social and i'm-doing-this-cause-i-want-in-your-knickers style flirts.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I think it's cos all the flirting I do is humour-based - I use humour as a sort of social KY Jelly.

Me too! And I love this description.

 

[SimonBrooke]

keep on practicing, baby

With you? Anytime.

 

[SimonBrooke]

I'm aware of the difference between social and i'm-doing-this-cause-i-want-in-your-knickers style flirts.

Oh, yeah? :evil lear:

 

[Maidinusa]

I have actually been trying to flirt with this guy at work, but I come across as a dingbat. So, i'm trying to get pointers. I know now that the chicken talk doesn't come across as sexy.

could be you're just fine and HE's the dingbat!

 

[where]

With you? Anytime.

I'm singing the Martini ad now.

Oh, yeah? :evil lear:

heh, that edward, he was an evil fucker!

 

[SimonBrooke]

I'm singing the Martini ad now.



heh, that edward, he was an evil fucker!

One can hide a multitude of sins under a hat one hundred and two feet wide.