Flirt Challenge -are you up to it?

English Lady

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Ok,I'm only 27 years old, but let me reminisce here.

I remember the joys of chatting, you know, in chat rooms. Meeting guys and having them chat me up. Yes, having them flirt and seduce me. I like the flirting, the back and forth the slow advance to something more.

Is that kind of chat chivalry dead?

It has been years, literally years, since a man flirted with me like I want to be flirted with. It's all polite for the first messages (if I'm lucky, otherwise its "will u fck me" in the first message) then it goes to indepth,personal sex questions and pictures of erect penii before I can blink. And txt spk - oh, save me from the txt spk!

So I am looking for a man who enjoys the build up to sex as much as the sex itself. A man who will seduce me, flirt with me. A man capable of conversation that doesn't necessarily head to sex talk.

Are there any men like that out there? If so, come and flirt with me, please?
 
English Lady said:
Ok,I'm only 27 years old, but let me reminisce here.

I remember the joys of chatting, you know, in chat rooms. Meeting guys and having them chat me up. Yes, having them flirt and seduce me. I like the flirting, the back and forth the slow advance to something more.

Is that kind of chat chivalry dead?

It has been years, literally years, since a man flirted with me like I want to be flirted with. It's all polite for the first messages (if I'm lucky, otherwise its "will u fck me" in the first message) then it goes to indepth,personal sex questions and pictures of erect penii before I can blink. And txt spk - oh, save me from the txt spk!

So I am looking for a man who enjoys the build up to sex as much as the sex itself. A man who will seduce me, flirt with me. A man capable of conversation that doesn't necessarily head to sex talk.

Are there any men like that out there? If so, come and flirt with me, please?

The shadows along the edges of the thread flicker and waver and a form detaches itself to move close to you. Mostly shapeless when it appeared, it takes on a humanoid form the closer it comes.

Finally, it is right before, fallen to the ground in the shape of a shadow thrown by a tall, broad man who would be standing behind you.

And a deep voice whispers in your ear, "Hello there, and how have you been?"
 
Hello English Lady

Based upon your observations I must be a conservative subsrciber to the old school way of doing things, I have never truly enjoyed sleeping with anyone if there was not a strong build up to getting into bed, I'm not sure if it is because of the thrill of having a challenge or from the built up arousal from innuendo and foreplay, but to simply answer your question chivalry is far from dead, and I would love to chat with you sometime.

English Lady said:
Ok,I'm only 27 years old, but let me reminisce here.

I remember the joys of chatting, you know, in chat rooms. Meeting guys and having them chat me up. Yes, having them flirt and seduce me. I like the flirting, the back and forth the slow advance to something more.

Is that kind of chat chivalry dead?

It has been years, literally years, since a man flirted with me like I want to be flirted with. It's all polite for the first messages (if I'm lucky, otherwise its "will u fck me" in the first message) then it goes to indepth,personal sex questions and pictures of erect penii before I can blink. And txt spk - oh, save me from the txt spk!

So I am looking for a man who enjoys the build up to sex as much as the sex itself. A man who will seduce me, flirt with me. A man capable of conversation that doesn't necessarily head to sex talk.

Are there any men like that out there? If so, come and flirt with me, please?
 
nyrjmk (I'm glad I don't have to try and pronounce that!) I'm really talking about the world of the internet, but it works in real life too.

My husband seduced me, still seduces me and we flirt and turn each other on with our words even after being together for nigh on nine years now.

I'm glad to know there are still a few gentlemen out there for whom it's not all about getting themselves off.
 
Howdy, EL...


Hope you find what you seek, darlin'. Hope you don't mind if I duck in occassionally and take some notes?

:rose:

Bash
 
bashfull said:
Howdy, EL...


Hope you find what you seek, darlin'. Hope you don't mind if I duck in occassionally and take some notes?

:rose:

Bash


You and that delicious AV are welcome here any time you like, love, any time at all :rose:
 
can i just say its such a delight, on a cold winters evening to see your beautifull avatar....!!!

you suit red, its my favorite color as well.

jx :heart:
 
Jonny G said:
can i just say its such a delight, on a cold winters evening to see your beautifull avatar....!!!

you suit red, its my favorite color as well.

jx :heart:


I like flattery :D Thank you, Red is my favourite colour, too.

I like your AV as well, verytasty!
 
well thank you very much...!!! they do say red is the color of passion, and you wear it well Sweet English Lady...!!!

jx :heart:
 
Jonny G said:
well thank you very much...!!! they do say red is the color of passion, and you wear it well Sweet English Lady...!!!

jx :heart:

Why, thank you :)
 
so has anyone caught your eyes on this thread yet my darling ? :heart:
 
yeah I'm with you

I know what you meen. i rememer when chat was chat and cybersex was only a small part of it. it was fun and interesting. and not everybody was a top athalete with perfect sexy bodies lol
 
Love to Flirt

English,
I love to flirt and I think you hit the nail on the head when you stated that it can be as much about the build up as the release. If we didn't like the build up and using our imaginations then we should be on lit. I mean isn't that the whole point of the stories?
 
Hello EL!

I guess it depends on where you go to chat with people, and even in some places, who the people are. Some places, you'll find people like you mentionned, just looking for a quickie.

I know alot of my posts seem like that, but theres alot more to me than what i post about. I guess i'm just too drained from giving everything of myself to someone who says they love me, but whos never there for me for the simplest things or wants to get intimate with me more than once or twice a month.

I probably shouldnt be posting this on your thread, I wish you luck in finding what your looking for, and have fun! ;)
 
Hello again boys ;)

Jonny -I'm a lady, that'd be telling ;) and who says I can only flirt with one of you? I love variety!

UKrock, oh yes. I never did cyber in the first couple of years I was on line. I met my husband online, we only cybered after we were married *grins* and my first cyber sex experience was after i was married, sat in my husbands lap :devil:

letzplay -sorry love, thats a BIG no-no. I NEVER give out my messenger addy to soemone who just sends me one message. Nope, you have to woo that information out of me ;)


Dogm, you're spot on, love. The release is all the sweeter after lots of good foreplay. Flirting =foreplay and I need plenty of foreplay to get me in the mood :)
 
fqc said:
Hello EL!

I guess it depends on where you go to chat with people, and even in some places, who the people are. Some places, you'll find people like you mentionned, just looking for a quickie.

I know alot of my posts seem like that, but theres alot more to me than what i post about. I guess i'm just too drained from giving everything of myself to someone who says they love me, but whos never there for me for the simplest things or wants to get intimate with me more than once or twice a month.

I probably shouldnt be posting this on your thread, I wish you luck in finding what your looking for, and have fun! ;)

Fqc. There may be people out there who want what I want, but there aren't that many guys who do and even some who start out well, flirting gently often make a big leap from that to demands for pussy pics or other such intimate vulgarities. (I love intimate vulgarities mind, in their place ;) )


I hope you find what you need, you sound awfully bitter :kiss:
 
I dont think bitter is the right word, because I dont hate her for it, I just wish she wouldnt do it. maybe just upset at the situation. I really love her, I just wish she'd give some back without always me having to ask you know?

anyway, coming back on what you were saying. My opinion is, if a guy flirts with you, acts all nice and asks you for a pussy shot out of the blue, its just one of these "zomgz a chix lolol wunt 2 liek, fuk end sheit?" ok, well, maybe not that bad :p What i mean is he's not really after a connection. No doubt theres men out there that want what you want as well, and im sure theres plenty on lit for that matter!

As for me, ive realised what im really looking for is someone i can talk to and not feel bad for talking naughty to.
 
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EL,
I must say that I can hear that lovely english accent of yours (or at least what I think it would sound like), and I must say it just makes me want to keep posting something so that I can see/hear your reply.

Flirting with accents can jsut make things so much better.
 
English Lady said:
Hello again boys ;)

Jonny -I'm a lady, that'd be telling ;) and who says I can only flirt with one of you? I love variety!

UKrock, oh yes. I never did cyber in the first couple of years I was on line. I met my husband online, we only cybered after we were married *grins* and my first cyber sex experience was after i was married, sat in my husbands lap :devil:

letzplay -sorry love, thats a BIG no-no. I NEVER give out my messenger addy to soemone who just sends me one message. Nope, you have to woo that information out of me ;)


Dogm, you're spot on, love. The release is all the sweeter after lots of good foreplay. Flirting =foreplay and I need plenty of foreplay to get me in the mood :)

You Failed my flirt responce test el.... :heart:
 
Fqc -I hope you find what you need then hopefully you can find it all with the one you love, maybe you need to talk to her about how you feel :)

A connection -you're right, I want a connection. Nothing particularly deep, just, and I know this will sound corny and cliche, I want a friend before I want a lover, you know?


dogm -hmm, I have some recordings of my voice somewhere about, I will get my hubby to upload one to some webspace so you can actually hear me. I love accents! We did an aydio sharing thing over on the Authors hangout a while a go and it as a great experience. You get a better feel for a person when you know what they sound like.

Well, I'm terribly sorry about that Jonny, I am terribly rusty *grins* I wonder if I can redeem myself?
 
English Lady said:
Hey Remec, how are you doing, love? :kiss:

:kiss:
Oh, I'm alright, I guess. Just sort of following along day in and out, y'know? Nothing special happening, but nothing bad either. *cross fingers*
 
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