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flatearth said:
Do flat girls with a big tummy still have a chance to be sexy?
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Absolutely.

For one thing, not everyone finds body fat, especially only a relatively small amount of it, to be a turn off.

I have a wide range of attraction to women, white-black, every shade of ethnicity in between, asian, indian, south American, native American, you name it, I've found women attractive in that group. I've been attracted to women who were older than me since I was a teen, and been mostly in relationships with older women, usually 5-17 years older than me. At 42, I am now at an age where I find women younger than me attractive. late 20s early 30s, because women at that age are mature enough and in their prime. I remember when that age group was the older women category, but I've been an adult for a while now, so, now they're not.

And body types, which is the point I was getting to- I just want to be held and snuggled and kissed and yes, I want to have sex too. Throughout my life my boyish looking charm, whatever that is worth, average height, soft spoken nature, whatever it is about me, tended to attract women who were my weight or heavier. Not the slender magazine cover model with big boobs.

So I don't have a specific body type I'm attracted to, but I'm definitely attracted to curvier women as well, because they're generally the women that have ever shown me any love.

I am attracted to kindness and I reciprocate love, I love being chased, and the women that have chased me, historically, have been curvier.

So, while there are many people of all genders who prefer a slender woman, that isn't everyone. You may need to sift through more people to find someone who is right for you, but they do exist.

This is mother nature at work. The male sex drive exists, and I promise you the species would survive and thrive if the only women around were curvy. Some men wouldn't even notice the difference.

So please don't anyone reading this feel down on yourself for your body type.

I'm 5 foot 9 and dated women shorter than me weighing between 200-350 pounds.

If you carry it well and are otherwise beautiful and want to snuggle me naked at night, I promise you my body responds to that.

Always has. Some men out there will not even blink.

Flat chested girls- okay, I know there are men who are only attracted to big boobs.

Being with bigger girls my whole life, I usually experienced big boobs as well. F cups, H cups. I am no stranger to women with extra large breasts.

That isn't why I dated them, and I did ask out a lot of women who were skinnier or had flatter chests.

There was this one attractive bartender in a restaurant I worked at, and she was saving up money for a breast implant surgery than she honestly didn't need.

She had like a to b cups, sure, but she was smoking hot. Any man who didn't want to date her over her boobs, that's a feature, not a bug.

She was warm, personable, funny, and her body was absolutely smashing.

If a man didnt want to date her because of her cup size, I consider that to be a good thing because he wouldn't be able to appreciate anything else about her, either.

I know it is frustrating if most of the men you try to reach out to mistreat you, ghost you, show no interest.

But there are a lot of trashbags posing as men in this world, and I know it may not feel this way, but you are actually better off without those specific men.

There are even chubby chasers who would get upset at you if you lost weight, and that's problematic and shallow for the same reason. If you got healthier they should celebrate it.

It's gross and wrong to insist your partner always stays too skinny, especially if you ever put on weight, that's a double standard, and it's gross and wrong to insist your partner always stays overweight to an unhealthy degree.

Not saying people can't be attracted to who they are, and not attracted to who they aren't, but their preferences should not dictate your life. If they need to leave over something like that, it may hurt, but it's a good thing overall, since it means someone less shallow and more right for you, is now someone you can date without consequences.

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Okay that was a lot but here's another strong point

Your body type and your breasts are not the only parts of your body a man can be attracted to.
Your face and smile matter a lot. I fall in love with faces, I've fallen for the eyes and the smile of each woman I fell in love with. If she's warm and pretty, in the face, she is for me.

Your hair can be beautiful and touchable as well.

Your skin, not the fat under the skin, but having smooth beautiful flawless skin looks amazing on any body type. So you can have soft, beautiful skin, and a man will want to touch you all over.

You can have hips and thighs and buns, too. I love a woman with a womanly bottom I can touch and make love to. I enjoy missionary but I also enjoy sex from behind so often times, I can't even see your breasts, just your ass. So when you have a beautiful ass, that is a huge plus for me, and small breasts or large breasts, don't matter to me personally.

I do like it if your nipples are sensitive and you like it when your partner plays with them gently and lovingly. That's a fun, intimate activity and it doesn't matter to me if the breasts in question are small or large. I prefer sensitive ones. I was sad when I was with a partner for her loving personality and beauty but she reported feeling no sensations in her nipples pretty much ever, so, I couldn't play with her breasts.

I missed that. I want a partner who wants me to touch her breasts, not because I need to have big breasts in my life, but because of the shared intimacy involved.

Also, personal preference, but some men are attracted to unshaven pubic areas on women, and some men like me, prefer trimmed or shaved/waxed because I'm really big on oral sex and have literally coughed for hours once when a stray hair got sucked up into my windpipe during oral. That ended the fun and it was rather dramatically unpleasant so if my partner mows the lawn at the very least, i find that to be considerate and attractive.

No offense to the women who don't, I just can't go down on fur anymore, and I trim for my partner, too. It's a personal preference not an attack. If you ever choke on a pube for a couple hours, you will understand the trauma.

So, TLDR you absolutely can find a partner who is attracted to your body type.

Don't give up and even if it is hard, try to imagine rejecting and being rejected by all the men who can't handle who you are, to be a positive thing.

Too many men are not right for you (or, frankly, anyone) and you will be happier alone instead of with certain men, and happier with the right man, with much certainty on that.

Consider all the wrong men in the wrong men pile to be successful outcomes despite you still being single. You don't know the bullets you've been dodging.
The wrong man is often the worst thing that happens to a woman in her life. Lonely sucks, I've been there, but there's nothing worse than a partner who doesn't appreciate you, demands you change for him, treats you as inferior and as a source of sex, and doesn't even care for you like a fellow human being.
 
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