Fisting?

[Psia]

Hi,
I'm curious to hear from those of you who enjoy fisting. It's a major fantasy of mine but we just haven't quite been able to achieve it. I know, lots and lots of lube. I think my husband gets a little freaked after 4 fingers that he's going to hurt me. Any pointers? Also, for those who indulge-do you go one finger at a time and make the fist internally, or get her/yourself very aroused and plunge in?
Thanks,
Psia

 

[Etoile]

There was a thread recently that answers a lot of your questions:
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=169884

Fisting is a regular part of my sex life with my girlfriend. Sometimes she just goes for the plunge, sometimes she adds one at a time. I personally like it when she's been playing with me already with a few fingers, and then when we go for the fisting (it usually results in a pause to grab lube) she'll start over again with one. This drives me crazy!

 

[Psia]

Thanks for the link to the other thread. It's nice to hear that there are other women who enjoy this as well!
Psia

 

[AmVERYcurious2]

my girlfriend has a very small hand and I would welcome fisting.I know that when her and I are intimate she is very gentle.She is very sensitive of my needs as I am of hers.

 

[MasterBaiter]

Hi,
I'm curious to hear from those of you who enjoy fisting. It's a major fantasy of mine but we just haven't quite been able to achieve it. I know, lots and lots of lube. I think my husband gets a little freaked after 4 fingers that he's going to hurt me. Any pointers? Also, for those who indulge-do you go one finger at a time and make the fist internally, or get her/yourself very aroused and plunge in?
Thanks,
Psia

Well, personally, I've "done" the fisting. Depending upon the woman, you may or may not need lots of lube. Some women are naturally lubricated, which in itself is a massive turn on. If the woman is "tight", not used to having penetration by a large or small hand or penis, then I'd say to take your time and loosen up a bit. It may take a few times of trying, one night of two fingers, then perhaps 2 nights of three, and so on until you are ready for the whole fist, depending upon the size of the hand. I find that once you have "conditioned" the vagina to receive a fist it's much more pleasurable for you/your partner/husband etc. I find that going one finger at a time until inside fully is the most comfortable way for my partner rather than just going full steam ahead, not to mention that it's only polite to do so. lol All kidding aside, I hope this was of some sort of help to you

 

[DonkeyChong]

i have done it,
my first reaction was "What???"
it was cool though

 

[Psia]

Thanks MasterBaiter. I think you're probably right about the conditioning and slowly working up part. I think our major hurtle right now is my husbands fear of hurting me. I think it's kind of silly, especially since I tell him it doesn't hurt, I'm a little more relaxed down there as I'm pregnant--not to mention he's going to see something a whole lot bigger than a fist come out of there in 4 months!
Psia