FISTING (don't cringe yet)

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Okay,

I'm pretty adventurous sexually but this is one thing I've never tried on a woman. Mostly because...I can't imagine it feels good...It seems like one of those guy porn things that women in pornos pretend they love...

So are their any women out there who have had a positive experience with this act?

Of course pics of this are also welcome :)

But mostly I'm just curious about people's experiences in this area (no pun intended)
 
have seen photos of it - but i cringe when i see it... surely it cant be good... not unless you've had a lot of kids... and have room that needs filling???

seen some pretty strange vids of it too... not into it btw, but when you come accross these things - you know what they say - curiousity killed the cat!
 
fisting

No way..nope..not a shot...I want to keep mine small and tight...but for those who enjoy...have fun!
 
Hey wait a minute DM having kids has nothing to do with streching out the hole like that. I for one have had 3 and my darling hubby can attest I am tighter now after my third then before but even then I was tight. It is just a matter of muscle control and excersizing them which I do everyday. It upsets me that most men assume that just becouse you have kids you are lose or get lose from having them which in most womans cases it isn't true. Now as for the fisting I have a good friends who has never had kids, or a cock and can take a fist. She says it is just how turned on she is if she can do it.
 
fisting

i dont know if i could bring myself to fist someone (really does look painful) but the thought of it is really erotic for me... i dunno why but id love to see my hand engulfed to the wrist... (really big wrists/hands tho... so probably not gonna happen)
 
More fisting..

*makes a starlike pucker with her fingers* This is your ass without fisting

*opens her arms and makes a big "o" with them* This is your ass after fisting...any questions?

Just kidding, sorry...I know some people that are into it..but really I know some girls that said after they were never the same...

but have fun...would love to know what the man enjoys about it...

and for that matter...how do men feel about anal play on themselves? yum
 
fisting? no...

doesn't that stretch you out? I can see putting some things in... but not a whole fist.

I personally don't mind some anal probing from my girl sometimes... she doesn't either.
 
Mystical said:
Hey wait a minute DM having kids has nothing to do with streching out the hole like that. I for one have had 3 and my darling hubby can attest I am tighter now after my third then before but even then I was tight. It is just a matter of muscle control and excersizing them which I do everyday. It upsets me that most men assume that just becouse you have kids you are lose or get lose from having them which in most womans cases it isn't true. Now as for the fisting I have a good friends who has never had kids, or a cock and can take a fist. She says it is just how turned on she is if she can do it.

apologises to all women who've out there who've got kids! Didnt mean to alienate y'all coz of that! I agree Myst, if you look after yourself this shoulndt be an issue.

I guess i just looked at my fist - pictured a babys head, and thought, mmm bout the same! Either way its going to hurt! I guess that some women have relatively pain-free births too! On top of that have heard some horror story from girls who are friends of mine with kids, of (ouch) being torn, or even cut by the doctors, to allow the baby room to come out... taking those things into consideration, i put two and two together and maybe came up with 4 and a half.

I realise you cant make stereotypes of people. They are all individual. Which contirbutes to making this place soo good. Who wants to be the same as everyone else?! :)
 
A story about this topic...

When I was a young sailor (yes, I did time in both the Army AND the Navy), I happened upon a porn shop (down San Diego way), and in this shop was an impliment I had never seen. It was a casting of a man's forearm, with the hand in the shape of a fist. Now mind you, I was a young sailor from the country, and had no knowledge in anything like this! So, I asked the clerk at the desk what it was, and what for? He told me that gay men loved these things and used them to stick up their lover's asses.

That pretty much ended ANY ideas I ever had of turning gay (if I had any latent tendencies left from childhood)...LOL, but I have seen pictures of women who can do it. I HAVE been curious about that, but haven't seemed to find anyone who actually HAS done it. Is it something that a few women can do, or is it a big deal?
 
Re: A story about this topic...

armyjim_2000 said:
When I was a young sailor (yes, I did time in both the Army AND the Navy), I happened upon a porn shop (down San Diego way), and in this shop was an impliment I had never seen. It was a casting of a man's forearm, with the hand in the shape of a fist. Now mind you, I was a young sailor from the country, and had no knowledge in anything like this! So, I asked the clerk at the desk what it was, and what for? He told me that gay men loved these things and used them to stick up their lover's asses.

That pretty much ended ANY ideas I ever had of turning gay (if I had any latent tendencies left from childhood)...LOL, but I have seen pictures of women who can do it. I HAVE been curious about that, but haven't seemed to find anyone who actually HAS done it. Is it something that a few women can do, or is it a big deal?

and people wonder why some gay men have to wear nappies... there is a limit to these things surely!!! :eek:
 
It is all a matter of how much muscle control you have afterwards. Yes it will strech you for a while but if you have the control you can go back to normal afterwards. I have never tried but I have had children and I know that was one of my biggest fears when I had my first not being tight anymore. But my doctor explained for me and I wasn't so worried anymore.
 
I've seen clips and pictures of it...but don't think I'd try it on a female...I like mine nice and tight. :)
 
Re: A story about this topic...

armyjim_2000 said:
When I was a young sailor (yes, I did time in both the Army AND the Navy), I happened upon a porn shop (down San Diego way), and in this shop was an impliment I had never seen. It was a casting of a man's forearm, with the hand in the shape of a fist. Now mind you, I was a young sailor from the country, and had no knowledge in anything like this! So, I asked the clerk at the desk what it was, and what for? He told me that gay men loved these things and used them to stick up their lover's asses.

I've seen the same toy at a sex shop too and it remind me of a old comedy movie (not a porn one) i have seen with Val Kilmer, Top secret, in the movie a guy, dont remember who, is in jail and use a thing like that... so when I have seen this in a sexshop I couldnt beleive that poeple were using that, it is so big...

Déjà
 
IN reality to me, its only slightly erotic,,,it just makes me wonder how far the couple has to go to find excitement...I guess I am just not that hard to please,,,a little anal play is good and exciting,,,,,but a fist,,my hand is very large from years of racquetsports...and I cant imagine that even close....
 
I knew a stripper

Who included this as part of her act. Both with the fake and real fists from audience volanteers.

She had three children and the control to make sex with her in the normal way an enjoyable experience.

I think the guys got off on the act by the way they expressed amazement at her ability... and I know she was turned on by the way she could astound an audience
 
I don't know

I must say it is somewhat interesting a subject although I think I would rather watch than participate. I have pretty big hands and don't want to know the woman that can fit them inside....nice and tight as Amber says is good for me. I also agree with Mystical my wife has had 2 children and is real tight, so it just comes down to the individual woman...just like not all cocks are the same.

Mr. Temp
 
I think it would feel very good if you went slowly and carefully enough, wearing your lover like a glove, or feeling so much of someone else inside you. I'd just be afraid of incontinence afterwards, myself.
 
Mystical said:
It is all a matter of how much muscle control you have afterwards. Yes it will strech you for a while but if you have the control you can go back to normal afterwards. I have never tried but I have had children and I know that was one of my biggest fears when I had my first not being tight anymore. But my doctor explained for me and I wasn't so worried anymore.

hi Mystical, totally agreed with you. i have 3 kids myself and ocassionally masturbate with a dildo. If you control your muscle, it will remain tight. hubby never complaint and always enjoy
ML, saying it tight as ever.

p/s - see some pics but never thought of doing it either.
 
Thought I'd add my two cents to this... from a man's point of view.

I've been with women who have never had childern and women who have had 1, 2, and even one who had 3...

The tightest woman I've ever been with was obviously a virgin... it was ... ouchy even for me... so I'm sure she felt alot of pain too.

The second tightest was a woman who had had childern. Her muscle control was quite simply amazing. But, if she got tired, it would loosen up a bit.. not so much that it was a bad thing mind you... it still felt terrific.

I've been with a woman you had never had childern and she was sooo very nice and tight naturally... and it was always like that.... mmmm yummie

And yeah... I was with a woman once who had had 2 childern... and loved to be fisted... and hrrrm... it got pretty loose even for me. At first it would be tight, but after awhile I had a hard time cumming at all. She didn't have the muscle control at all. Plus, later, I found out she sleep around alot... wasn't a good situation.

So, in my humble opinion, pregnancy doesn't always mean a woman will be loose. They can actually come back to be tighter than women who've never been pregnant.

Just my two cents :)

- PBW
 
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