Fisting, do the ladies enjoy it?

[sruss2067]

I was reading the "incertions thread" which was very hot, and one of my favorite is fisting. Not sure why but I love watching a pussy slowly start stretching out to accepting a whole hand.

It took me a lot of trying but now my wife lets me fist her when she is in the mood.

 

[amofiga]

I was reading the "incertions thread" which was very hot, and one of my favorite is fisting. Not sure why but I love watching a pussy slowly start stretching out to accepting a whole hand.

It took me a lot of trying but now my wife lets me fist her when she is in the mood.

I've too have been fascinated with fisting for years. I knew only two women who wanted to try it with me. One actually asked me to try. We almost got it to work. With the other, it just sort of happened as I kept trying and she didn't object. My feeling based on limited experience is that most women aren't into it. There are perhaps two versions if it. One is using all fingers of the hand in an open position to basically get all or most of your hand into her. This is probably less "invasive" than an actual fist. If anyone is going to try it, think long time going slowly and lots of lube. It has to be approached much like anal sex. It can work, but going at it too fast will only cause discomfort and fear. If your wife lets you do it, you are a fortunate man. It is pretty fascinating how much the vagina can stretch if taken slowly.

 

[Prettywilling]

Il confess I've always been a little fascinated by this and wonder what it would be like to be at the 'mercy' of a whole fist, I'm not sure if I will ever really make a concerted effort to try though.

 

[JayinCA]

My wife loves it, but mostly with women who have smaller hands than mine. Nothing gets her squirting harder. She can take (and loves to take) much of my hand, but not the whole thing. Still, a huge turn-on for us both.

 

[JayinCA]

With that face (partial, anyway) and those breasts and that glorious voice, Pretty, whoever gets to try with you will have a wonderful time, fisting or no.

 

[Prettywilling]

With that face (partial, anyway) and those breasts and that glorious voice, Pretty, whoever gets to try with you will have a wonderful time, fisting or no.

Aw thank you x

 

[JayinCA]

Aw thank you x

I have to say, all those things would probably make me hard even without that erotic, evocative screen name. But it sure doesn't hurt...

 

[Prettywilling]

I have to say, all those things would probably make me hard even without that erotic, evocative screen name. But it sure doesn't hurt...

Heh heh, it 'works' then

 

[JayinCA]

Heh heh, it 'works' then

Let me check...

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yep. Works.

 

[Prettywilling]

Let me check...

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yep. Works.

Yay!

Can I ask what does it feel like to fist someone?

 

[HardInNoTime]

Yay!

Can I ask what does it feel like to fist someone?

I'm curious too....but I don't want to fist anyone I'm romantically involved with.....because.....well.....that's kinda big it seems.

 

[sruss2067]

I'm curious too....but I don't want to fist anyone I'm romantically involved with.....because.....well.....that's kinda big it seems.

I don't have huge hands or anything, at first it was just fingers. Then I started add another finger, my wife really likes it when I do that. I is really amazing the amount a pussy can stretch, but the key is going really slow. it takes about 15 mins of fondling her before it will get that big, just little by little and pretty soon my hand is in.

 

[firenzi]

My bf likes fisting and tried with me once, but we were unsuccessful. After nearly an hour it still wouldn't work (knuckles couldn't get through) and I was quite sore, so thankfully he stopped and hasn't tried again since. I myself have no real desire to try it again, either. I don't think fisting is for me.

 

[ServerKing]

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[NaturistLouise]

Too Filling

The birth canal may be designed to accommodate large sizes, however, outside of child birth, anything bigger than a large cock is too filling for me to enjoy.

 

[JayinCA]

Yay!

Can I ask what does it feel like to fist someone?

For us, it always accompanies oral. We only try when she's really, really wet (have never actually had to use additional lube, although if we did I might be able to get my whole hand in. But I start out with a finger or two, while working her clit with my tongue. When I know she's wet enough I start adding more, spreading them out inside her to get things ready. I work up to the whole hand, and can get it in up to the last set of knuckles--so by that time there are four fingers and a thumb deep inside her, filling her, pressing against all of her pussy walls (and my tongue still going on her clit). I push deeper and deeper, in as far as I can. It's wonderfully warm and wet and soft on my hand, but the biggest turn-on is her reaction as it's happening, and the explosive orgasm (often with squirting) when she comes. It's the only thing that makes her squirt.

 

[infinity706]

My bf likes fisting and tried with me once, but we were unsuccessful. After nearly an hour it still wouldn't work (knuckles couldn't get through) and I was quite sore, so thankfully he stopped and hasn't tried again since. I myself have no real desire to try it again, either. I don't think fisting is for me.

You don't usually fist someone the first time, anyway, unless they're already used to huge toys. It's something you work up to over time. It's not like you'd enter a triathalon after sitting on a couch all day for years, either. If you ever change your mind, though, you can probably get something bigger than a fist into your vagina if you're willing to work on it. Don't worry about streching out of shape, though. The pelvic floor, vagina and anus are muscle. Even when I could take a dildo as fat as a soda can in the ass, I had the pelvic floor strength that I could clamp down on a pencil so hard it would be difficult to remove.

 

[JayinCA]

You don't usually fist someone the first time, anyway, unless they're already used to huge toys. It's something you work up to over time. It's not like you'd enter a triathalon after sitting on a couch all day for years, either. If you ever change your mind, though, you can probably get something bigger than a fist into your vagina if you're willing to work on it. Don't worry about streching out of shape, though. The pelvic floor, vagina and anus are muscle. Even when I could take a dildo as fat as a soda can in the ass, I had the pelvic floor strength that I could clamp down on a pencil so hard it would be difficult to remove.

I like the way you think!

 

[jan_vjj]

i love it... lots of lube is key... at some point i just NEED it after being fingered open...

 

[firenzi]

You don't usually fist someone the first time, anyway, unless they're already used to huge toys. It's something you work up to over time. It's not like you'd enter a triathalon after sitting on a couch all day for years, either. If you ever change your mind, though, you can probably get something bigger than a fist into your vagina if you're willing to work on it. Don't worry about streching out of shape, though. The pelvic floor, vagina and anus are muscle. Even when I could take a dildo as fat as a soda can in the ass, I had the pelvic floor strength that I could clamp down on a pencil so hard it would be difficult to remove.

That's true. It wasn't something we had planned or discussed beforehand with the idea of eventually achieving it, and it's not really something I've ever fantasized about or wanted to try myself (I actually have a bit of a phobia about largish insertions- forget about actual large ones!- not because I'm worried about getting stretched out or anything like that, it's the same hate/fear I have for needles with nausea, dizziness, tears). I consider myself lucky that he hasn't made me push myself too far in that direction. I'm a wimp!

 

[SultryKitten75]

I love it! It's not an every day want...but at least once a week, feels O SO GOOD.
Takes patience, for both parties, at first. It does require a lot of lube.

Speaking for myself, at first, it was all about relaxing. Letting him add more and more fingers, each time. Pretty soon, I was able to take his hand, up to the last knuckles. After about a week, of letting him stretch me out like this....he was finally able to get his whole fist inside me. OMG the feeling!! It's between the pain/pleasure feeling, of being completely filled....and the mental state, of knowing he has complete control over me at that moment. Seeing his smile, as he is enjoying filling my pussy, with his fist. Feeling myself squirt, all over his hand/arm. It always make me, want more and more. When he finally withdraws, the over whelming empty feeling, always makes me pull him on top of me. I LOVE the feeling of his cock inside me, after he has fisted me. Knowing my pussy is so wet, swollen, and used....waiting to cum on his cock. I'm always a little sore for a day or two afterwards. This never bothers me... as I like the slight soreness to remind me, and make he think of him, and how good he makes me feel.

 

[infinity706]

That's true. It wasn't something we had planned or discussed beforehand with the idea of eventually achieving it, and it's not really something I've ever fantasized about or wanted to try myself (I actually have a bit of a phobia about largish insertions- forget about actual large ones!- not because I'm worried about getting stretched out or anything like that, it's the same hate/fear I have for needles with nausea, dizziness, tears). I consider myself lucky that he hasn't made me push myself too far in that direction. I'm a wimp!

Large insertions aren't really anything to be scared of, though. If you work up to it, there doesn't have to be any pain at all. Once you really train your body for it, you might even be able to take a fist or a baseball bat just as easily as a single finger once you get excited. Of course, unless it's just something that turns you on or you want to fuck that one guy in a zillion with the insanely huge cock, it's not necessarily that awesome. It certainly is a cool trick like deepthroating, though, just because most people can't do it. I actually enjoy a couple talented fingers curled up inside of me more than I did a soda can sized dildo.

 

[JayinCA]

Large insertions aren't really anything to be scared of, though. If you work up to it, there doesn't have to be any pain at all. Once you really train your body for it, you might even be able to take a fist or a baseball bat just as easily as a single finger once you get excited. Of course, unless it's just something that turns you on or you want to fuck that one guy in a zillion with the insanely huge cock, it's not necessarily that awesome. It certainly is a cool trick like deepthroating, though, just because most people can't do it. I actually enjoy a couple talented fingers curled up inside of me more than I did a soda can sized dildo.

Speaking as a man (which is the only way I convincingly can), it's also a gigantic turn-on (at least, for some of us) to watch a woman take something large or otherwise unusual. Primarily it's the novelty of it--while most of us never tire of seeing our own cock in your pussy, seeing a hefty vegetable or a giant dildo or a wine bottle in there is an instant stiffener. And of course, if it's our hand then there's also the pleasure of the tactile turn-on combined with the visual. If, as with some women, that extra filling makes you cum harder and crave our cock all the more, that's better still.

 

[firenzi]

Large insertions aren't really anything to be scared of, though. If you work up to it, there doesn't have to be any pain at all. Once you really train your body for it, you might even be able to take a fist or a baseball bat just as easily as a single finger once you get excited. Of course, unless it's just something that turns you on or you want to fuck that one guy in a zillion with the insanely huge cock, it's not necessarily that awesome. It certainly is a cool trick like deepthroating, though, just because most people can't do it. I actually enjoy a couple talented fingers curled up inside of me more than I did a soda can sized dildo.

Oh I know you're right, and it's not the pain that bothers me (I like pain, within reason) it's the idea that bothers me. I don't really know why, I just have a sort of neurotic aversion.

I'm not knocking it for others, though! And in fact that's why I wanted to come back, to recommend the so-called bible of fisting for those who are interesting in giving it a go: A Hand in the Bush by Deborah Addington.

Vice Magazine Interview with Deborah Addington

I had a copy once but never really did more than skim through it (and I don't like fisting) so I can't really comment on how good a read it is. But, as far as I know it's the only instructional book on vaginal fisting out there.

 

[yourhardlimits]

My percentages are probably a little skewed. Being in the BDSM world, I've had more partners open to fisting than I'd imagine exist in the general population - percentage-wise. Maybe 60% have done it with me, around 20% have "liked" it, and about 1 in 15 have especially enjoyed it. It hasn't always been my hand, however. It seems to go better when another woman is doing the fisting, which is understandable given relative hand sizes. Not only is it a size issue, but the women who have fisted seem to have more flexible hands than me, and were able to shape their fist into a more streamlined form than I was able to do.