fistin advice please

[ho69do]

Yes I am the one that sounded stupid with a reply to the fisting, and I have only three post to on here,but I am not the one that is stupid enough to have to come on here to ask such a question as how to do it dumb ass.

 

[sheath]

Yes I am the one that sounded stupid with a reply to the fisting, and I have only three post to on here,but I am not the one that is stupid enough to have to come on here to ask such a question as how to do it dumb ass.

Oh, if ONLY we all had the sexual prowess that YOU have!

If we did, the world would be a MUCH better place. We would not have to worry about silly things like trying not to hurt our partners, or dealing with imperfect bodies. We would all be born with the innate knowledge of how to be the ultimate lover. Everything would be incredibly simple for all of us, we would all have mind-blowing orgasms, and the G-spot would be something so easy to find, we would all stay at home and do nothing but have sex all day long. Why not?

Of course, fisting would not be a problem. In fact, we would be able to spread our legs, take a fist up the pussy or ass, orgasm immediately and easily, and then stand up and walk away as if nothing had happened. And of course, remember...we wouldn't have to worry about pain, or embarrassment, or whether or not our partner could stretch enough. We would be perfect at everything sexual, because we would all be just that damn good.

Now, that's if we were all just like YOU. Since we aren't? Alas, we just have to deal with being mortal and searching for the ultimate enjoyment in communication, contentment, and joy in our partner...both in abilities AND in limitations concerning that glorious mystery we call sex.

What a BORING world you must live in!

(And for those who didn't catch it...the sarcasm is over now)

S.

 

[Etoile]

Yes I am the one that sounded stupid with a reply to the fisting, and I have only three post to on here,but I am not the one that is stupid enough to have to come on here to ask such a question as how to do it dumb ass.

Could somebody let me know if I was supposed to be insulted by the above? I'm just not sure.

 

[Caliber]

As offensive as I find ho69do, there is no use in feeding a Troll. Just let him pass.

No need to see such an interesting and insightful thread go down in flames.

 

[Etoile]

As offensive as I find ho69do, there is no use in feeding a Troll. Just let him pass.

No need to see such an interesting and insightful thread go down in flames.

Excellent point, thanks for reminding me. I usually know better!

 

[ho69do]

That was so touching, I just cannot find the words to say how it makes me feel. The only thing that seems to me to be wasted, was the time it took to do, when this time could be spent much better with a partner rather than on a com. working on the problem that was the problem from the start. H.

 

[sheath]

As offensive as I find ho69do, there is no use in feeding a Troll. Just let him pass.

No need to see such an interesting and insightful thread go down in flames.

You're right...if I hadn't been all riled up about something else, I would have let it slide. *sigh*

My poor temper...it just doesn't have much self-control! lol

S.

 

[DuckLover]

I second Caliber's comment that this is a GREAT thread-- enlightening and enjoyable!

ho69do, please review the fact that this board is titled "How To." It is intended to be a safe and open place for anyone to ask any sex or relationship related question. Everyone here has a different level of experience and different perspectives. We try to be respectful and appreciative of each other's views. If you have any questions about the nature of the board, please read the welcome thread permanently situated at the top of the board.

 

[Gil_T2]

Re: No experience

I've never tried fisting and don't see it in my future. But just wanted to throw in some info. A good friend of mine ended up in the hospital from fisting. She said it didn't hurt (wasn't the first time) but when he pulled his hand out she was bleeding BAD. She ended up having a transfusion and had to have the tear sewn up! Doctors kept asking her if he had inserted a toy in her! Gawd how embarassing! All the nurses kept asking what they had used and they just kept saying his fingers. But I think they knew.

I'm not trying to scare anybody (I know that's stupid to say now) but I just want you all to know that it's not always safe. She never gave me all the details either. Maybe he pulled out too fast. Maybe not enough lube. She's no spring chick, but I don't know if that would have anything to do with it or not. Just please take your time with this if you do it. Patience and lube seem to be the two things I've read over and over you can't have enough of. And by all means remember that what took so long to go in isn't going to come out fast!

(hope I didn't piss anyone off with this one, if so I'll say I'm sorry now)

Well trimmed finger nails are vital for this to be safe (fisting).

I did some net searching & discovered that several places sugest that the lady try self fisting because they can feel any discomfort & can work their own fist to make the entry as easy as possible.
They say to try standing with one leg on a chair to start & take your time fingering yourself & as you feel the muscles relax try more & if you have discomfort just stay at that level till next time as forcing can cause you to tighten next time you try making it impossible.

LOTS OF LUBE

LOTS OF PATIENTS

DOCTOR GLOVES...To prevent infection

AND LOTS OF LUCK.

 

[Etoile]

Re: Re: No experience

I did some net searching & discovered that several places sugest that the lady try self fisting because they can feel any discomfort & can work their own fist to make the entry as easy as possible.
They say to try standing with one leg on a chair to start & take your time fingering yourself & as you feel the muscles relax try more & if you have discomfort just stay at that level till next time as forcing can cause you to tighten next time you try making it impossible.

I've never tried self-fisting. It seems like more trouble than it's worth, personally. You have to have a lot of flexibility to do this one comfortably. I saw a picture of it in a kink book once (the lady looked gleeful and was clearly posing) but it just doesn't interest me.

 

[Gil_T2]

Re: Re: Re: No experience

I've never tried self-fisting. It seems like more trouble than it's worth, personally. You have to have a lot of flexibility to do this one comfortably. I saw a picture of it in a kink book once (the lady looked gleeful and was clearly posing) but it just doesn't interest me.

My point was that YOU can know what your feeling & adjust your entry to make it as pain free as possible so that you can direct your playmate to make his/her fisting to maximize your pleasure & from watching a lady friend do it it didn't appear that hard to achieve & made my fat hand enter easier but was just a thought for those wanting to try.

 

[Etoile]

Re: Re: Re: Re: No experience

My point was that YOU can know what your feeling & adjust your entry to make it as pain free as possible so that you can direct your playmate to make his/her fisting to maximize your pleasure & from watching a lady friend do it it didn't appear that hard to achieve & made my fat hand enter easier but was just a thought for those wanting to try.

Can you picture fisting your own ass? That's about the flexibility that would be required. Quite simply, we don't have a joint between our wrist and our elbow, so the flexibility has to be in the back. Some can, some can't. I also don't know that I agree that self-fisting or fisting by someone with a small hand will make someone able to be fisted by a larger hand.

But hey, if somebody wants to try self-fisting, I'm not going to stop them. (I'll take pictures!)