First time swinging?

[Mnkinkcpl]

Just wondering about first time swinging experiences?

For us it was with friends, we would get together usually Wednesday nights for card or board games, two or three couples. One night we were playing spades and got board and switched to poker, that led into strip poker. When the female of the other couple ran out of chips and clothing her husband offered her more chips if she would masturbate for us. Things got more interesting from there as we all ran out of clothing.

It ended up with same room sex with our own spouses.

Anne and I were hooked.

 

[Shi_One81]

For me, it was with a man I met on here and we were invited to a swingers party. I was extremely nervous and he had to practically drag me inside. Lol that was over 6 years ago and the relationship has since ended.
My hubby and I have been members of a local swingers club for almost 4 years and attend events several times a month.

 

[Mnkinkcpl]

For me, it was with a man I met on here and we were invited to a swingers party. I was extremely nervous and he had to practically drag me inside. Lol that was over 6 years ago and the relationship has since ended.
My hubby and I have been members of a local swingers club for almost 4 years and attend events several times a month.

Did you interact at that first party? Anne and I always recommend that new people take things slow their first time out, but sometimes the excitement takes over

 

[Shi_One81]

Did you interact at that first party? Anne and I always recommend that new people take things slow their first time out, but sometimes the excitement takes over

We did but just with each other and another man.

 

[Mnkinkcpl]

At our first event we used fake names too, but just alts of our real names, ie.. Bob for Robert. That made it much easier. At that time our local club held monthly meet n greets with a party/play suite after. Anne was still breast feeding and was very popular.

We got to talking to a swing group online. They were an 8 hour drive, which was perfect because wife worked for the biggest company in town and was known to a lot of people.

As people do, we used "online names." Ours were Mark and Teri. I chose Mark because it seemed easy to remember. She chose Teri because if she had gotten to name herself, she said that's what she'd have chosen. We decided to just be Mark and Teri for the night because that would be familiar to people we'd talked to online.

The event was in a hotel, big adjoining suites, around 20 people, give or take. The first people we spoke to were an attractive couple and when I introduced us, I froze. I couldn't remember our names! I tried, for a second or two, no doubt looking like a halfwit, and finally said, "I can't do this! I'm (real name) and she's (real name)." The four of us had a laugh over the failed name plan and we all ended up in bed together later that night.

If there's a moral to that story, I guess it's, "Be yourself and have fun!"

 

[soflabbwlvr]

This is a bit difficult to answer with precision. We more or less gradually slid into swinging. At first we were only interested in meeting single females for threesomes, and after almost two years of searching through online ads we finally met one. After that we started going to a local swinger club in the hope of finding another, but met with no success. We were not interested in couples, so we usually watched others and then fucked each other while others watched before leaving for the night. We did have some same room sex with another couple we met online, and that turned some girl/girl sex also.

One night at the swinger club -- probably our 5th or 6th time there -- we we were standing in a room with another couple and watching two other couples having sex with each other. My wife turned to me and said the husband standing next to her was playing with her ass. I asked her if she was OK, and she said yes. A few minutes later he was feeling her tit. I asked her if she was OK and again she said yes. About ten minutes later she was bent over at the waist and the guy was fucking her from behind while his wife was sucking her tits. At that point I thought, well, it's on, so I started messing with the other wife. My wife and the other guy continued fucking, but the other wife wasn't really into it. She played with my wife and her husband, but left me hanging.

We went home and talked it over, and decided we were open to playing with couples. A few months later we met a couple from out of state who were traveling to our area for vacation. We agreed to meet them for dinner and drinks at a bar, which led to a games of really hot pool. We ended up back at their hotel room. We weren't really sure if we wanted to fuck them, but they were experienced and easily got us into bed. The wife took me out onto the balcony, undressed and sucked my cock outdoors. When we went inside the husband was balls deep in my wife, fucking her hard and deep. We spent the rest of the night fucking -- my wife and the other husband on the bed, and me and the other wife on a sofa. She was a squirter and ruined that sofa.

Anyway, that's how we got started.

 

[wmbg]

Our best friends. Dave and Debbie. Dave and I talked sex and he thought my wife was sexy. They started kissing hello and goodbye. at the same time, his wife and I watched. They started making out while his wife and I watched. His wife and I told them to start fucking. So they did, and I undressed his wife and ate her pussy, and she blew me. We started all fucking together and taking trips together. We did this for a few years. My wife wanted Dave's baby, so we threw a breeding pretend party. I would be inside my wife, and my wife would tell Debbie to pull me out and put her husband in her. We played lots of sex games.

 

[shewantsmore]

For me it was 4 years into my marriage, my husband kept on and on asking me trying to pursade me and i loved him so in the end i said yes, it was with a friend of his ,i knew him but not that well,we chatted over phone,arranged to meet for a drink and went from there

 

[Mnkinkcpl]

Since I'm procrastinating starting a project I'll share our first swingers meet n greet.

We had been swinging with friends from the vanilla world for over ten years when we found ourselves running out of playmates due to moves and divorce.

We started looking online for new "friends" we found several local couples that interested us and a few of them told us that we should come to one of the parties.

Anne and I discussed it a lot, at least once a day for a few weeks.

We had all the usual fears, what if we run into someone we know? Will everyone be perverts? STDs?

The club had a website with a chat room and Anne started going there after the kids were in bed and meeting people, that was what pushed us to at least go and check things out.

99% of the people were just like us, couples in their 30's and 40's with kids and real lives. We had agreed before hand to just watch and that is what we did.

Nothing like 5 hours of intense flirting to get the motor running.

 

[esmdcpl4_69]

Our first and only experience to date was with Adam's best friend from HS, Mike and his wife, Wendy. We were always flirting and making sexual innuendo with each other nothing ever resulted in anything. One night we were at there place and all had been drinking around the fire pit. Mike and Adam went to take a pee, Wendy suggested that we go and check out their packages. The boys said since yall saw ours, we get to see yours. Wendy was on her period so she said ok boys, here's our tits and we flashed them. This really got our motors running and Adam and I were talking about what if things were to go further. Adam later revealed that him and Mike had talked about that maybe happening in the future. Now I must admit that neither of them were totally physically attractive to us, Mike was short and stocky with glasses and a ponytail, but had a nice thick cock. Wendy looked like the former WWF wrestler Chynna minus the muscular build.

Fast forward a year later and Adam had won a free weekend to Williamsburg, VA complete with hotel, Busch Gardens tickets and meal vouchers. We asked them to join us and share our hotel room. After a fun and rainy day at Busch Gardens we were all wet and ready to change into warmer clothes before heading to dinner. I decided to shower before we went out. As I was in the shower, Wendy knocked on the door and asked to use the bathroom. She came in and was using the toilet when I decided to open the shower curtain and talk to her. As she finished her pee, she said that when I was finished she wanted to freshen up and shower next. I asked her to join me and she did. I guess the boys were curious since we were both in the bathroom for a while, since we were touching each other and making out. Mike knocked on the door interrupting me licking my way down to her hairy pussy. He came in and saw that we were both in the shower yelling to Adam to come quick. The boys proceeded to pull the curtain back and watch us take turns enjoying each others bodies.

Adam asked us to bring the show into the bedroom. We agreed and the boys couldn't get naked fast enough to start stroking themselves as Wendy and I went into a 69 on their bed. After a few minutes, I feel a cock in me from behind ( I was on top of Wendy) and I look up from enjoying her hairy pussy to see Mike impaling me from behind. Just from the sheer girth I knew it wasn't Adam. I look back around to see Adam kneeling in front of me and Wendy giving his cock a tongue bath. She eventually slid out from under me and rode Adam's cock. Adam came first so I enjoyed his cum from Wendy's creampie as Mike finished giving me an anal cream pie.

We never had another opportunity to swap with them, but it was definitely our inhiation into the lifestyle.

 

[Mnkinkcpl]

Our first and only experience to date was with Adam's best friend from HS, Mike and his wife, Wendy. We were always flirting and making sexual innuendo with each other nothing ever resulted in anything. One night we were at there place and all had been drinking around the fire pit. Mike and Adam went to take a pee, Wendy suggested that we go and check out their packages. The boys said since yall saw ours, we get to see yours. Wendy was on her period so she said ok boys, here's our tits and we flashed them. This really got our motors running and Adam and I were talking about what if things were to go further. Adam later revealed that him and Mike had talked about that maybe happening in the future. Now I must admit that neither of them were totally physically attractive to us, Mike was short and stocky with glasses and a ponytail, but had a nice thick cock. Wendy looked like the former WWF wrestler Chynna minus the muscular build.

Fast forward a year later and Adam had won a free weekend to Williamsburg, VA complete with hotel, Busch Gardens tickets and meal vouchers. We asked them to join us and share our hotel room. After a fun and rainy day at Busch Gardens we were all wet and ready to change into warmer clothes before heading to dinner. I decided to shower before we went out. As I was in the shower, Wendy knocked on the door and asked to use the bathroom. She came in and was using the toilet when I decided to open the shower curtain and talk to her. As she finished her pee, she said that when I was finished she wanted to freshen up and shower next. I asked her to join me and she did. I guess the boys were curious since we were both in the bathroom for a while, since we were touching each other and making out. Mike knocked on the door interrupting me licking my way down to her hairy pussy. He came in and saw that we were both in the shower yelling to Adam to come quick. The boys proceeded to pull the curtain back and watch us take turns enjoying each others bodies.

Adam asked us to bring the show into the bedroom. We agreed and the boys couldn't get naked fast enough to start stroking themselves as Wendy and I went into a 69 on their bed. After a few minutes, I feel a cock in me from behind ( I was on top of Wendy) and I look up from enjoying her hairy pussy to see Mike impaling me from behind. Just from the sheer girth I knew it wasn't Adam. I look back around to see Adam kneeling in front of me and Wendy giving his cock a tongue bath. She eventually slid out from under me and rode Adam's cock. Adam came first so I enjoyed his cum from Wendy's creampie as Mike finished giving me an anal cream pie.

We never had another opportunity to swap with them, but it was definitely our inhiation into the lifestyle.

Sounds like a great first time.

 

[IndianaStevenJones]

Just wondering about first time swinging experiences?

For us it was with friends, we would get together usually Wednesday nights for card or board games, two or three couples. One night we were playing spades and got board and switched to poker, that led into strip poker. When the female of the other couple ran out of chips and clothing her husband offered her more chips if she would masturbate for us. Things got more interesting from there as we all ran out of clothing.

It ended up with same room sex with our own spouses.

Anne and I were hooked.

We do it to. Amongst other sexual things.

 

[pace_purr]

We had started soft swinging just allowing foreplay but sex with own partner, we did this a few times pushing the envelope a little further each time. Then one night a couple who were experienced swingers took us that little bit further and we took the plunge and swapped partners for the first time. It wasn’t brilliant but better than expected on the sexual enjoyment side.
After we got home that night we sat down and talked, we decided there was more pluses than minuses but it could be better so we made a list of what we wanted. We then placed ads stating what we were looking for and went from there, we met some great couples and had some great times. The trouble was I never got the female that was as sexually fulfilling as my wife and she for the most part never was satisfied sexually. So we decided that the hot wife threesome model might work and it did for 30 years off and on

 

[magicalmoments]

It started for us when I discovered a swingers contact magazine at a local book store. This was well before the Internet was a thing. I bought it and took it home. It was full of adverts from people seeking others for sex in just about every combination you could think of. Long story short my wife and I placed an advert asking other couples to contact us for sexy times. We started out with same room sex with our respective partners. At some point my wife really connected with the husband of another couple and we ended up in a 3'sum with him. My wife was hooked. We started swapping partners and having 3'sums more regularly. This eventually led to us having an open marriage and about 20 years of fun before we decided to call it quits.

 

[Richelieujuniour]

Just wondering about first time swinging experiences?

For us it was with friends, we would get together usually Wednesday nights for card or board games, two or three couples. One night we were playing spades and got board and switched to poker, that led into strip poker. When the female of the other couple ran out of chips and clothing her husband offered her more chips if she would masturbate for us. Things got more interesting from there as we all ran out of clothing.

It ended up with same room sex with our own spouses.

Anne and I were hooked.

My very first experience was with a couple, then with an older lady who invited me to 'soirees' with her where i would service her friends...

She taught me so much, mad eme a good lover early, and left me with a desire not only to see and be seen, but to have as many partners as possible..
Sorry if this is short on details, but I have no secrets--ask away!

(I too have done game nights, lingeries shows, auctions, etc... Fun!)

 

[ChrissyLongLegs]

Our first time (well my first time) was when my husband was on a work trip. He had to extend the work trip a few days and miss a dinner date with another couple. I don't remember what lead me to go over there place after dinner, but I went over their house and we facetime with my husband while we were drinking and joking around. I was a little drunk and start making out with the wife and her husband and my husband was talking and her husband join us. Hubby end up watching the whole thing.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

I was already bisexual when I met my husband and had determined to be upfront with him about it when we first met. Thankfully, unlike my previous partner, he was understanding and it was refreshing to not have to hide the fact from him. Our first threesome was about six months into our relationship with a girlfriend of mine and the first couple of years of our marriage, it was just us with the occasional 2nd female involved. We also liked porn and it was a regular part of our bedroom activity. My husband was observant and took note I would get intensely turned on a scenarios of two men and a woman. Before long, we invited a trusted friend into our bedroom. He was the first man along with my husband, that I was double penetrated by. I have no idea how many times we all fucked together but they were numerous. Finally, we attended our first swinger club and a month later were involved in our first full scale orgy. We later volunteered as counselors for new singles and couples' which was an interesting experience in itself.

 

[MileHighBlackDiamond]

Our first time we went to our local club where we hit it off and full swapped with 2 couples separately, played with a single male as well. That was just the beginning, we have continued since to have wonderful experiences and look forward to more.

 

[Filipinawife]

Our first time was in honeymoon in Phuket. The guy in the beach villa next to ours on the deck in the moonlight.

 

[marriedpervs]

Our first time was at a ball here in town well known as a swingers event. We went with good friends who had been going for a few times. We loved it and drifted into the actual swinging after spending ages dancing with others and exploring the feelings associated with teasing and voyeurism watching each other interact physically with others. Loved it then, still doing it now, almost twenty years later. Happily married and feel that this scene has only enhanced our already active sex lives together.

 

[Luvloosepussy]

Our best friends. Dave and Debbie. Dave and I talked sex and he thought my wife was sexy. They started kissing hello and goodbye. at the same time, his wife and I watched. They started making out while his wife and I watched. His wife and I told them to start fucking. So they did, and I undressed his wife and ate her pussy, and she blew me. We started all fucking together and taking trips together. We did this for a few years. My wife wanted Dave's baby, so we threw a breeding pretend party. I would be inside my wife, and my wife would tell Debbie to pull me out and put her husband in her. We played lots of sex games.

That is funding hot, did your wife have his baby???

 

[Horsemanuk]

First time in my mid-20s, i'd just got into nudism and a few people i'd got friendly with had also mentioned about lifestyle clubs and they sometimes also swaped. Shortly after I'd started to date a girl who was very sexually open and after talking she sugested she'd be interested to try. So we did, just jumped in at the deep end and it snowballed from there.

 

[Sgts19]

After we parted ways with our friends who we’d been playing with for 10+ years we looked into swinging. Put a profile and a few cropped pics on SLS site and was flooded with emails. I can’t remember how but we decided to meet a cpl for a drink and to check things out. They had been in it for years so we asked every question we could think of. We hadn’t committed at that point so said no when they asked us to party..fuck. I think we met for drinks or dinner 4 or 5 times. My wife made me promise we’d excuse ourselves and agree to go for it . So he asked you want to party and my wife said ok? Where the fuck was this big meeting she wanted to have with me. So we get to their house I’m on one couch with his wife making out mines on the other with him so being Mr Smooth I say, well how does this all work. All three looked at me like I was crazy...blew my Mr Smooth image. So his wife starts telling me we’ll go in that bedroom they’ll go in the other. While she telling me this he’s already walking down the hall with his hand on her ass. So she and I do our thing and just laying there while I’m recharging for round two when we hear my wife moaning real loud really loud. His wife says he must be working his magic whatever that was. Then she says they don’t fuck much because he’s to big. Funny I was suddenly ready for round two. So that was our first and we went from there.

 

[Funshyne]

Just wondering about first time swinging experiences?

For us it was with friends, we would get together usually Wednesday nights for card or board games, two or three couples. One night we were playing spades and got board and switched to poker, that led into strip poker. When the female of the other couple ran out of chips and clothing her husband offered her more chips if she would masturbate for us. Things got more interesting from there as we all ran out of clothing.

It ended up with same room sex with our own spouses.

Anne and I were hooked.

We got into it with some friends as well. We'd often spend the weekends together playing games and going out to restaurants and partying. We ended up planning a trip to Vegas together and planned on sharing a room with two queen beds. During the trip we started by giving each other turns with the room but one night we got back to the room and decided we were all adults and each had sex on our own bed but at the same time in the room. That kept up for the remainder of the trip and on the last day we decided to try swapping and it sparked the interest for us.

 

[Diann_Mom]

Our first couple swap happened quite by accident! It was kind of weird but turned out to be very exciting for both of us and started us down the path of the swing lifestyle that has lasted eleven years.