First Time ( So I broke the rules, I'm sorry

[Dominerd]

Before anything, I'd like to say I'm sorry for braking the rules here... I joined a while back but only turned 18 a few days ago...

I'm a shy guy, I live in Mexico which makes me VERY popular and women are attracted to me not for who I am, but for the mear fact I'm a status symbol... I used to live in a small town called progreso ( in the Yucatan penisula) and I'm here again for vacation... I'm being invited to ALOT of parties and girls are always surrounding me... I feel shy and don't know what to say, I just ask stupid things " So what's your name?", "So what school are you in?", and stuff like that, which of course... turns the girls away.

I'm a virgin ( which is quite amazing since I've had women offer themselves to me several time, but as I said before, I'm shy). I feel quite afraid now, knowing that the time is approaching quickly. All I've ever heard my entire life is that guy's first times "suck" "End quickly" "suck some more", and I can't think of anything either that those words when I'm with a woman. Being in a small town means that EVERYONE will know within a few minutes after you've failed with a woman, so I want to avoid this at all costs...

I know I've been rambling, but... I'm shy, so whata can I say...

My question is: WHAT CAN I DO? Now you may be thinking "What an un-discriptive question", and you're right, I know NOTHING about this subject, so please inform me on how to elong my time in bed with a woman, how to pleasure her without penetration, and ANY information you have I could find useful.

 

[The_Teche]

Read this thread...
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=349682

 

[Dominerd]

Ah, my online sex twin... I'll read that, but any information that wasn't posted there, please post here

Read this thread...
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=349682

 

[The_Teche]

As far has interaction is concerned...tell the ladies you wish to learn to speak there language...they love to teach....even if you understand what they are saying..pretend you don't....they will appreciate the fact you are willing to learn so that you may communicate...
It worked for me in Germany plus I learned something in exchange.
Good Luck

 

[Dominerd]

As far has interaction is concerned...tell the ladies you wish to learn to speak there language...they love to teach....even if you understand what they are saying..pretend you don't....they will appreciate the fact you are willing to learn so that you may communicate...
It worked for me in Germany plus I learned something in exchange.
Good Luck

Thanks, I've been here for 7 years ( in Mexico that is, not in Progreso... I was only in progreso for three years or so) so I know most of the language.

ps: Looking at my first post I see several typos, I'm very sorry about that, but I'm on a laptop computer with small keys and... I'm nervous, sorry.

 

[Dominerd]

I know masturbating is NOTHING like the "real" thing, but I just realized ( After "testing" from online porn)something... People in the other thread said that I should jack-off before, so I last longer, but I DON'T last longer, I just cum less... Takes the same ammount of time, but there's less "product"... Is that normal, or is there something I should do?

 

[The_Teche]

7 years...well maybe the language thing won't work...
Learn or discover something that will make you stand out ...this will boost your self esteem and get their attention as well...
can you lick your eyebrows....

 

[Dominerd]

7 years...well maybe the language thing won't work...
Learn or discover something that will make you stand out ...this will boost your self esteem and get their attention as well...
can you lick your eyebrows....

... LICK MY EYEBROWS? I can't lick my nose! WOW!!! I have GOT to try these toung exercises you've got mastered!
I already "stand out"... Some how, me sitting alone in a party attracts women, and all the guys like me because when I live in Oaxaca I live on a marajuana farm, so I can bring them samples and stuff.

 

[The_Teche]

I know masturbating is NOTHING like the "real" thing, but I just realized ( After "testing" from on line porn)something... People in the other thread said that I should jack-off before, so I last longer, but I DON'T last longer, I just cum less... Takes the same amount of time, but there's less "product"... Is that normal, or is there something I should do?

It's in reference to jerking off before having sex with a lady. If you want to last then you have to learn control....find something that gets you excited and masturbate but don't allow yourself to cum....stop.....regain your composure and then start again....do this enough and you will learn how to control your orgasm plus the end result will be spectaculor... discipline yourself to the understanding that her orgasm is the most important thing...get her off first...and second...and third....a side effect of this will also have her coming back for more...

 

[Dominerd]

It's in reference to jerking off before having sex with a lady. If you want to last then you have to learn control....find something that gets you excited and masturbate but don't allow yourself to cum....stop.....regain your composure and then start again....do this enough and you will learn how to control your orgasm plus the end result will be spectaculor... discipline yourself to the understanding that her orgasm is the most important thing...get her off first...and second...and third....a side effect of this will also have her coming back for more...

"have her comming back for more..." ... I think you should be a motivational speaker. That was great, thanks I'll try.

 

[The_Teche]

Icing on the cake....
Get her off to the point where she is speaking in tongue and then walk away.. (this is where the discipline comes in).
Tell her this time it was for you, next time will be for us...don't forget the farewell kiss.

 

[Dominerd]

Icing on the cake....
Get her off to the point where she is speaking in tongue and then walk away.. (this is where the discipline comes in).
Tell her this time it was for you, next time will be for us...don't forget the farewell kiss.

I won't...

* Hasn't kissed a girl since he was 8