First time oral

[Gods_Favorite]

God I wish, all that happened is she told me how to eat pussy and let me do it to her a couple times, we never went out together or anything, it was like a kinky student/teacher relationship even though she was a sophmore and I was a senior.

 

[Hurricane1484]

some is better than none my friend. PLus when ur in high school, isnt that all ur lookin for anyway

 

[BlueDaisy]

You've received some excellent advice here, especially from woodcarver (hey sweetie....sorry you didn't have such a good night. wish you guys could have been with us at the LitTogether. You could have seen me almost totally smashed! lol)

I would not advise starting out with 69, as has been mentioned previously. If this will be your first time giving oral, you need to give all your attention to her and her reactions. If you are doing 69, you will get caught up in your own sensations.

As was mentioned, there are many threads on the topic. The best one, IMHO, is the thread "men who truly love to lick". Those men....wow! I have major fantasies about them! lol

Good luck and congratulations on finishing a year of school!

 

[Hurricane1484]

Thanks for your advice! I wanna focus entirely on her. I'll check out that thread, if I can find it ANyway, is there anymore adivce anyone can give??

 

[rosie70]

I too advise not doing 69, not the first time. On her back is probably the best (that's the only way I like it, anyway)
Tell her to feel comfortable telling you what feels good and what doesn't, because everyone's different. The only reason my hubby can make me cum every time is because he knows really well what I like!
But as general advice, I recommend starting slow: maybe kiss the inside of her thighs then slowly kiss/lick her entire pussy area (starting out on her clit might be too intense for her in the beginning). When she's ready for something more intense, concentrate on her clit, licking it in circles, steadily. At the same time, you can try working a finger or two in and out of her pussy, if she likes that.
Since this is the first time she's had oral, she may not know what she likes or needs in order to cum, so it may take a while for her to cum, so don't be discouraged.
Hope this helps!

 

[Hurricane1484]

Thank you Rosie! You're the best when it comes to advice. I'm willing to take as long as it takes to get her to cum. She deserves something specil. I just hope i can put all this good advice to use.

 

[emer]

One other practical piece of advice. Slide a firm pillow under her hips. This will save your neck and her thigh muscles!

Good Luck,
emer

 

[rosie70]

Thank you Rosie! You're the best when it comes to advice. I'm willing to take as long as it takes to get her to cum. She deserves something specil. I just hope i can put all this good advice to use.

Glad I could be of help!
She's a lucky lady to have someone care about her pleasure so much. Have fun!

 

[Guest]

take it slow...

 

[Hurricane1484]

Rosie: Thanks or helping. I do care about her a lot. I just recently found out she's never had an orgasm See we are meeting for the first time soon and we've been together every night for the past 14 months. It's been very very wonderful and I love everything. I just wanna make her happy and not rush things, while at the same time learn about what I can do to make her feel better. So, I guess 'm just gonna go with the flow and take things as they come. I want her first time to be amazing!

Raventale: Wow! That's great advice there! It's nice to have a lady's opinion on this. Being that you are on the receviing end lol. I won't have to act like I love it because I know I will!!!! I think I'm more excited about it than she is! Well, i think

Emer: Thats a great idea. I never thought about that. It'll make her even more comfortable. Thanks god for this thread, its helpin me out a lot here!

 

[ReadyOne]

Two things I didn't see mentioned...

1. Follow her around when she moves a little away. She's not really trying to get away from you. Just something about bucking hips that seem to move the body backwards a bit.

When she actively pushes you away, or puts her hands on your head then it's too much for her.

2a. If you put a finger or two inside her, you may be able to feel a rougher patch of skin an inch (plus or minus a lot) on the inside toward her belly button. This is the proverbial G-spot. Strokeing it in a "come hither" motion can be very rewarding. G-spots most often take firm(er) handling, so try using more pressure if you get a reaction and see if that's even better for her.

If your fingers find something interesting inside, stop for a minute and ask if you've gotten near a "spot". She may help you find exactly where it is.

2b. Go read https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=70892 for an interesting G-spot exercise which a zillion people swear is incredable.

PS: Her squatting/kneeling over your face (and maybe balanacing herself by hanging onto a head board) can give her very good control over location and pressure. If you can't quite seem to get it right, but she knows you're often close, switch and see if letter her drive will complete the circut.

 

[sexcandy]

I just recently found out she's never had an orgasm

Has she tried masterbation? I know that this may seem like a silly quesiton but I did not masterbate until I was 27 and until that time I had never had an orgasm. I have never had an orgasm with a partner. Your partner does not have to have an orgasm to enjoy sex, I always enjoyed it. Also do not have orgasm be your goal, it can put too much pressure on her and make her unable to relax enough to have one. Focus on giving her "pleasure" and being close with her.

 

[Hurricane1484]

awww thats sweet

I do wanna be close to her and makes sure she's a very pleasurable experience. I dont think she's tried masturbation. She is a very very classy girl and if she has she hasn't told me and thats something that doen't matter much to me right now. But ur right, I just wanna be close to her...orgasms are a bonus

 

[BlueDaisy]

Rosie: Thanks or helping. I do care about her a lot. I just recently found out she's never had an orgasm See we are meeting for the first time soon and we've been together every night for the past 14 months. It's been very very wonderful and I love everything. I just wanna make her happy and not rush things, while at the same time learn about what I can do to make her feel better. So, I guess 'm just gonna go with the flow and take things as they come. I want her first time to be amazing!

*scratching head* um...did I miss something in that paragraph? You are meeting for the first time soon but you've been together every night for the past 14 months? Does that mean via computer/phone?

 

[Hurricane1484]

yes

 

[BlueDaisy]

yes

Wow...short and to the point! lol

Well, good luck, hon. I hope it all works out for you. Oh...did you find the link about the men who love to lick? If you can't find it, let me know and I'll dig it up for you.

 

[Hurricane1484]

I'm sorry about that. Some people think I'm crazy for doing what I'm doing. But I love her so much. I looked for the link, but I couldn't find it. I dd that search you asked me to do and it kept giving me an error. So if you could find it I would appreciate!! Thank you BlueDaisy

 

[BlueDaisy]

Here ya go, hurricane.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=102925&highlight=Truly+love+lick

Hope it helps!

 

[Hurricane1484]

thanks Blue!! I'll be looking through that one all night!!!

 

[JenniElff]

Hey, I wanted to give you some pointers too Now, I would like to say that teasing is a wonderful thing I love it when a guy will slowly brush his fingers over my thighs, let them barely touch my clit and lips, then do the same with his lips and tongue. No matter how shy this will get her to spread them legs quicker than anything
After you have been at work for a few, she should be getting slick so you can work in a finger or two at the same time...I can never stress this! Lol, I am not the best communicator in bed and when I tell a guy "use your fingers" he invariably stops the mouth action in favor of a hand job, sigh...I want BOTH!!! Hell, a lot of times I wish i could have someone licking my clit while having sex! Oooh!
Lol, anyways, back to advice for ya, yes, the first time may take a good long while fore stuff gets going, but don't get discouraged and above all have FUN!!! dont stress it!

 

[Hurricane1484]

Teasing is a good thing!! Thanks for your advice there. I hope she enjoys all these pointers I'm getting and I hope they pay off!

lol I think I'm coordinated enough to do the fingers and mouth action at the same time. It's gonna be really fun and I promise everyone I will enjoy this thanks to all the advice and future advice I will recieve! You guys are the best!

 

[rosie70]

Well, Hurricane, it sounds like you got a lot of good advice and ideas here, so hopefully we were all helpful and hope you 2 have a good time!