First Time Meeting

[yungpup123]

In an hour I (24) will meet a man (56) who I've been chatting with online for the past few months. I am strangely nervous, excited, and calm. We were suppose to meet once before but I canceled last minute because I was too scared. This time I decided to just give it a shot and see what happens. I just hope I am not too shy and will be able to communicate. I suppose I'm posting this just to get it out there, this curiosity of the male anatomy. I think an older more experienced man teaching a younger sexual pleasure is so hot. Makes my cock grow thinking about it. I plan on wearing my cute boy thong... thinking about wearing for him drives me crazy. Wish me luck...

 

[nakedboater69]

good luck and enjoy

 

[minn]

Good Luck!

Being an older guy I envy your partner. I hope you both enjoy your time together! Don't forget to report back.

 

[yungpup123]

Thank you. I am waiting for the train. So nervous! I wont forget to report back!

 

[yungpup123]

At the movie theater waiting for him... Very nervous. I got here early and felt like the whole world was looking at me.

 

[fde2blk]

To bad you couldn't do a live cam for us

 

[photobuff56]

Good luck wish I was him

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Good Luck

Hey good luck I'm 53 and wife is 50, we have talked about adding a young man to our play. Have lots of fun.

 

[LeoDecaturAL]

Closed

 

[Seamen]

We were suppose to meet once before but I canceled last minute because I was too scared.

Been there myself. Hope this time's better for you.

 

[cradar]

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[minn]

Well?

It's been some time now. What happened?

 

[klippert]

certainly like and update...hope he didn't met One of those guys.

 

[yungpup123]

Apologize

Sorry it has taken so long to update. It has mostly to do with it being a terrible experience. I have not told a single soul about what happened. I guess I should start from the beginning. We met at the theater and he seemed cool so we watched the movie and then went to his place for a beer. Now that I think about it with a clear mind that was pretty dangerous. Anyway he had his dog home and the smell was pretty bad so he put his dog out. We ended up cuddling... which was fine... but when we kissed it was terrible. He was slobbering all over my face which was so disgusting. I figured he was just happy to finally meet me so I let it go. He ended up eating me out and going down on me. Those experiences were fine I guess... but I didn't feel the way I thought I would.. everything felt so rushed. I don't know what to say. The combination of his aggressiveness, the smell, the absolutely horrific kissing (biggest turn off, felt like he was going to eat my face off)... makes my stomach turn thinking about it. Deep down I wish I would've stopped all this from happening the moment he kissed me, I don't know why I allowed him to continue.

I am sorry to disappoint everyone and I wish I would've had a better experience.. that was my first time with a man and it did not go well at all. He text me after the ordeal saying he hoped he didn't freak me out or anything.. I did not respond. I still felt sick. I don't know if I want to do this again... feeling really let down.

 

[klippert]

You haven't disappointing anyone. Oh sure we were hoping you'd been in the throngs of intense lust...BUT, such as real life unfolds. I had leaned on the side that you might have had a downer to say the least.

I think I would have begged off at the smell...you live and you learn. Truly glad you didn't get hurt.

 

[jackstud]

Yung you just met the wrong number. Keep open, trust your senses. try again. Some of us can be Romantic

 

[TJcurious]

Sorry you had a bad experience. A young pup like you should have been treated with tenderness, and you needed a gentle man. Don't give up on us old dogs....some of us are really considerate, and loving.

 

[stillcurious2]

You haven't disappointing anyone. Oh sure we were hoping you'd been in the throngs of intense lust...BUT, such as real life unfolds. I had leaned on the side that you might have had a downer to say the least.

I think I would have begged off at the smell...you live and you learn. Truly glad you didn't get hurt.

What he said.

 

[ilike2try]

I am so sorry to hear it went poorly for you. There are indeed many men who would have (and will) give every consideration to a young, inexperienced guy like yourself. I have enjoyed mainly wonderful experiences with delightful men, which is why I still like to enjoy such experiences today, fourteen years after my first time.

As hard as it may seem right now, I hope you won't want to give up m-m experiences because of this inconsiderate person. It takes time to get it right. I'm sure many here will have good advice to offer to ensure your next experience is the utterly pleasurable, wonderfully memorable one you want it to be.

 

[klippert]

I am so sorry to hear it went poorly for you. There are indeed many men who would have (and will) give every consideration to a young, inexperienced guy like yourself. I have enjoyed mainly wonderful experiences with delightful men, which is why I still like to enjoy such experiences today, fourteen years after my first time.

As hard as it may seem right now, I hope you won't want to give up m-m experiences because of this inconsiderate person. It takes time to get it right. I'm sure many here will have good advice to offer to ensure your next experience is the utterly pleasurable, wonderfully memorable one you want it to be.

I completely agree...you just landed a pigpen. Some are lucky, tee it up and nail it (no pun intended)....if you truly desire the M-M... you'll find a good one. skip craigslist...try other sites.... such a AFF and Squirt dot org

 

[jackstud]

Very sexy advice I like to try

 

[jupija]

Trust your feelings

Just have to wait for the right chemistry. M-M or M-F or F-F - or ? - you just have to feel good about it - or don't! My worst experiences were when the feeling in my belly was wrong and my best were when the feeling in the heart was right. That's really the sign. Trust your feelings.

 

[nightjack]

These things can happen...

Your experience sounds very similar to one I had in the past. Sometimes you can find that the chemistry is not quite right. This is not to say that your feelings on your own conduct are wrong, but that you just dont match. Mark it down to experience and move on when you are ready. You will meet someone special, and when that happens you will know. Perhaps next time just meet up in a cafe or bar, just so that you can get to know your date a bit better first. There is no need to rush into anything if you are not comfortable.

Good luck.

 

[stickygirl]

I agree with everything that's ben said here and I've found it quite touching reading how nice you fellas have been in supporting Pup - *hugs* all round guys. The only thing I was going to add is to stick to the old rule of letting someone know where you will be, even if you have to fib about why! Promise me you'll do that , even if you think you know the person through online contact.

 

[yungpup123]

Thanks for the advice everyone, I really REALLY appreciate it. Helps me put things into perspective and not freak out about all of that.

What websites do you guys use to meet other men or a younger/older men type website?

I agree with everything that's ben said here and I've found it quite touching reading how nice you fellas have been in supporting Pup - *hugs* all round guys. The only thing I was going to add is to stick to the old rule of letting someone know where you will be, even if you have to fib about why! Promise me you'll do that , even if you think you know the person through online contact.

Yup.. this is what I would change next time. I really regret not doing this because if something did happen no one would know where to find me.