First time here i'm bi-curious

[dark_wolf]

I'm a 23 yr old male and I am married and my first time with a guy was two weeks ago and it was a very bad experience he took all the pleasure and gave none back and it put me in a funk and my wife told me that this would be a good place to find people to talk too because i'm having trouble accepting who i am because he used me and these feelings are new to me

 

[human_male]

Well if your wife knows about it and is accepting and supportive of you exploring you're off to a good start. Too bad that your first experience was a dud, but hey good on you for having the balls to try it. Lots of guys (like me) go on about how we'd like to suck a cock and blah blah and know it'll never happen. But you got right in there and did it. And look at it this way, now you've got that one bad experience behind you and out of the way it'll probably get better.

Another thing to remember is that you're so not alone. There's tons of guys with the same feelings, and here's a good place to meet some.

Sorry I can't really offer more insight because I'm inexperienced myself, but I wish you well.

 

[dark_wolf]

thanks

 

[Curious_Rob]

yeah i know how you feel my first time was kinda overwhelming but it was a two way street... if your looking to hook up with some guys you can find alot of guys on Squirt.org that are pretty legit. plus it will give you a chance to see/talk to them before making anyreal moves...

 

[dark_wolf]

thanks

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

obviously

I am not a guy BUT...men and women operate on the same wave length sexually. There are going to be givers and receivers, there are going to be users. Too bad your first experience was with one of those. This really is good forum to talk out your feelings and get advice. And good on you for being up front with your s/o...and good on her for letting you experiement.

 

[dark_wolf]

thanks Luna

 

[dark_goddess84]

Awww...

Sugar... not all men (or women for that matter) are like the one you were with. Keep your eyes open and maybe you will find a man that will be what you need in the bedroom and out of it.

Good Luck!