First time fisting

[AlanDavis767]

Just looking for any advice, or feedback on personal experience, please.

I’ve been seeing a dominatrix for around 3 to 4 years now. Our journey is extremely exciting and constantly evolving as she pushes my boundaries, with play including pegging, bondage, cbt, spitting, sounding, electrics and queening.

I haven’t seen her for a few months as she’s moving house (and dungeon) so I have had to revert to fantasy and what I would like to try next in my bdsm journey.

The thing that always excites me is the thought of being fisted. She’s used average 6” or 7” toys on me and a couple of fingers, but that’s been it. When playing alone I can get 4 fingers in, but have never been able to do more than- mainly due to the awkward wrist position.

Does anyone have any experience of progressing from a couple of fingers to a fist? How long did it take? Could it be done in one session, or is it a slow build up across multiple sessions?

Any advice, really!

Thank you.

 

[lowcollar]

Be sure to increase the size of dildos that you take before trying a fist. Also, go slow, lots of lube and relax. Before I took her hand inside me, I had worked up to a dildo that was nearly 2 and 1/2 inches wide. Gloves are also great for being really slippery. Also, a bit of a kink of mine. I must say that being fisted is the most intimate thing.

 

[Biguy77578]

My wife fists me. It was a gradual build up as you mentioned with toys getting larger and larger plus the fact I have enjoyed putting things in my as since I was young but her fist was the ultimate. Enjoy!

PS, going deep is thrilling.