First time experience - advise sought

[Andee_julie]

Hi All..........

We are a married couple 37/38 who have never been with anyone else.
We share a fantasy of her having sex with another man. I think the fantasy is stronger ofr me than it is for her, although we use it during sex a lot.
She has mentions a guy at her works that she fancies and over time we have discussed about her having sex with him.
Now, she is due to leave work for good soon and our chats have again been about him.
Our fantasies have been that i would watch another guy having sex with her and take photos etc.
I have never met the guy at her works and i feel very excited that she talks about having sex with him.
My question is how can we both enjoy this encounter when i don't know him? and we have no idea how he would react if she suggested that i wanted to take photos of them together.
How could we approach him?
Do you have any other ideas on how we can both enjoy the experience?

Thanks in advance
Andy

 

[Kissophile]

I suggest that you post this same question in the How To forum. Chances are, you'll get some good responses over there.