First Time Deep Throat

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Okay so I had an opportunity to go down on a guy earlier this week and I wanted to impress him so I took his cock as far as I could, I could lick his balls actually.
Naturally he liked it but the next day my throat hurt, like I dilated it or bruised it. Yeah I was being pretty aggressive probably not taking it as slow as I should have.
So how long am I going to feel like my throat is bruised? Will taking a cock in my throat ever get easier?

I’m a willing student
 
Okay so I had an opportunity to go down on a guy earlier this week and I wanted to impress him so I took his cock as far as I could, I could lick his balls actually.
Naturally he liked it but the next day my throat hurt, like I dilated it or bruised it. Yeah I was being pretty aggressive probably not taking it as slow as I should have.
So how long am I going to feel like my throat is bruised? Will taking a cock in my throat ever get easier?

I’m a willing student
I am no expert, but, if you managed to beat your gag reflex, you are a star in my book! 🤩
 
My first deepthroat wasn’t painful. I met a hot black guy and he invited me to his house. I was around 50 and he was in his 30s. He opened up the basement door and said get down there. He pulled out his big cock and pushed me down on my knees. He slapped my hands away from his cock. He forced his cock into my mouth and with one push was buried balls deep. He throat fucked me until he came and then he told me to get the fuck out of his house. No I didn’t get a sore throat.
 
My first deepthroat wasn’t painful. I met a hot black guy and he invited me to his house. I was around 50 and he was in his 30s. He opened up the basement door and said get down there. He pulled out his big cock and pushed me down on my knees. He slapped my hands away from his cock. He forced his cock into my mouth and with one push was buried balls deep. He throat fucked me until he came and then he told me to get the fuck out of his house. No I didn’t get a sore throat.
Wow, a hell of an experience.
How did you “conquer” the gag reflex?
 
I've been sore after getting throatfucked with a big dildo. That lasted a couple of days. Dildos just seem to be tougher in general - grabbier surface, and not flexible in the same way.

I bet you'll be more relaxed eventually and it won't make you so sore, though. Good luck to you!
 
I’d really love to deep throat a cock, but my reflex is overwhelming…lol.

I’d really like to give that sort of pleasure to a guy. The one and only time I received it from another guy was the most intense orgasm I ever enjoyed. Would love to give that level of pleasure to another man.
 
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I have found I do not have to deep throat continuously to please a guy immensely.

Most guys like it fully captured right from the start and if they are good they will let me go onto them, ease off, relax my throat some more, go deeper, ease off, then relax my throat some more, and go deeper onto them. In that way I can work down pretty deep on it, but not always. Sometimes they get a little more forceful shall we say, not really giving me the time I need to fully relax my throat. That is okay, and I get it, but I cannot deep throat the whole time. I just can’t

A trick of mine is to go as deep as I can, show him a little duress, then ease back to a more comfortable level. I found if I encircle my fingers just so, and time it just right, I can go pretty far with my lips, but go all the way to his base with my hand, and to him it feels like I am taking it all in my mouth. It is all about the timing, but works quite well for him and me.
 
I can't give too much details about my first time without getting into trouble here, but my first time deepthroating a big dick was an amazing experience. I had gone down on lots of guys, most either average or just below, with a few bigger, 7-8", and easily deepthroated them but I don't count them because it wasn't like when I came across a really big dick, which was a little over nine inches.
I had learned early that guys like it whe n I gagged andlike they had like choked on their cocks, regardless of their size. It was fake, I never once really gagged on any of them. Some of the guys wanted me to gag because they liked the idea of me choking on their dicks to make them feel like they were 'big' men. Sometimes it was funny, particularly one guy who had 6" but acted like it was the biggest one in the world. They made me do it, but there were guys I didn't need to be forced to do it.
The guys who had smaller dicks, which was the majority of guys I sucked off, were barely average or smaller. I knew they had low esteem about their size, and would make myself gag just to make them feel better. One guy had barely four inches, easily swallowed, but I would making a gagging noise just for him. It made me feel good.
When I first came across a really big dick, I wasnt sure I wasnt going to gag for real. Besides being the biggest one I had ever seen in real life, in length, it was also the thickest. I have small hands with chubby fingers, which made most dicks seem bigger when I held them, but my fingers were two inches apart. The head was really big too, which I was sure would be a problem, so I made sure it was really wet before taking it in my mouth.
At first, I only took a little more than half, to my hand, a little worried about attempting more. I worked what I had, sucking and stroking with my lips. He was enjoying it but then asked me if I could take all of it. I told him I wasn't sure, but was willing to try. I took my hand away, and slowly inched my lips down his thick shaft. I felt that fat head hit my throat, hesitating, not sure how I was going to do it. I realized I wasn't gagging, and just went for it, working my lips all the way down to the steel cockring he had on. I could feel his cock stretching my throat, filling it, but it was really easy.
I discovered I have a gag reflex, but it is very slight and easily controlled, so I might as well not have one. The only time I felt it was when I stroked the entire length of his cock with my lips, from head to base, but I easily dismissed it. He was really amazed, which made me feel special, and dumped a huge load down my throat, just to show his appreciation.
I didn't come across another really big dick until the night I moved in with my boyfriend when I turned 18. Long story, but we had never been sexually intimate in the four years we were together. I had an idea he was well-hung but didn't know how big until that first night when we had sex for the first time. I was more than excited to discover my boyfriend was even bigger than that first guy; having a boyfriend with a big dick is a source of pride. Not that it matters, as he is the love of my life.
 
I can't give too much details about my first time without getting into trouble here, but my first time deepthroating a big dick was an amazing experience. I had gone down on lots of guys, most either average or just below, with a few bigger, 7-8", and easily deepthroated them but I don't count them because it wasn't like when I came across a really big dick, which was a little over nine inches.
I had learned early that guys like it whe n I gagged andlike they had like choked on their cocks, regardless of their size. It was fake, I never once really gagged on any of them. Some of the guys wanted me to gag because they liked the idea of me choking on their dicks to make them feel like they were 'big' men. Sometimes it was funny, particularly one guy who had 6" but acted like it was the biggest one in the world. They made me do it, but there were guys I didn't need to be forced to do it.
The guys who had smaller dicks, which was the majority of guys I sucked off, were barely average or smaller. I knew they had low esteem about their size, and would make myself gag just to make them feel better. One guy had barely four inches, easily swallowed, but I would making a gagging noise just for him. It made me feel good.
When I first came across a really big dick, I wasnt sure I wasnt going to gag for real. Besides being the biggest one I had ever seen in real life, in length, it was also the thickest. I have small hands with chubby fingers, which made most dicks seem bigger when I held them, but my fingers were two inches apart. The head was really big too, which I was sure would be a problem, so I made sure it was really wet before taking it in my mouth.
At first, I only took a little more than half, to my hand, a little worried about attempting more. I worked what I had, sucking and stroking with my lips. He was enjoying it but then asked me if I could take all of it. I told him I wasn't sure, but was willing to try. I took my hand away, and slowly inched my lips down his thick shaft. I felt that fat head hit my throat, hesitating, not sure how I was going to do it. I realized I wasn't gagging, and just went for it, working my lips all the way down to the steel cockring he had on. I could feel his cock stretching my throat, filling it, but it was really easy.
I discovered I have a gag reflex, but it is very slight and easily controlled, so I might as well not have one. The only time I felt it was when I stroked the entire length of his cock with my lips, from head to base, but I easily dismissed it. He was really amazed, which made me feel special, and dumped a huge load down my throat, just to show his appreciation.
I didn't come across another really big dick until the night I moved in with my boyfriend when I turned 18. Long story, but we had never been sexually intimate in the four years we were together. I had an idea he was well-hung but didn't know how big until that first night when we had sex for the first time. I was more than excited to discover my boyfriend was even bigger than that first guy; having a boyfriend with a big dick is a source of pride. Not that it matters, as he is the love of my life.
Good for you for having found that someone special. 🙏
 
Let's face it: sex with guys can be rough. Sometimes it takes a few days to recover. I'd recommend listening to your body and taking care of yourself afterwards. It's normal for it to take a few days for everything to get back to normal. After rigorous throat work I like to sooth my throat with herb tea + honey. I'll even not talk much if vocals feel stressed.
 
I liken it to doing harsh vocals like in heavy metal songs. If it *hurts*, stop immediately.
If youre a little sore after the fact, that means you did it right but your throat just isnt used to it yet.
 
Okay so I had an opportunity to go down on a guy earlier this week and I wanted to impress him so I took his cock as far as I could, I could lick his balls actually.
Naturally he liked it but the next day my throat hurt, like I dilated it or bruised it. Yeah I was being pretty aggressive probably not taking it as slow as I should have.
So how long am I going to feel like my throat is bruised? Will taking a cock in my throat ever get easier?
I’m a willing student
Yes, but that is such a sweet ache, that it makes deepthroating so much more satisfying...
 
I wish I could give better advice on this. I do not give blowjobs every day so I am not so well versed with being overly proficient when I am taking him in deep. And in some ways it is sad that my ex-wife showed me a technique that feels good for the man, but also means I can give a good blowjob without constantly taking a man deeply so I don't go as deeply as I really should. In that I watch some men and woman who do it a lot, and their skills are amazing.
 
Like any sore muscle... your throat will recover. Its like training!. The more you do it, the faster your muscles or your throat will recover more quickly. The last time I was with my buddy. My throat was sore too. So was his
To be clear; there is a distinct difference between giving head and cock-sucking. I have experienced it all to often from women and men. they will suck on my cock head...take a little bit more, but, their hand is doing 90% of the work. That's "Giving-head"... or mostly a HJ. The lovers that have or tried to deepthroat me... taking as much of my cock as possible.... that is 'Sucking Cock". Certainly every guy likes head and most won't complain. To think that most guys don't care if you at least try and keep trying to throat his cock is a mistake.
When you take you cock out, holding it and bobbing up and down on his cockhead... and you hear him say "Suck my cock"... he's telling you to "suck his entire cock".
Couple more points. in my experience. I stopped thinking about it as "cock-sucking"... Think of it as oral sex. Most men and women only think about his dick. Oral sex is his cock AND balls... Never forget his balls. And find out if he's into rimming. If you have difficulties and no matter how you try, and you just can deepthroat... then prefect ball sucking and rimming. Trust me... he will keep cumming back for more. But never stop trying to deepthroat
 
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