first time coming up - bit nervous

[sh85uk]

hello all,

i'm posting this as i'm a bit nervous - been chatting to a local ish guy for a while about meeting up. its his first time and me, i've only sucked cock once - we both promised when we do meet we'll see what we are comfortable with and take things as they come.

problem is i know i desperately want fucking, i just don't want it to hurt, is there any technique to be recommended to, say, loosen myself up a bit?

ideally i'd like a bit of practice elsewhere first but don't think i'll get the opportunity.

anybody like to reassure me about the whole thing?!

 

[Hitchiker69]

I can suggest a few things....

First of all, relax. You haven't even met this guy yet. When you do, only do only what's comfortable...don't rush things. You don't have to do anal with this guy the first time you meet. If you like him you can always see him again, and do more with him as things progress

Before your date, practice anal penetration with a carrot or something similar. Learn to relax, accept and enjoy the penetration.

Some guys will give themselves an enema before having anal sex...There were times when I wish I had. It clears your colon, allowing him room to penetrate more easily and deeply.

If you decide to do anal on your date, use lots of lube. He can start with a finger or two to loosen you up. Smaller cocks will enter easily, without pain. Bigger cocks will have to take it slowly, and may hurt at first. Once he's fully entered as far as he can, it shouldn't hurt any more. Then you can start to enjoy.

When you get together, try to relax and enjoy. Have a drink or two, maybe massage each other. No need to rush anything. Get naked, get in bed and do what comes naturally. Guys know what guys want.

I wish I could join you!!

I hope that helps, and you enjoy the date. I'd love to hear how it turns out.

 

[flint9]

ill help too.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

I can suggest a few things....

First of all, relax. You haven't even met this guy yet. When you do, only do only what's comfortable...don't rush things. You don't have to do anal with this guy the first time you meet. If you like him you can always see him again, and do more with him as things progress

Before your date, practice anal penetration with a carrot or something similar. Learn to relax, accept and enjoy the penetration.

Some guys will give themselves an enema before having anal sex...There were times when I wish I had. It clears your colon, allowing him room to penetrate more easily and deeply.

If you decide to do anal on your date, use lots of lube. He can start with a finger or two to loosen you up. Smaller cocks will enter easily, without pain. Bigger cocks will have to take it slowly, and may hurt at first. Once he's fully entered as far as he can, it shouldn't hurt any more. Then you can start to enjoy.

When you get together, try to relax and enjoy. Have a drink or two, maybe massage each other. No need to rush anything. Get naked, get in bed and do what comes naturally. Guys know what guys want.

I wish I could join you!!

I hope that helps, and you enjoy the date. I'd love to hear how it turns out.

I don't know too much about doing it with a dick, but lube and patience are the key with a dildo. You must also have a trusting partner, and go slow until the the muscles in the rectum relax. The hardest thing is too relax. Your body is not used to taking it up the ass. But O, the bliss of ass fucking--Shiver me timbers matey!

I like the idea of an enema also, it can be somewhat of a turn off to be "messy."

Glad to see ya hear and hope you will be back.

Espie

 

[sh85uk]

thanks for your help there guys!

might pop to the shops and get a carrot in now! i'm fairly confident going into a potential meet!

will report back as and when...

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

thanks for your help there guys!

might pop to the shops and get a carrot in now! i'm fairly confident going into a potential meet!

will report back as and when...

details my good man, always details!

 

[haurni]

I would recommend a dildo. A standard 6" vibrator is good to start as it's not too big. I personally would be leery of using something that might break off in in there. Oh, and make sure you have a good grip on it.

 

[squarejohn]

problem is i know i desperately want fucking, i just don't want it to hurt, is there any technique to be recommended to, say, loosen myself up a bit?

ideally i'd like a bit of practice elsewhere first but don't think i'll get the opportunity.

anybody like to reassure me about the whole thing?!

Get him to lick your asshole for a while and then have him finger fuck you with a lubed finger until you "loosen up." He can be kissing you or sucking your nipples while he does that.

 

[toastyroasty]

thanks, I was curious about anal as well. I am slightly constipated, so the enema kills 2 birds with one stone