first time at gyn i'ma scared

[InnocentAngel81]

okay okay, i'm 20 years old and my mom made me my first gyn appointment oh joy. it's all devilboy's fault, if he didnt have sex with me almost two years ago my mom would have never figured out eventually i am not a virgin, hey i did wait until i'm 19, thats good compared to my friends, but anyway she is going on and on about not wanting to be a grandmother at 48, um well she is not get any younger.

i'm terrified to go, i have since i was 12, i read an article and it told me all the terrifying things they want to stick in my special places. i'm scared i dont want to go what exactly will happen?
is there any special rituals i must perform? um i'm scared and no one can hold my hands, some please let me know before tomorrow night.

thanks angie

 

[lobito]

sounds like you need one of them there lollypops some docs give their patients. Maybe you could ask for one before he starts "sticking things in your special places".

 

[SimGuy]

If you were a guy...

I could tell you all about, "Bend over and Cough"

Best I can offer is hope everthing is warm before it touches a tender spot.......







and ignore the 'Fork up your ass thread' - It truly doesn't apply

 

[Basia]

Just relax. The more you relax the faster it goes.

 

[Bluesboy2]

Gyn is fun Im told

Why else did I keep a speculum in my freezer all those years? Heres a tip, the stainless steel ones are better for storing in the freezer
(The emote was put in just to win Draaahs heart)

 

[Rubyfruit]

is there any special rituals i must perform?

Put glitter on your pussy, you know, to dress it up for the occassion.

 

[Mischka]

You're twenty and your mother is making your appointments for you? If you're old enough to be having sex, you are old enough to take care of your own health. You should have scheduled your first appointment two years ago - the rule of thumb is you need to start your annual exams at 18, or when you lose your virginity, whichever is sooner.

There is nothing scary about an OB-Gyn visit. Tell the doctor that it's your first visit, and ask her to explain the procedures while she's performing them. First she'll use a speculum to spread your lips so she can see inside. This is the least comfortable part for me - not painful, just an odd feeling. After she flashes a light inside of you, she'll take a small scraping to perform the Pap smear test (to see if you have cancerous cells, etc.). The whole thing takes between five and twenty minutes, depending on your health. She'll also perform a breast exam, and teach you how to do self-tests every month.

That's it. It's not scary at all, and it's very important to go every year. Female plumbing is complicated, and it's better to know you're healthy than to find out too late that you're not.

 

[Never]

Um.. there's nothing scary about going to the gyno. I don't know what you've read/seen but I have the feeling it's not accurate. Yes, it's sort of embarrassing but you're not going to leave there feeling.. violated or anything.

 

[freakygirl]

IA

Cymbidia had a wonderful post on what to expect at the OB/GYN.

I found it and cut and pasted it here for you

It can be found here on page 21. (This is an amazing thread, and if you have never read it, you should)


Oh darlin', GYN appointments are what make you a woman, not periods!

Okay, here's what will happen:

Note: Do not fail to bring your magazine with you into the examining room!

1. You follow the nurse into the examining room when you're called. The nurse will weigh you, takes your temp and pulse and all that regular doctor's visit stuff. Tell her this is your first time to have a THIS kind of appointment. Tell her you're nervous. She'll be sure the doctor knows.

2. The nurse will then pat a little folded pile of paper (if you're lucky it'll be cloth) lying on the table and smile. "Take everything off," she'll say, "and put these on. Doctor will be in a moment." She'll probably tell you that the opening should be in the front. If not, ask her. Then she'll leave.

3. Don't panic. You have PLENTY of time to change before Doctor comes in.

4. Take off all your clothing. Yes. All of it. Fold it nicely and put is out of the way.

5. Unfold the folded paper stuff. One piece will be flat like a sheet. Put it aside. Unfold the other piece. It will be a huge paper vestlike thing. Put it on, opening in the front probably.

6. Hop up on the table.

7. Put the flat sheetlike piece of paper over your lap.

8. Grab your magazine and wait. Hopefully it won't be too cold and you won't have to wait too long.

9. Doctor will come in. Tell her/him that this is your first GYN visit and you're scared and could s/he PLEASE explain EVERYTHING they're doing BEFORE they do it.

10. You should get lots of reassurance at this point. Then the doc will pull out the foot part of the table and indicate you should lie down. (Some docs do a visual exam of your breasts while you're still sitting at this point, some do not.)

11. Breast exam: You'll lie down, one arm over your head and the doc will begin to feel around your breast from the outside in. The outside = WAY outside, including, like under your arm and places you never thought you had breast tissue. The inside = all the way to your nipple. The exam will be circular, The doc will be feeling for weird stuff. Just look at the picture of a tropical paradise they have on the ceiling and think about what you're going to make for dinner. After the doc finishes with one breast, he'll do the next.

(Note: you do regular breast self-exams, right? We should ALL do them, every single month.)

12. The doc pulls the stirrups out and puts your feet into them. Then you'll be told to move down until your butt is just at the very very edge of the table. Then you'll have to move down a teeny tiny bit more.

13. The doc adjusts the light so your entire vaginal area is lit up like the White House National Christmas Tree. Actually, the light might be kinda pleasantly warm. I kinda like it when we get to that point; those rooms are always a bit chilly for my tastes.

14. Now your feet are in the stirrups, your butt feels kinda like it's hanging off the end of the table a little, and the light is showing off your goodies. The doc is right down there where all the action is, too, on his/her little stool. Oh yeh, and the nurse came back in a while ago, too. The doc can't do any of this stuff without the nurse there.

15. Visual inspection of your labia, external vagina, anus. A little pushing and poking, nothing intrusive or major. Keep your eyes on paradise, up above you. ASK QUESTIONS if you have them. It's your body.

16. The doc gloves up, lubes both you and him, and then inserts a finger into your vagina, then presses around feeling for things out of place. The doc will check your rectum in the same way.

17. The doc removes the finger, strips off the glove, puts on a new one, takes the lubed speculum from the nurse and inserts it into your vagina. The speculum is opened. Some kinda stick thing is inserted to collect a small sample of skin from the mouth of your cervix to check for problems there. The speculum is removed. None of this should hurt at all. The cervix scraping could prioduce a couple of very mild cramps but it doesn't have to, either.

18. The doc will leave. The nurse will tell you change back into your clothing, that the doc will be back soon, and then she'll leave, too.

19. You'll change. Use the flat sheet thing to wipe between your legs and your butt; that lube will be everywhere. Toss it and the vest into the trash.

20. Get dressed.

22. Read your magazine.

23. The doc will come back and answer all your questions.

The End.

There's nothing to it.
Honestly.
We all do this, every single year.

Ever had a mammogram?
Now THERE'S where you'll have some fun!

 

[Problem Child]

IA

Cymbidia had a wonderful post on what to expect at the OB/GYN.

I found it and cut and pasted it here for you

It can be found here on page 21. (This is an amazing thread, and if you have never read it, you should)


Oh darlin', GYN appointments are what make you a woman, not periods!

Okay, here's what will happen:

Note: Do not fail to bring your magazine with you into the examining room!

1. You follow the nurse into the examining room when you're called. The nurse will weigh you, takes your temp and pulse and all that regular doctor's visit stuff. Tell her this is your first time to have a THIS kind of appointment. Tell her you're nervous. She'll be sure the doctor knows.

2. The nurse will then pat a little folded pile of paper (if you're lucky it'll be cloth) lying on the table and smile. "Take everything off," she'll say, "and put these on. Doctor will be in a moment." She'll probably tell you that the opening should be in the front. If not, ask her. Then she'll leave.

3. Don't panic. You have PLENTY of time to change before Doctor comes in.

4. Take off all your clothing. Yes. All of it. Fold it nicely and put is out of the way.

5. Unfold the folded paper stuff. One piece will be flat like a sheet. Put it aside. Unfold the other piece. It will be a huge paper vestlike thing. Put it on, opening in the front probably.

6. Hop up on the table.

7. Put the flat sheetlike piece of paper over your lap.

8. Grab your magazine and wait. Hopefully it won't be too cold and you won't have to wait too long.

9. Doctor will come in. Tell her/him that this is your first GYN visit and you're scared and could s/he PLEASE explain EVERYTHING they're doing BEFORE they do it.

10. You should get lots of reassurance at this point. Then the doc will pull out the foot part of the table and indicate you should lie down. (Some docs do a visual exam of your breasts while you're still sitting at this point, some do not.)

11. Breast exam: You'll lie down, one arm over your head and the doc will begin to feel around your breast from the outside in. The outside = WAY outside, including, like under your arm and places you never thought you had breast tissue. The inside = all the way to your nipple. The exam will be circular, The doc will be feeling for weird stuff. Just look at the picture of a tropical paradise they have on the ceiling and think about what you're going to make for dinner. After the doc finishes with one breast, he'll do the next.

(Note: you do regular breast self-exams, right? We should ALL do them, every single month.)

12. The doc pulls the stirrups out and puts your feet into them. Then you'll be told to move down until your butt is just at the very very edge of the table. Then you'll have to move down a teeny tiny bit more.

13. The doc adjusts the light so your entire vaginal area is lit up like the White House National Christmas Tree. Actually, the light might be kinda pleasantly warm. I kinda like it when we get to that point; those rooms are always a bit chilly for my tastes.

14. Now your feet are in the stirrups, your butt feels kinda like it's hanging off the end of the table a little, and the light is showing off your goodies. The doc is right down there where all the action is, too, on his/her little stool. Oh yeh, and the nurse came back in a while ago, too. The doc can't do any of this stuff without the nurse there.

15. Visual inspection of your labia, external vagina, anus. A little pushing and poking, nothing intrusive or major. Keep your eyes on paradise, up above you. ASK QUESTIONS if you have them. It's your body.

16. The doc gloves up, lubes both you and him, and then inserts a finger into your vagina, then presses around feeling for things out of place. The doc will check your rectum in the same way.

17. The doc removes the finger, strips off the glove, puts on a new one, takes the lubed speculum from the nurse and inserts it into your vagina. The speculum is opened. Some kinda stick thing is inserted to collect a small sample of skin from the mouth of your cervix to check for problems there. The speculum is removed. None of this should hurt at all. The cervix scraping could prioduce a couple of very mild cramps but it doesn't have to, either.

18. The doc will leave. The nurse will tell you change back into your clothing, that the doc will be back soon, and then she'll leave, too.

19. You'll change. Use the flat sheet thing to wipe between your legs and your butt; that lube will be everywhere. Toss it and the vest into the trash.

20. Get dressed.

22. Read your magazine.

23. The doc will come back and answer all your questions.

The End.

There's nothing to it.
Honestly.
We all do this, every single year.

Ever had a mammogram?
Now THERE'S where you'll have some fun!

Jesus Christ. All we have to do is cough, and then a few years later wait for the finger up the ass.

 

[InnocentAngel81]

i'm just freaked out that someone other than devilboy is going to be around that general area of my body, it's kinda dont ask dont tell with me, but i guess i can get over, do i need to trim the forrest? i usually stay bald, but since i found out, i been putting it off so it look um "normal" and damnit i left the glitter at devilboys house hehe

 

[SimGuy]

Jesus Christ. All we have to do is cough, and then a few years later wait for the finger up the ass.

Yeah, but most of us also think foreplay consists of yelling, "INCOMING!"

Our rituals should be much less complicated than those for the fairer gender.

 

[Siren]

 

[freakygirl]

Jesus Christ. All we have to do is cough, and then a few years later wait for the finger up the ass.

And you thought the 3/8" socket was bad

 

[Aphrodisiac]

I was nervous the first time - simply tell the doctor its your first time and they understand ... she will more then likely explain what she will be doing as she is doing the procedure, that is what my doctor did ... while it is nerve racking its over in no time.


Simply relax and all will be okay ....

 

[InnocentAngel81]

16. The doc gloves up, lubes both you and him, and then inserts a finger into your vagina, then presses around feeling for things out of place. The doc will check your rectum in the same way.

no one said nothing about a finger up the butt, um maybe i should read a book while this is going on

 

[deliciously_naughty]

No sweetie...no trimming needed. The ob/gyn has seen it all. The only thing that can be less than fun is if the speculum isn't long enough...I am blessed (?) with a long vagina and need the "long" speculum. The part when they scrape you hurts a little, but mostly it's just embarrassing. The hard part is relaxing. If you can force yourself to relax it will all go easier. Remember this is an important exam...you shouldn't have put it off so long. It's not fun but get it once a year...it's important.

BTW...why did your mom make it for you? you're an adult.

 

[deliciously_naughty]

I've never had a finger up the rectum...someone is giving you incorrect info.

 

[Angel]

Female plumbing is complicated, and it's better to know you're healthy than to find out too late that you're not.

I will never understand why some women aren't more worried about the above than being a bit uncomfortable at a gyno exam.

Relax. We all do it. Beats finding out you've got cancer, or are unable to bear children and you would have been able to fix it if it was caught earlier.

And don't worry about the "appearance" of the little lady. Do whatever makes you feel more comfortable.


Have fun and feel free to come back and tell us how it went

Er.. minus the details of the exam itself, of course.

 

[DevilBoy79]

Jesus Christ. All we have to do is cough, and then a few years later wait for the finger up the ass.

yea and umm at least you get some lube, the sadistic bastards, just always tell me to try to relax and take a deep breathe and *POP* in goes the finger grrr damn prostate exams ,

 

[InnocentAngel81]

Answer me this please..........

if you are 20 years old.........

how can your mom MAKE you do ANYTHING?

i'm broke, cant drive, barely get to eat cause she is strict and i fear her because she holds things against me if i get out of line just ask devilboy he's seen her in action, i put up with it for $20 a week.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

no one said nothing about a finger up the butt, um maybe i should read a book while this is going on

Uh , my gyno did not do that ...

 

[Spinaroonie]

Answer me this please..........

if you are 20 years old.........

how can your mom MAKE you do ANYTHING?

Um... you mean she's not supposed to anymore?

Fuck! My mom makes me do stuff all the time. It sucks.

 

[deliciously_naughty]

Um....why don't you have a job?

 

[Basia]

they don't always do the rectum, and you don't alway get a doctor. The only person (other than in the ER when I had a huge scare) to do an internal exame on me was my mothers nurse practicioner.


The pluss side of havng an internal now is you can get a perscription for the pill and/or any other form of medical contriseptive.




Not to hijack your thread, but has anyone heard anything about the birth control patch?