First time as a top!

M1ch3ll3o0o

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So I'm usually into the submissive role when it comes to playtime in bed. However, my partner has expressed an interest in swoping roles and I'm a pleaser so I'm eager to try this. The idea of dominating him is really exciting to me, especially since its new to me so I'm looking forward to giving it a go. We have only just begun playing with bdsm in our relationship (not that we're IN a relationship) so its new for both of us this time!

This brings up a few questions for me: Where do I start? I know thats broad but I'm used to being the sub. Any suggestions? I bought some rope and I'm experienced in tieing knots (yay sailing!) but the hand positions are all very new for me.

Also, I'm curious about your first experiences. Would anyone be willing to share (Dom or sub) about their first time with bdsm?

Thanks guys, I always appreciate the input! I'm certainly excited about giving this guy what he wants. Maybe I'll tie his ankles to the bed and his arms above his head and ride him silly : )
 
That's a very fine place to start. You can tie his ankles and wrists to the bed and then:
  • tie stuff around his cock and balls-- tight to hurt, or gentle to tease the fuck out of him.
  • Rub him in all the spots he doesn't really think of as erogenous zones.
  • Rub him in all the spots that are erogenous zones for him
  • Straddle him and play with yourself while he can't touch you.
  • Straddle him and seriously no holds barred use use his stomach and chest to rub off against.
  • Slap his tits. (more men love tit play than actually know it)
  • Tease him till he's ready to come and then back off a few times.
  • Think about the ways YOU want to be played with, and demonstrate them on him.
 
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