First time Anal Fisting advice. Please?

[analgirl69]

I get that you start in the "duck" position with your hand and it automatically turns into a fist when inside, also nails should be trimmed, lots of lube, etc. But any more pointers? If done super super carefully, are there permanent risks?

Having said that, I know he really wants to try this on me, also very large plugs, but he doesn't want to do it if it will hurt me. I told him it would be fine, but now I'm making sure.. there isn't a whole ton of info out there for this. I really want to do this for him. He got close to over the knuckles in yesterday but we stopped. I wanted to check we've got everything right first before we go too far.

Tips? Info? Recommended lubes? Betting regular silicone isn't enough? I heard you can use crisco???

 

[danno99]

I get that you start in the "duck" position with your hand and it automatically turns into a fist when inside, also nails should be trimmed, lots of lube, etc. But any more pointers? If done super super carefully, are there permanent risks?

Having said that, I know he really wants to try this on me, also very large plugs, but he doesn't want to do it if it will hurt me. I told him it would be fine, but now I'm making sure.. there isn't a whole ton of info out there for this. I really want to do this for him. He got close to over the knuckles in yesterday but we stopped. I wanted to check we've got everything right first before we go too far.

Tips? Info? Recommended lubes? Betting regular silicone isn't enough? I heard you can use crisco???

I don't have any advice to offer, but I sure want to watch!

 

[analgirl69]

I don't have any advice to offer, but I sure want to watch!

Lol.

 

[exploremesoon]

never been fisted but use rubber hand frequently

you need to learn to relax and control the reflex actions of your body to expell anything in your bowels. use lots of lube,you might try crisco "vegtible shortning" it works great and lasts a long time, next you need to push like you are trying to force his hand out as he provides gentile preasure inward. if it starts to hurt stop all inward motion until you can relax and continue do not back his hand out it will hurt much more than just stoping and relaxting. you should just feal a pleasurable streaching feeling with little or no pain. once it is in it will be a intensly pleasurable feeling that you will never forget. good luck and happy fisting

 

[analgirl69]

you need to learn to relax and control the reflex actions of your body to expell anything in your bowels. use lots of lube,you might try crisco "vegtible shortning" it works great and lasts a long time, next you need to push like you are trying to force his hand out as he provides gentile preasure inward. if it starts to hurt stop all inward motion until you can relax and continue do not back his hand out it will hurt much more than just stoping and relaxting. you should just feal a pleasurable streaching feeling with little or no pain. once it is in it will be a intensly pleasurable feeling that you will never forget. good luck and happy fisting

Oh God. :/ Can you imagine anyone NOt expelling everything in their bowels? Ewww.. enemas all the way. LOL.
Thank you for your advice!

 

[BeachMomma]

Can there be permanent damage? Yes. Google images of "rectal prolapse."

 

[exploremesoon]

always enima

i recomend one one hour befor and again right before play

 

[analgirl69]

Can there be permanent damage? Yes. Google images of "rectal prolapse."

I know about rectal prolapse- in fact, that is one of the main things I am referring too. I know it can happen if you do this frequently and/or roughly/incorrectly. But if done once in a while and properly, could that or any other serious permanent damage happen?

 

[analgirl69]

i recomend one one hour befor and again right before play

Thank you! I have been looking for a time frame. I do one several times a week and am always worried some extra water might come out..um, during.. if I start too soon. ( always go based on feeling but didn't know the actual time frame.) Rarely happens (once every 75 or so? Total guess..), but still a concern.

 

[BeachMomma]

Gastroenterologists (the doctors who specialize in diseases or injuries to the colon, rectum, and anus) would tell you it's not a safe practice. Just be sure to research the topic carefully before you choose to do it, and take it extremely slow. If there's any discomfort that doesn't go away quickly, stop. Like you were saying earlier in the thread, lube, lube, and even more lube.

I'm not saying don't do it; I'm saying know what you're getting into before you do. I just wanted to make sure you're aware of the risks.

 

[analgirl69]

???? What do leggings have to do with fisting?

EDIT:Oh. I get it. It's spam. (....)

 

[analgirl69]

Gastroenterologists (the doctors who specialize in diseases or injuries to the colon, rectum, and anus) would tell you it's not a safe practice. Just be sure to research the topic carefully before you choose to do it, and take it extremely slow. If there's any discomfort that doesn't go away quickly, stop. Like you were saying earlier in the thread, lube, lube, and even more lube.

I'm not saying don't do it; I'm saying know what you're getting into before you do. I just wanted to make sure you're aware of the risks.

I know it's not safe.. and I will take it slow. I just hopes it's not too dangerous..
When I first saw this is what he was into, I was terrified. But now I'm not really. I really want to do it for him. I'm excited to and scared at the same time. I just don't want to do something that will indefinitely cause horrible damage.. but lots of people do it and are fine, right??

 

[Wingsfan45]

Stretching...

You may want to research a little more on the topic. I have heard about some people who have lost rectal tone by doing this. I guess that stretching out the anus (which is a muscle), and not fully going back to that "tight" stage you were used to. Some of them have problems with holding their bowel movements now.
I'm not saying don't....just saying be carefull and understand the risks.

Good luck.

 

[analgirl69]

At the same time, I've heard that for anal. And we had it every day for months and now we have about 50/50 vaginal anal. so still a lot. I don't THINK I have any difference?? Some times I get worried that maybe it's been bad for me, but I don't really think any permanent damage has been done. And we use other decent sized toys (getting bigger ones too, is this bad?) on me as well 'cus he likes that. Doesn't seem to have done anything. Is fisting really that much worse?

 

[DarkPleasures]

Gone.

 

[analgirl69]

Yeah. Quoting the spam simply reposts their link. (The pic is a link to the shopping/spam web site.)

Annoying... :/

 

[DarkPleasures]

Gone.

 

[analgirl69]

Good stuff.

 

[analgirl69]

What a weird emoticon....lol.

 

[RuReal]

There are a great many people that have anal sex out there and you do not hear of people really losing muscle tone in the rectum from that. This is a rumor that has been around for a long time. There are ways to do that, but ass fucking is not one of them.

While I have not gone too deep on anal fisting As long as you are careful and practice things safely I am fairly sure you will be ok. There are people out there that engage in this activity as well hell I missed a workshop on it so it is more common than you think.

Good luck and have fun.

 

[analgirl69]

There are a great many people that have anal sex out there and you do not hear of people really losing muscle tone in the rectum from that. This is a rumor that has been around for a long time. There are ways to do that, but ass fucking is not one of them.

While I have not gone too deep on anal fisting As long as you are careful and practice things safely I am fairly sure you will be ok. There are people out there that engage in this activity as well hell I missed a workshop on it so it is more common than you think.

Good luck and have fun.

Thank you!

 

[bob53]

For a LOT more in depth ( pun not originally intended) check out fistforum dot com There is a lot of good info and some very experienced people there.

 

[analgirl69]

For a LOT more in depth ( pun not originally intended) check out fistforum dot com There is a lot of good info and some very experienced people there.

Thanks! I will!

 

[Jon4Fun916]

Just make sure if he feels any resistance to his fingertips that he's doing it wrong (once they are inside you). The colon curves to one side and he needs to follow that direction. Personally, I don't know how one can enema enough to keep things from being gross.

 

[analgirl69]

Oh, yea, he knows that. He's put lots of toys in and used most fingers quite a few times. Enema, well, I do it like 10 times... I'm really anal about it. No pun intended.