First Threesome Advice: A Realistic Approach

[EricaRed]

I recently met another CD online who is gorgeous, highly passable, sweet and funny. We have been clothes shopping a few times, share a sign and laugh at the same things. we have become close friends in a very short time.

I recently hung out a few times with her and her older boyfriend (he is 43, we are in our 20s) and it was recently brought to my attention that they are interested in inviting someone else to bed for New years eve (and have thought it through and talked it through for over a year but, until me, haven't met the right woman) and that they'd like for me to be that someone. I do find her man very attractive but am just unsure about many things. one, I have only been with 2 men. The 2nd one was just twice...two quickies. She said that she has only been with this bf of hers but it is still intimidating. He is very masculine/top and she is versatile and I am completely bottom. the idea is so intriguing to me and she said that we could just have some drinks and take it easy and see what happens. they both have their recent tests, stating that they are disease free.

For those of you who have been in a threesome, was it really awkward?

 

[lacey1234]

I've had a threesome before and it wasn't awkard at all. That was probably because the three of us were good friends. There was no emotional connection at all. It was just about feeling good.

 

[Somehowyou]

I've had two and they were both OK but I prefer one-on-one...Oh and BTW, I paid for them. this keeps them from being awkward.

 

[Experiencedguy]

Look -- just go for it. It sounds like you know what you are doing. I have had a few 3 some's with 2 CD's, and if you are going into it with an open mind, this may rate near the top of your favorite experiences. Plus, it sounds like you are all mature enough to realize that "Srop Means Stop", if any of you want to back off.

If you don't try it, you will never know. And, you have a few more things going for this to be great. You find him a sexual turn on, and she is a friend. Right at the tope of my list is a MFM with my best friend and his wife. Let us know.