First steps in BDSM for middle aged man

big_guyxxx

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I'm a 57 year old Ontario man (newcomer to Literotica, which I just heard about and find very impressive) who has been interested in whippings for as long as I can remember. I mostly fantasize about getting whipped, but I usually imagine myself as a woman at the time (identify with the victim, anyway), so it is hard to see how this fantasy could be carried out. I don't imagine myself being sissified in any other way, however! My wonderful wife finds this rather baffling. I've been trying to convince her she could whip me without either of us being sick and that she might enjoy it and get into the role-playing aspect but so far she is doubtful.

I would like to hear from any woman who would like to comment on any of this (or just enjoy telling me how they would like to whip me; if whipped hard enough I imagine I could be made to perform cunnilingus on the woman wielding the whip - actually I would do that anyway!). If anyone could suggest something my wife could read that might make her think of whipping me as fun, that would be great too. We've looked at the standard books like "When someone you love is kinky" but they haven't done the trick. Support groups are probably best left until she is a little more into it. (If she turned out to be interested in getting whipped as well, so much the better.)
Sorry if this is not particularly well expressed. No doubt I will get it right with more practice. Thanks for your understanding. I'd be happy to receive either private messages or replies to this thread.
 
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