First Sex for Men

[Spirit90]

Two questions coming from a curious virgin guy in his twenties. I don't mean this thread as a joke, I want serious answers to my questions, so please only answer if you wish to contribute.

1. How exactly does it physically feel to have sex? I don't wish to discuss the emotional aspects in this thread, only the physical side of sex. How exactly does it physically feel to enter a vagina with your penis. Please be as descriptive as possible, even if its difficult.

2. Before you had sex for the first time you might have had certain expectations of how good it would feel. When you did have sex for the first time, did the actual experience live up to how good you expected it to be? Again, please only discuss the physical side of the sexual experience, not the emotional aspects. When you entered a vagina for the first time with your penis, was the physical sensation that you felt:

A) Better than you expected, overwhelmingly great

B) Good, but not overwhelmingly great

C) Rather disappointing, not as good as masturbation

I hope there will be a few more experienced people who can answer these questions. Thanks in advance.

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Spirit90

 

[chargergirl]

To all who respond: please no under age (18) references.

Chargergirl, mod of Fet. Central

 

[o2baPrince]

Two questions coming from a curious virgin guy in his twenties. I don't mean this thread as a joke, I want serious answers to my questions, so please only answer if you wish to contribute.

1. How exactly does it physically feel to have sex? I don't wish to discuss the emotional aspects in this thread, only the physical side of sex. How exactly does it physically feel to enter a vagina with your penis. Please be as descriptive as possible, even if its difficult.

2. Before you had sex for the first time you might have had certain expectations of how good it would feel. When you did have sex for the first time, did the actual experience live up to how good you expected it to be? Again, please only discuss the physical side of the sexual experience, not the emotional aspects. When you entered a vagina for the first time with your penis, was the physical sensation that you felt:

A) Better than you expected, overwhelmingly great

B) Good, but not overwhelmingly great

C) Rather disappointing, not as good as masturbation

I hope there will be a few more experienced people who can answer these questions. Thanks in advance.

Spirit90

It was nice, but as I recall there is so much going on in your head, worrying about size, her mood, the location, that the actual act itself isn't what I remember. It took a few times for the nerves to calm down. But hey, after that, it's GREAT!

 

[Mqoi]

My first time was with a guy and we gave each other blowjobs. Way better than I expected it to be.

First time with a woman a few years later, and also better than expected.

What can I say? I'm a male slut in rut.

 

[StylusMaximus]

Two questions coming from a curious virgin guy in his twenties. I don't mean this thread as a joke, I want serious answers to my questions, so please only answer if you wish to contribute.

1. How exactly does it physically feel to have sex? I don't wish to discuss the emotional aspects in this thread, only the physical side of sex. How exactly does it physically feel to enter a vagina with your penis. Please be as descriptive as possible, even if its difficult.

2. Before you had sex for the first time you might have had certain expectations of how good it would feel. When you did have sex for the first time, did the actual experience live up to how good you expected it to be? Again, please only discuss the physical side of the sexual experience, not the emotional aspects. When you entered a vagina for the first time with your penis, was the physical sensation that you felt:

A) Better than you expected, overwhelmingly great

B) Good, but not overwhelmingly great

C) Rather disappointing, not as good as masturbation

I hope there will be a few more experienced people who can answer these questions. Thanks in advance.

Spirit90

I know you specifically said not to discuss the emotional aspects, so let me state it this way. When she opened her legs and spread her pussy for me, and I could see the wetness on her lips, and she told me she was ready, and I knew, that for the first time, I was actually going to have sex, this thing I had dreamed and fantasized about for so many years... I felt completely intoxicated.

I've never done drugs but I felt this incredible rush. Tingles all over my body. I felt this buzzing in the back of my brain, and all my senses sort of dulled, and all I could think about was that wet pussy and my hard cock throbbing between my legs.

She was a virgin too, and I went very, very slowly. Just rubbing my head against her lips, pushing them open just a bit, and it made me feel even more delirious. As I slowly pushed the head of my cock into her, I was almost overwhelmed by the feelings I had. Her pussy was soft, smooth, warm, and wet, and I could feel it gently squeezing the head of my cock as I slid it into her. The best way I could describe it would be to imagine a tongue in the shape of a cylinder, surrounding my cock on all sides with that warm slippery feeling.

I will tell you that it was so exciting, and felt so good, that I easily could have cum on that first stroke. I had to stop and catch my breath and really concentrate so I wouldn't. Eventually I was able to slide all the way in and I just held it there. I kissed her and she kissed me, and she rubbed my back and gripped my ass, and her hips started rocking up against mine, and my hips started pressing against hers, almost involuntarily, and those tiny little movements almost made me cum. I had to stop. I could feel that tight little cunt squeezing my dick, over and over. It was truly one of the most amazing moments of my life.

Another amazing moment was a few minutes later, when she was able to have an orgasm just by rocking her hips up and down just a little bit. I kept my cock all the way inside her and it just moved back and forth, just a little bit. When she came, I could feel her pussy squeezing and milking my dick and it was just incredible, I can hardly describe it... imagine a soft, wet, warm, cylindrical tongue squeezing your dick, I guess?

Well, it set me over the edge, and I started to move my cock in and out a little faster, a little harder, and let myself go. I could feel my dick twitching and throbbing against the walls of her pussy as it pulsed and my cum squirted into her. The most powerful orgasm of my life rolled over me like giant waves, pure bliss from my head, to my toes, to my cock. My entire universe was pleasure.

Is that descriptive enough?

As to your second question: A.

 

[live4thebj]

1. How exactly does it physically feel to have sex? I don't wish to discuss the emotional aspects in this thread, only the physical side of sex. How exactly does it physically feel to enter a vagina with your penis. Please be as descriptive as possible, even if its difficult.

Hard to describe, like a warm wet glove around your penis. But also I had on a condom so it does remove some of the sensitivity plus I was out of sorts finally having sex (at 18) I was awkward and clumsy. Plus, I had trouble finding the hole.

2. Before you had sex for the first time you might have had certain expectations of how good it would feel. When you did have sex for the first time, did the actual experience live up to how good you expected it to be? Again, please only discuss the physical side of the sexual experience, not the emotional aspects. When you entered a vagina for the first time with your penis, was the physical sensation that you felt:

No expectations and understand there was no internet back then. All I had was a lot of porno magazines, seen a handful of VHS Adult Movies, Playboy channel, and Cinemax. Again at 18 was a senior in HS and hooked up with this girl (can't go into particulars about her due to forum rules), and again had no idea how good it would be.

Just go into without expectations, and enjoy it. Don't be in a rush, and chances are you will cum in minutes if not seconds. For me I lasted 2hrs before she said she was getting soar and I still didn't cum so I faked an orgasm. I am rare because till after my divorce anyone I first had sex with it was hard for me to cum. I think it had something to do about being comfortable but because of that I lasted 2hrs.

A) Better than you expected, overwhelmingly great
Aren't these more than one question(s)? You did say only 2.

B) Good, but not overwhelmingly great
See above

C) Rather disappointing, not as good as masturbation
How would you know. You really don't have anything to compare it to.

Till you pop your cherry if you really want to know what a pussy and a mouth feels like and you can find out what an ass feels like by personal experience Fleshlight is the closest thing just run warm water through it first.

For a BJ keep the bottom cap really tight.

For pussy let up a little on the cap

For anal get the super tight version (but I am guessing on that one for I only own the Stamina Kit).

If you want to pop that cherry lower your standards and get on an online dating site advertising you are a virgin and want to lose it.

Now onto your questions. See above.

 

[UnderMyKilt]

Two questions coming from a curious virgin guy in his twenties. I don't mean this thread as a joke, I want serious answers to my questions, so please only answer if you wish to contribute.

1. How exactly does it physically feel to have sex? I don't wish to discuss the emotional aspects in this thread, only the physical side of sex. How exactly does it physically feel to enter a vagina with your penis. Please be as descriptive as possible, even if its difficult.

2. Before you had sex for the first time you might have had certain expectations of how good it would feel. When you did have sex for the first time, did the actual experience live up to how good you expected it to be? Again, please only discuss the physical side of the sexual experience, not the emotional aspects. When you entered a vagina for the first time with your penis, was the physical sensation that you felt:

A) Better than you expected, overwhelmingly great

B) Good, but not overwhelmingly great

C) Rather disappointing, not as good as masturbation

I hope there will be a few more experienced people who can answer these questions. Thanks in advance.

Spirit90

I have a diverse range of experiences and, fortunately, I can say that ALL of my "firsts", vaginal, oral, anal with both women and men have been fantastic and magical. The trepidation and excitement of that first experience, at least for me, made it that much better. There's is no way to remove the emotional experience and describe only the physical as they are inextricably linked.

My first, going "all the way" with a woman, was with a girl that I'd been dating for at least a few months before the opportunity to have intercourse presented itself. We had somehow ended up paired up while at friends house party, did some heavy petting that night, and it just seemed natural for us to be together. I will mention this, while I was a "virgin" (as far as male/female vaginal sex is concerned) she was not as she had a much older boyfriend before me and she was quite sexually experienced. She was also on the pill because her older sister, upon finding that she was sexually active, had taken her to the local clinic for an RX.

But I digress. For that "first time" , it was early on a Saturday morning and she had let herself into my parent's home as they were away for the weekend and I had left the door unlocked. She let herself into my bedroom and I awoke to see her stripping off her clothes before climbing into bed with me. I have to say that I was atwitter with anticipation, my heart was pounding in my chest, and my penis was rock hard without being touched.

She was most assuredly the aggressor and literally attacked me, tongue in mouth, hand on cock, with an obvious sexual hunger. I responded in kind and upon touching her vagina found that she was already wet with anticipation.

Fearing that I would have a hair trigger and ejaculate prematurely (a fear later born out) I moved down on my belly between her legs (yes...a natural blond) and buried my tongue between the folds of her labia seeking out the little nub with which I had brought her to orgasm in the past with finger only while doing heavy petting. Obviously, I had never done this before but I had read how to do it in a sex education book my progressive parents had given to my siblings and I and in other sexual literature I had obtained myself (reminder, this is the 70's, we couldn't learn this stuff from graphic websites, online porn, and porn DVDs).

I was obviously doing something right as she held my head down with both hands and steered me about her privates to make sure I hit the right spots. The scent was exquisite, the taste was exquisite, and my face was becoming soaked with her copious, slippery, juices. Her clit had now become quite swollen, larger than before and much more pronounced, and as I sucked it between my lips while swirling and flicking my tongue on and around it she began to buck and moan with an orgasm. She pushed me deep between her thighs which she squeezed together around my head. I had been involuntarily undulating my hips, my penis pressed against the sheets, and her orgasm sent me over the edge and I ejaculated onto the sheets. Even though we hadn't even yet had intercourse, the orgasm was the most intense I had experienced to date.

When she unclamped her thighs from around my head, and while breathing and gasping for air, she asked, "Where did you learn to do that," and we both laughed when I responded, "Books." This was especially funny to us since I had been tutoring her and helping her in several school subjects.

She spread her legs, pulled me up on top of her, and as we kissed reached down to guide my penis toward her vagina. It was still erect, but not as hard and engorged as before, and when I told her that I had cum while eating her out she seemed even more endeared to me. She was totally turned on that giving her pleasure had excited me so much that I too came. She said she "wanted to see it" and exclaimed "Wow" upon seeing how much I had cum.

After cleaning up my cum, we made out some more till she rolled me onto my back and moved down between my legs and began to suck and lick my cock which had become steel hard again. Satisfied that I was "ready", she climbed on top of me, slid her wet, juicy, vagina onto my penis, while obviously watching for my reaction. It felt so good, hot, slippery, like wet velvet and she grinned broadly when my mouth fell agape, I involuntarily gasped, and my eyes grew wide as saucers. She was also a vision of beauty above me and I reached up to cup her breasts as she slowly slid up and down on my cock several times before bending down to kiss me. All the while, my head was just swimming in the sensation of that hot, wet, pussy gripping and caressing my cock as well as the realization that this was finally happening.

She whispered to me that she wanted me to be as still as I could because she wanted to control the pace and give me pleasure. With that she sat back up and slid up and down on my penis, fast, slow, deep shallow, with a sly grin on her face and while watching for my reactions.

It was everything I expected and more with every inch, every centimeter, of my penis stimulated by the exquisite warmth, wetness, and gentle friction. While pleasuring me, she was also obviously shifting positions to ensure that my turgid penis was hitting the insides of her genitals in just the right places. When she sensed that I might be getting close, she began to finger her own clitoris while bouncing on my penis with more intensity and depth, sliding further off and further on, till she began to cum again and impaled herself as deeply as possible on my penis. Simultaneously, I could feel the "it's inevitable feeling" well up in me as I teetered on the brink and then began to cum while tossing my head from side to side and gasping, "Oh fuck." As I came, she bent over till our entire torsos were touching and with her face pressed up against, mine, apparently wanting to be as "close" as possible when I experienced my first "fucking climax".

What can I say? While I had certain "expectations" as to how good it would feel, it was every bit of that and more. While I was at first a bit embarrassed that I had cum while eating her out, and before even entering her vagina, her love, patience, and understanding made it all OK and in the end I was glad because it took away the "hair trigger" and allowed me to last longer in her vagina and allowed us to have the ultimate, the proverbial "simultaneous orgasms".

You asked us to quantify it so I would have to say,

A) Better than you expected, overwhelmingly great !!

 

[magicalmoments]

It's a bit of a cliche but find yourself a good sized water melon, heat it to about body temperature, certainly no hotter, cut a circular hole in the rind, get your cock stiff, lube up your shaft with plenty of ky jelly and the push that fucker into that hole and pump away.

That's what it feels like, only much much better.

If you've got a little money you could buy one of those artificial cunts but hey, watermelon does the job just as well.

 

[suckonsimon]

Spirit90, I have some vivid memories about this which I hope answer your questions.

My first full penetrative sex was on my wedding night aged 23. The experience of pressing in, past my woman's glistening pussy lips which I had opened a little with my fingers - pressing in to such delectable silky moist slightly tight softness was ... pleasurable beyond my wildest imagining. She was newly on the pill and we were both absolutely clear that our new-wed sex was about bareback deep penetration with quantities of my potent seed pumped deep into her as consummation of our marriage. And so it was. I was really concerned that the extreme pleasure of the sensation for me meant that my ejaculation was no more that two minutes into this fantastic new experience of fucking. But she was likewise extremely happy and fulfilled simply by the experience of having her man fill her with his meat and then his milk. It was un-skilled, brief, yet superb for me and for her.

It means the world to me that it was early the next morning, after a deep sleep for both of us, that we first experienced a decent length of fucking which built to a simultaneous orgasm. Again, I had no concept at all about the supreme sense of prowess I would have about triggering such a wild release of pleasure into every fibre of the body of the woman I love, nor of the way in which my own pleasure became a thing not just about my erection and balls - that's how I had experienced the pleasure of ejaculation solo - but pleasure seething from my manhood into the whole of my body as well as, so obviously, into the whole of her body.

Here's me, 40 years and I guess more than 5,000 romps later, still in awe about the joy of the physical sensations of penetrative sex.

Some really significant lead-ins to our first penetrative sex:
In all the heavy petting we had done, she had become quite familiar with my erect cock and I knew that she adored and admired it so I had no anxiety issues on that front. I had experienced her giving me oral - not all the way to the blow but nonetheless to my extreme delight. I remember the first time she took my glans into her wet mouth I let out this involuntary roar it felt so awesomely good! It was no time after that she had my creamy spunk spattered over her belly.

I know this has been narrative rather than straight answers to your questions. But I hope it does it for you.

The best to you mate. If you have stuff you want to discuss privately, pm me. Simon.

 

[luckyseven]

If you're worried, don't be. It'll be alright.

[Do not post under age (18) content! This includes saying "when I was very young,", etc. This is the last warning I will give.]

 

[Spirit90]

I wish to thank everybody who contributed in this thread. You shared your personal experiences and feelings in this thread and I wish to thank you for this. Thank you for taking the time to write such detailed responses. This is indeed a serious thread and I have followed it since yesterday and I read every response carefully. I want to apologize for not posting earlier, I had it on my agenda and planned to do it after reaching home.

After having read all the responses, it seems like the feeling of penetrating a vagina the first time was for many overwhelmingly good and better than expected (A). This seems to be the consensus.

I am still awaiting more responses, so if anybody else wishes to contribute, it is very much appreciated. Please try to answer the questions as accurately as possible.

Again, I wish to thank everyone who took the time to answer in this thread. Thank you for your effort and trust.

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