First Meeting with Sub

[spazt]

To all the Doms out there. What do you usually do at your first meeting with a sub or potential sub, then what do you do if they agree to be your sub at that first meeting?

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

To all the Doms out there. What do you usually do at your first meeting with a sub or potential sub, then what do you do if they agree to be your sub at that first meeting?

thank them politely and then run away very very fast........

(not a Dom/me btw)

 

[Ebonyfire]

To all the Doms out there. What do you usually do at your first meeting with a sub or potential sub, then what do you do if they agree to be your sub at that first meeting?

It depends if they are strangers to me or not. My first meetings are always in a neutral place, say a restaurant, and we talk face to face. If that meeting goes well then I send him my requirements, rules, and protocol information for him to read and discuss. If he agrees to my requirements, we usually meet for additional activities (i.e. inspection & teaching of rituals). I set up the framework for the relationship before any play or training.

I would never allow a submissive to agree to be mine at a first meeting. I would refuse him.

Cheers,

Eb

 

[DomRick]

I completely agree with Ebonyfire. All of my initial meetings have been in public, often for lunch so there's a short time commitment. If there is a second meeting, it's usually a motorcycle ride to see how she does and how she acts both in public and during private rest stops. Other than a peck on the lips, there is usually no physical contact until the third or later meeting, when the commitment to experiment comes. For any sub that would want to be taken the first or second time, that's just too quick for me to think about (as a dating partner)(play parties are different and unattached). Good luck.

 

[Ebonyfire]

For any sub that would want to be taken the first or second time, that's just too quick for me to think about (as a dating partner)(play parties are different and unattached). Good luck.

That is a very good point. Selecting a 24/7 or significant other is a lot slower than selecting a part-time boy or just intermittent play partner.

Eb