first m/m about to happen

[carlg111901]

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[carlg111901]

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[alaskabibear]

LOL! So you think you will never do it again? I would be totally shocked if that turns out to be true. Once having tasted the forbidden fruit, I predict that you will not be able to stay away forever. Don't sweat it one way or the other, you never know how you will feel another day - but, congratulations on your making your fantasy a reality.

 

[bi golly]

I would echo alaskabibear on this one. I have been thinking about sex with men almost since I started to jack off.

I started to play with my penis and anus and liked the buzz that it gave me. I remember inserting something into my anus and getting it stuck there before I got it to come back out. That scared the hell out of me. I was probably 13-14. That happened before I learned to jack off (an accident that happened during my play sessions).

After learning to jack off, I started thinking about sex with men. The usual pattern is that I would jack off to a fantasy about women, and then when I wanted to cum again, I would need to make the fantasy more nasty. Sex with men was one way to make the fantasy work better.

When I am around women, I don't think about sex with men at all, or at least very little. (I did notice a guy with a nice ass at the gym the other day though and I did think about fucking him.) I think of my urges to have sex with men as a turn inward, toward myself, not outward, toward other people. I think the issue for me is that when I am around other people, my turn outward is toward heteronormative forms of sexual expression.

Yeah, I think you'll be back to try it again. I think there's a part of you that you want to discover and it is a little scary to contemplate, but that part of you needs another man to find it. I think that if you find the right guy and there is some emotion attached to your discovery, you will finally find the thing you are looking for. That won't make you gay, but it will make you knowing.

 

[tonethebone]

I was around 35 by the time I tried it. With a close friend I had known for 20 years. All it did was to make me think about it more than ever. So now I'm happily married to a great gal, and every so often visit my suck buddy for something a little different.

 

[curiouslylookin37]

cockulations

i;m in the same boat as tone. once you have tried it, you will wonder if you should go further. the itch will return. haha i can't scratch mine enough.
good luck!

 

[Bicuriousone]

so here is what went down...

he came over, undressed and laid on my bed. I reached over and started to stroke him until he was hard. after about 2-3 minutes of stroking him, i made my way down and started to lick his balls, then shaft, then the head. after licking for about a minute i took him completely in my mouth. I was almost able to get all the way down his 6.5"!

i licked and sucked for about 5 minutes, and he asked me to hold off and to just hold the base while he stroked himself and completed on his belly.

This is something i've long fantasized about ever since i was a teen. the temptation comes and goes from time to time. at almost 30 it felt good to finally do it. i feel relieved. i know i didnt want to be 70 something and still fantasizing about it. although it was fun to do, its probably something ill never do again. it felt great to finally scratch the itch, but now that i've done it im ready to move on with my life. It's only vag and t&a from here on out from my girl.

i thought i would feel guilty or embaressed about doing it, but so far i dont.

if you're wondering, i requested he not recip. i was too nervous and i knew i wasnt going to be able to enjoy it.

my advice to all the curious nervous people reading this, find someone who is willing to be calm, patient, and understanding. this guy knew that if i was uncomfortable at any point he would have to leave.

I'm pretty sure that if I am ever able to scratch my itch i will continue to keep scratching it. If I am ever able to find that special buddy (suck or hopefully more) I am sure that I will continue.

 

[carlg111901]

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[jaked99]

There's no shame in giving in to your desires. If it makes you feel good, continue.

When I first started having sex with guys, I kind of felt the same way you did. Just wanted to satisfy the curiosity. Then I began thinking about it more. It didn't push away my feelings for women, there's an emotional attachment with women that I don't feel with a guy.

So I continued and found a guy that was cool with me coming over when I needed M2M sex. He was gay and understood that I didn't want a relationship with guys. He is very good at sucking cock and has given me some of the best orgasms ever. But there were times I would leave his place and say to myself, "that's the last time, leave on a good note".

Sure enough a week or so later, I would call him up and ask to come over. Maybe it's the fact that he loves my cock and always telling me how beautiful it is and how much he loves to suck me off.

So, try it when you get the urge. Have a good time and just relax. Like a previous poster said, it won't make you gay, it will definitely free your anxieties about sex though.

 

[tonethebone]

Well said jaked99. The only thing that would make my situation perfect, would be if I could share my suck buddy with my wife. Instead I keep it a secret. Not sure how she would react.

 

[carlisme]

Hehehe...Yeah, you might want to try it again. I sucked my first cock last Sunday and I am meeting a guy tomorrow for more, and then this Sunday I will hopefully get two cum blasts in a threeway!

I think I am turning into a cock whore.......