First bi experience?

[curious26TX]

I've never had a bi experience and I've been chatting with this guy who is like me and wants to get together and just jerk off. The thing is that since I have never done this before I'm really not that comfortable just going and doing this with someone you know? So my question is how did you go about having your first bi experience? What made you comfortable enough to give it a try?

 

[FastEddieS]

The only person that I have had a BI encounter with was my first LandLord ( I was 18, He was 35 ). I had never even thought about doing anything with a Guy before that.
We had been painting the appartment that I was going to move into. As the day was getting over we started drinking. When I started getting pretty drunk, he started to rest his hand on my leg from time to time as we talked. Each time he did it he would touch me a little higher and rub my leg.
I couldn't control the fact that I was getting a "Hard On".
Before long he was stroking my cock, and then he un-did my pant's. I can still remember him pulling my cock out for the first time and then going down on me and giving me the best blow job of my life. I did have a few more experiences with him that I wish I could do again.

As far as your question to what might make you a little more comfortable.... A little ALCHOL never hurt's.
You might want to tell him that you would like to hang out and have a few drink's, and then see how it goes from there.
Maybe he'll make the first move and Seduce you... Then all you have to do is... Let thing's happen.

 

[Harrowborg]

Talkings one thing, doing something like meeting up and exposing your genitals to another person espeically of the same sex is quite another. I'm not sure personally if there is some like way that will make you feel comfortable enough to do it, the fact you sound hesitant or uncomfortable about it suggests you might not wanna and dont feel pressured to do anything you don't wanna do.
have long have you been talking to this other guy?

 

[Mari J]

What made you comfortable enough to give it a try?

Umm...overwhelming desire?



I don't think having your first experience with someone you met in a chat is going to be comfortable enough for you. Get out and meet people in person. What do you picture yourself doing with another man? How well do you picture knowing him? Your fantasies and expectations might give you an idea of where your comfort level is.

 

[sexplorer35]

You should decide what you want first, so you know what you're looking for. For my first experience, I finally decided I was ready, and went to a club. I met some cool people there, and one just clicked. He lived nearby, so we were able to go back there and have fun in a relaxed way.

 

[Nabokov]

I just had my first experience the other day. It was with someone that I knew was bi.

We just got together to watch some porn. After a while, we were naked and went from there. It was a very good experience for me.

 

[Baskin Robbins]

I was 14 and my bestfriend invited me to "Fuck his asshole" . I still want him now!!

 

[Endeavor]

Had by first active bisexual experince just this week

I had my very first active bisexual experience just this week at age 53. It happened at an adult bookstore that has a reputation for allowing more than one person in a booth. The reputation was correct. A really nice guy about my age invited me into his booth and I decided to go for it. He opened his pants and I mine. We both just fondled each others cocks for awhile. His cock felt great, really thick with a good sized head. Then he asked me if I wanted him to suck my cock. I told him not yet, I wanted to suck his first. So I just crouched down and continued stroking his beautiful cock. Then I thought its now or never and I just started sucking on him. His cock felt and tasted great in my mouth. I sucked him for a long time and then he did me. It was great. I went back to the place again today and got there just as he was arriving. We hooked up again and this time I sucked him until he came in my mouth. It was fantastic. He gave me his number, we may just meet in a more private environment next time.

I waited so long for my first taste of hard cock. I wish I had done it long ago.

 

[fetishdan]

WOW I am still waiting for mine!! Anyone interested?

 

[obiwan9962]

my first was at 15
did not try it again for a long while
23 years later i wish i had

 

[sexfan23]

I had my very first active bisexual experience just this week at age 53. It happened at an adult bookstore that has a reputation for allowing more than one person in a booth. The reputation was correct. A really nice guy about my age invited me into his booth and I decided to go for it. He opened his pants and I mine. We both just fondled each others cocks for awhile. His cock felt great, really thick with a good sized head. Then he asked me if I wanted him to suck my cock. I told him not yet, I wanted to suck his first. So I just crouched down and continued stroking his beautiful cock. Then I thought its now or never and I just started sucking on him. His cock felt and tasted great in my mouth. I sucked him for a long time and then he did me. It was great. I went back to the place again today and got there just as he was arriving. We hooked up again and this time I sucked him until he came in my mouth. It was fantastic. He gave me his number, we may just meet in a more private environment next time.

I waited so long for my first taste of hard cock. I wish I had done it long ago.

Great story, Endeavor.

 

[RazorSplitClit]

I was at a club with my ex girlfriend and couple of her friends. I was pretty drunk and mad she had passed out before we had a chance to have sex. One of her friends told me he thought I was "cute", so after we dropped her off at her place, I let him give me a blow-job.

 

[sparkzzz]

The first time I ever sucked a juicy cock was when I was 14. and that was the first time I knew I was hooked on cock. He was renting a room in my aunt's apartment. One day he invited me to his room and we watched straight porn, especially the BJ parts. We didn't do anything other than watch, though. Later that night was a different story. I was getting ready for bed when he showed up drunk, and then he started fondling me and making me touch his cock. I was resisting at first until I touched his cock, and I started stroking his cock, finally ending up on my knees and sucking his cock until he came in my mouth, though I couldn't swallow every drop because at the time I didn't know that swallowing could be so much fun.

 

[hokieclimber]

My first time was a couple weeks ago, with my old college roommate that's gay (I'm now 27).

We had been talking about doing it for a while so we arranged to meet at a hotel because we don't live that close to each other. We both stripped down to our underwear on the bed and he started giving me a back rub. He worked his way to my chest and I leaned into him then down to my crotch. Eventually he was rubbing me through my underwear and I couldn't stand it any longer. I turned and kissed him as I felt his body.

We stripped off our underwear as we kissed and went for each other's cocks. His was smaller than mine and felt different in my hand. He layed me back and sucked my nipples then went down to my cock and I stroked his hair then his back. I played with his ass as he sucked.

Then I rolled him over placed his dick in my mouth. It was different than I would have thought, but still nice. I sucked him for a bit, then licked and sucked his balls. Eventually he pulled me up and we kissed and jerked each other off and fell asleep.

We fooled around 4 more times that weekend and even had anal sex, but that's another story

 

[obiwan9962]

We fooled around 4 more times that weekend and even had anal sex, but that's another story

tease

 

[hokieclimber]

tease

Always leave them wanting more, right?

I could be persuaded to eleborate...all someone would have to do is ask.

 

[sexfan23]

Always leave them wanting more, right?

I could be persuaded to eleborate...all someone would have to do is ask.

ok, I'm asking.....

 

[badger9]

ok, I'm asking.....

Me too. Cum now, do tell.

 

[docisin]

Here's the solution for the original poster who wants to know if he should go through with meeting a guy. My advice is this: set up the meeting, then 3 or so hours before, jack off, then after that, if you're still horny and want to do it, go for it....

 

[badger9]

You could also simply arrange to meet, in public, for a drink or even a lite lunch, with no expectation of any action. No pressure, just meet 'em. Then, later, decide if you want to meet again and go further. Even if you thought you were willing to go thru with it the first time, you might change your mind once you meet the person.

 

[docisin]

I remember (more years ago than I care to remember), I was about 16 or so, my buddy and I were jacking off, I REALLY wanted to suck his cock. I looked at him and said, "Let me suck your cock," and he freaked out, and looked at me like I was gay, and a creep (which I'm not, either). So I didn't , but I was so FUCKING horny, that I would have sucked him and swallowed his cum in a heart beat. Even though I'm straight, I've always been obsessed with cock (my own in particular) and cum. I Love licking my own cum, and have tryed to shoot it in my mouth many times. Oh well, now I'm middle aged; dreams of youth....

 

[jkaustin72]

13 here

i was 13, babysitter talked me into "playing", oral only...anal was later...havent done anything in at least 15+ years...no one to play with...lol

 

[windsock]

Mine was last year, it was the horniest thing I have ever done. I didn't realise that I could be so hard (I'm feeling that way now just reading all these threads).

 

[bimori]

I was at a club with my ex girlfriend and couple of her friends. I was pretty drunk and mad she had passed out before we had a chance to have sex. One of her friends told me he thought I was "cute", so after we dropped her off at her place, I let him give me a blow-job.

I sure wish this had been me . Anyway my 1st time I was 13 and spent the night at a friends house . He had some playboys and we sat around looking at the picks . At first he pull's out his cock and starts jacking off . So I pull out mind and do the same . Then he reaches over at he starts jacking me of . This felt so good my cock got so hard . I start giving him a hand job . The next thing I know he shoots his load all over my hand . This made me cum so hard . He just kept strocking me until I was out of cum . Later that night we went to bed and started playing again . This time he licked my cock while he jacked me off . At the same time Iwas lick his cock it tasted so good that I took him into my mouth . He cam in about 2 min. ( course he told me he wouldn't cum in my mouth ) . At first I thought I was going to throw up but I started i relax and I really liked the taste . He sucked me off but he didn't sallow mine . We had sex about 10 more times that weekend . We palyed with each other for about 4 years after that know one knew . My family moved away and I haven't hurd from him since . I wonder what happen to him . It would sure be nice to get back together .

 

[hokieclimber]

Me too. Cum now, do tell.

Ok, well later that first night we lying naked in bed. I couldn't get to sleep, I still all worked up from fooling around earlier. He must have heard me stirring and asked what was up. I said I couldn't sleep and that I actually wanted to go again.

He moved closer to me and pushed his ass into my crotch and reached behind me and started rubbing my ass. I reached around him and started rubbing his stomach and pinching his nipples. Eventually I reached down and started stroking him while kissing the back of his neck and licking his ear. He rolled over and grabbed me and we started stroking each other.

He rolled me onto my back started kissing my chest, eventually working his way down to my dick. He gave me a great blowjob and I wanted to return the favor. I started sucking him off but I wasn't doing the greatest job. I kept forgetting to keep my teeth out of the way and then when I'd concentrate on that, I'd basically stop sucking. So eventually I gave up (after promising to practice more later) and got him off with my hand.

I was finally exhausted enough that I could fall asleep.

So the second time was about an hour after the first, but at least I was able to wait till morning for the third time That's not much of a story, basically we played with each other than he sucked me off again. However, what happened that night is quite a story, but I think I'll save that one for tomorrow