Fingers... question for the ladies

[AlwaysTooWet]

As I'm laying in bed contemplating life ... and a few other things ... I was wondering what area you tend to focus on mainly when just using your fingers for solo play? Do you ever just focus on your clit? Do you always finger yourself internally? Or is it always a combination you've got going on?
Also if you've been unable to orgasm with just your fingers for however long and for whatever reason, have you been able to get there again eventually?

 

[GhostFeather18]

I hardly ever use penetration when flying solo so to speak.

 

[ChattyAnnie]

I do both but it's mostly clit play. Sometimes I do both at the same time using two hands.

 

[xxkimberlyv]

usually its all clit with the occasional insertion

 

[MaBelle3120]

I usually just focus on my clit, occasionally also penetrate myself. If I want to push myself over the edge, I use both hands to do those things simultaneously.

 

[LiteTouch10]

A most educational and helpful thread for us guys. we can all learn to do better!!!!

 

[JulieAnn42]

I use fingers on my clit, sometimes with my panties still on. I do touch lower when my panties are off, but that is to get the juices on my fingers and then on my clit.

 

[GhostFeather18]

I use fingers on my clit, sometimes with my panties still on. I do touch lower when my panties are off, but that is to get the juices on my fingers and then on my clit.

Yeah it is a rush to feel how excited you are and the extra lubrication is fantastic

 

[legally_non_blonde]

Clitoral stimulation predominantly

 

[Cream_me]

With hands alone, it's all clit. My vibe inserts and rotates and has a little part that vibrates my clit and I like it , too, though.

 

[blueyedbailey]

Primarily, I just focus on my clit. But, I do slip a few fingers inside to gather some juices to use as lube...or for a taste.

 

[Friendlymann]

I hope I don't get into trouble, as a man, for posting here, but just to say it's impossible to read this thread without becoming hugely turned on!

 

[SCcouple1990]

Mostly just he clit. If anything is inserted, it is usually a toy.

 

[nowat41]

It's mostly clit for me as well, but some times I push the finger inside.

 

[MissCautious]

I generally need something in me in order to orgasm, and something more than a finger or two, but if using fingers only I usually start out with rubbing my clit but will always put my fingers inside myself. I don't usually cum with just fingers though, and don't think I ever have with clit only stimulation. Not sure - maybe I need to test the theory!!

 

[paulw128]

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[bibethhotwet]

I usually end up with a toy in me, (dildo, vib, or bullet) in me when masturbating. If its fingers only, its usually more clitoral play. I like to spread my lips wide and back with the middle and index finger of my left hand and work my clit with my middle finger of my right hand.

 

[Aurora6969]

It's usually all about the clit, working that swollen little nugget with my fingers, dipping in just to get some honey to sweeten the ride. Occasionally, if I'm ambitious and want to try for a g-spot orgasm as well, I'll get up on my knees and while my right hand is teasing my clit, I'll use a toy to pound my pussy until the juices are raining down.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

xxxxx

 

[sidonie45]

Lots of stimulating replies ladies.
With fingers, it's both, clit play with the occasional insertion.
My actual preference with fingers, is to be fingered rather being the fingerer, so to,speak.
When it comes to clit play, nothing rocks my boat more, than a bullet. The vibe not the one from a gun.
Best mastubation technique, toy insertion with a bullet on the clit. love it

 

[suckonsimon]

... Sometimes I do both at the same time using two hands.

Another man who can't resist coming in here:
Yeah I do both on her, using two hands, while grazing her inner thighs with my teeth. Slightly dangerous, as sometimes I get a serious bashing on the face and not in anger!

 

[LegsOpenedWide]

I've never been able to have a g spot orgasm when by myself.
What's the secret to that? Do you need a g spot vibrator or can you achieve it using fingers only?

 

[Taliane]

Mostly the clit with an occasional penetration especially if I am using coconut oil for lube

 

[GingerFireFly]

I normally focus on the clit. I enjoy being watched though and tend to penetrate more when I am. I also recently squirted for the first time while masturbating (I had during sex before), and it was a uniquely pleasant sensation so I've been focusing on penetration more to try to get it to happen again.

I get off very easily and been more trying to work on edging myself. Having to work hard to get off is never as much of a problem for me as going too quickly.

I think the edging was part of what led me to squirt btw, as I'd been being teased for a long time without touching when it happened.

 

[juicypear]

I have tried and tried to give myself a g spot orgasm with just my fingers but it never happens for me. I focus on my clit, on my belly, one leg bent at the knee and grind against my fingers. I use my ring finger and middle finger and keep those two nails shorter than all my others to really push against my finger tips. This position has worked for me for as long as I have been engaging in solo play.