Fingering yourself? How long does it take you to get there?

[LegsOpenedWide]

Just wondering how long it takes other females to reach orgasm when your fingering and playing with yourself? It seems to take me forever, if not at all, so I give in and use my vibe but would love to be able to get there with my own hand at times

 

[MissJW]

Guess about.... err..... Five, six minutes? Let's say 5-10 minutes, depending on this and that. Though I can give myself quickies as well, all done in 1-2 minutes if need be!

 

[mewandrer63]

Just wondering how long it takes other females to reach orgasm when your fingering and playing with yourself? It seems to take me forever, if not at all, so I give in and use my vibe but would love to be able to get there with my own hand at times

try a hitachi magic wand and use it in conjunction with your fingers

 

[joan40dd]

All depends usually about 20 minutes.Like using a virbrator on my clit that will make me cum.

 

[One96_Azalea]

Just wondering how long it takes other females to reach orgasm when your fingering and playing with yourself? It seems to take me forever, if not at all, so I give in and use my vibe but would love to be able to get there with my own hand at times

I usually end up doing the same! Although, depending on several factors, I am able to get it done within 5-10 minutes with my fingers. With a vibe...like maybe 3-4 minutes. They come fast, and often with a vibe.

 

[joan40dd]

When I use the virbrator I can cum multiple times.

 

[quietlylooking]

So much of it depends on other factors, like how aroused I am to start with, how long since I've cum, how comfortable I am, the time in my cycle, how I feel about myself, etc. I can cum by my fingers within a minute under ideal circumstances, but it's probably usually around 5 minutes on average. Some medications can definitely impact this, and I find that caffeine and pseudoephedrine can help, while SSRIs and alcohol make it take longer and make the release less pleasurable.

With a Hitachi I can cum very fast, within a minute easily, and can cum multiple times, but the orgasms don't seem as pleasurable as the ones with my fingers. I use my fingers much more often than my toys when I masturbate.

 

[dirtynaughtygrl]

Oh man, like within 2 minutes if I want it bad enough. Then again if I'm playing for the enjoyment I can usually last a bit.
Never used a vibe before wonder if that would make me go instantly ha-ha!

 

[Jake1945]

Very interesting topic. I am a male so not really part of the question. In my younger days, I could get off very quickly but am a little slower these days. My wife has never talked about pleasuring herself but I suspect she has a time or two. She could always orgasm pretty quickly with a little nipple play and finger work.

 

[Desiretobedesir]

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[thesweetsweetness]

I'm afraid I can't even remember the last time I gave myself an orgasm with just my fingers. I always use toys when I masturbate. Hubby can finger me and get me to climax rather quickly, but I just can't do it myself. Either I'm broken or he's magic. I'm going with, he's magic.

 

[LostBabygirl3489]

One time it took me thirty seconds because I was so turned on...it hasn't happened since. Usually two minutes or so. I can usually come over ten times in like less than an hour.

 

[Trimjob69]

One time it took me thirty seconds because I was so turned on...it hasn't happened since. Usually two minutes or so. I can usually come over ten times in like less than an hour.

I can usually come over ten times in ten days.

 

[LostBabygirl3489]

I can usually come over ten times in ten days.

I know I'm a weirdo. I just don't satisfy myself. That's why I rarely touch myself.

 

[thesweetsweetness]

You're not a weirdo. I can have multiple orgasms in a short time frame, too. Sometimes left feeling rather insatiable instead of fully satisfied.

 

[LostBabygirl3489]

You're not a weirdo. I can have multiple orgasms in a short time frame, too. Sometimes left feeling rather insatiable instead of fully satisfied.

Thank you I get the same way.

 

[anthilly]

Gonna ask the insider's, how can you easily find the G spot, I can curl my fingers and work the clit. But I'm always looking for advice on technique.

 

[LegsOpenedWide]

I shall keep practising then!

 

[ChattyAnnie]

If I'm really horny I can get off quickly - a few minutes, maybe less with a vibrator. When I'm alone and have the time I enjoy long masturbation sessions where I achieve orgasm over and over.

 

[BongoGal]

If I am in a hurry for some reason, I can usually bring it in around two or three minutes. (If I am in a BIG hurry, then under a minute is possible with my Magic Wand.) Usually I'm more than happy to take it slow, get close, back off a bit, build up again, etc. If I am writing something erotic, I can do that for hours.

 

[Okletsgo]

Anywhere between 30sec if I'm very aroused to not at all but oh so close (frustrating as hell)...
I know my body v well but even so it can take moon and stars being in enlignment too lol.
Stress affects me a lot I find. It can send my libido through the roof but also make orgasm harder to achieve sometimes (not always)- just what you need to be when stressed right? Super horny and super frustrated.
This site helps!

 

[jodylee]

From about 5 mins to non-achievement.

 

[lydia_kitty]

2-3 mins usually, but I can also drag it out if I am particularly in the mood to do so

 

[sensualsharon]

Lots of gals here seem to like the quickies! I like around 15 minutes until the first orgasm, a break of a few minutes to catch my breath, then successive orgasms take less time, anywhere from 3-10 minutes. I agree with the poster that mentioned vibe orgasms being less enjoyable than fingers, it's like a ruined, incomplete orgasm from them for me. Water induced ones are fast, from the shower massager, less than 5 minutes, but also like the vibe, simply not as satisfying to me as a finger induced orgasm, but more satisfying than a vibe.

 

[Okletsgo]

Yes I prefer to draw it out, make it last. But not like a guy who will happily edge for hours... But then I can orgasm easily again whereas as some men can't so I get it.