Fingering to fisting

[huskie]

Help me out here so I don't hurt her. If i'm going to go from fingering her pussy to fisting or nearly so. Should I (when I have more than say three fingures in her) push more to the back side of her pussy or top? I know going strait in and hitting her cervics(???) will hurt her so witch is best or most prefered?

huskie

 

[marksgirl]

First make sure you have plenty of lube going on. When it's being done to me my guy starts slowly gradually adding a finger and streching my pussy in a up ward soft thrust until he works his whole hand inside me.....................OH YEAH!!!

I do think the key is slow and easy.........wins the race!

 

[solid_]

First make sure you have plenty of lube going on. When it's being done to me my guy starts slowly gradually adding a finger and streching my pussy in a up ward soft thrust until he works his whole hand inside me.....................OH YEAH!!!

I do think the key is slow and easy.........wins the race!

The mind boggles I have big hands and dont believe for a second that a lady will be able to accomadate my fist.

 

[marksgirl]

The mind boggles I have big hands and dont believe for a second that a lady will be able to accomadate my fist.
Solid_
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You might just be suprised, I mean after all we are the one who do have those babies.

 

[solid_]

The mind boggles I have big hands and dont believe for a second that a lady will be able to accomadate my fist.
Solid_
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You might just be suprised, I mean after all we are the one who do have those babies.

Now that you put it like that, It might just be a possibility now to find a willing lady.

 

[SexyChele]

Just be very, very careful - not all women can take fisting. Like other things, it's not for everyone and can actually do damage. Take your cues from her and when she says, "stop", stop.

I just can't do fisting. I've had it tried several times, and things are just too tight to accommodate a man's hand. And, yes, I've had men tell me, "Well, you women have babies, and their heads are bigger than my hand!" Well, I got a biology lesson for ya on that one: when a woman gets pregnant, her hips actually spread out and her joints become looser to allow for a baby to pass through the birth canal. If a woman isn't pregnant, those bones is staying just were they are. One of the lamest whines I've heard from men when I've stopped the whole fisting thing is that I should be able to accommodate them simply because I have the ability to give birth.

Be considerate, be careful, and know when she has had enough.

 

[lilfrk]

Trim your nails and go very very slowly. plus you can never have too much lube. Also know that it may take more than one try to accomplish what you want.

If you do a search you'll find a lovely how to by cym.

 

[Pdxmwm]

Fisting, What works for me...

Use lots of lube, much more then you think you may need; you can’t use too much, and keep it fresh. Not many women can take an entire hand the first time you try it; especially if it’s the first time for you as well.

You both need to be relaxed, and you need to focus on her pleasure. Forget about what you want (at least till you have successfully fisted her several times). Don’t be in a hurry; it may take an hour or more, and you’ll want it to be a pleasurable experience for her. Once you’re successful, she’ll probably have the most extreme series of orgasms she’s ever experienced. My GF tells me there is nothing like the experience of cumming when my fist is inside her and her contractions push against me.

Start with 1 finger, and massage in all directions. Insert your second finger only after she’s relaxed, and it no longer feels tight with only one. Continue the massage, especially pushing up as well as down. Remove your hand and add even more lube; hold your thumb and fingers together, in the shape of a “ducks bill”, while rolling your little finger under the others.

Insert your fingers and thumb together, stopping when you feel any resistance; continue the massage by rotating your hand first in one direction and then the other. While continuing this rotation start to move in and out, never going further in then feels comfortable.

When your hand feels resistance, pause and just hold it there; this is very important, especially if you feel her starting to tighten around you. She may have one or more orgasms while you are doing this; if she does, just hold your hand there till she comes back down, and is able to relax.

The greatest resistance will be caused from her bone structure, not her vaginal opening. It will take time for her to spread, and you can’t hurry this.

Be sure to take your lead from her; she will likely begin to get very excited, and start to push against your hand. As long as she pushes, hold your hand firmly in place. If she pulls back, you should relax and pull back as well.

Be sure to refresh the lube on your hand frequently. She will remain open for several minutes, even when you remove your hand, so don’t worry about loosing ground.

Continue working in and our, as well as rotating your hand; each time you feel yourself slip in a bit deeper, pause and let her get used to the feeling.

The most resistance will be as your knuckles enter her; keep your little finger rolled as far under your other fingers as possible. At this point, a very small change in the position of your hand may have a dramatic effect on how far in you can go. It will probably be easier to get past your knuckles with your thumb in the “nine o’clock” position, with your knuckles positioned “fore and aft”.

As you go beyond your knuckles, start to pull your fingers toward you palm, letting your thumb roll to the outside. Again, a very small change in the position of your hand and fingers may make a dramatic difference on how far you can to.

The shape of my fist makes a big difference for me; rather then having my fist flat, as if I were punching, it fits better if I angle it, with the knuckles of my index finger furthest forward, and my thumb lying in the groove between my index finger and the one below it.

By the time my hand is fully inside my GF, she’s usually climaxed several times, each one with greater intensity. Once my hand is in as far as it’s going to go, we both relax and just enjoy the experience. I’ll place my head on her leg or her tummy, and she’ll hold me in any way she can. When it’s time for that last enormous climax, I’ll start to give her oral, while flexing my fist. I can tell when she’s getting close by the waves of contractions against my hand. When the final one comes, she may clamp my hand tightly, or feel she needs to expel it. It varies from time to time.

The first time your GF experiences a climax from fisting may be very emotional for her. The experience is very intense, and she may cry, or want to be held and rocked. Give her lots of attention, hold and comfort her.

I hope the two of you are successful in your attempts at vaginal fisting. It can be a very loving experience, and lead to incredible intimacy.

 

[huskie]

I want to bring this subject up again and see if anyone has any thing else to add.