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I found this when I was surfing the net and thought it would go to good use here. Let me know if its of any help to anyone.
How to find your G-spot
By Laura Weide
The G-spot is portrayed as a mysterious, meandering location on a woman’s body that plays hide and seek with those who look for it. In fact, every woman has a G-spot-- and it’s always in the same place.
The G-spot is about two inches inside the vagina towards the belly, right behind the pubic bone. It’s composed of spongy tissue that is wrapped around the urethra. When women are aroused it becomes thickened and can be felt through the vaginal wall. It creates an intense, distinctive sensation when stimulated. For some women this feeling is similar to the sensation of needing to urinate. And for some women, stimulation of the G-spot can make them ejaculate. Every woman has one, but not every woman loves having it pressed, rubbed, or otherwise stimulated. You’ll just have to try it out to see if you are a fan.
Are you ready to get started? The first step is to get turned on. During arousal, the spongy tissue swells with fluid. When you aren’t turned on, the wall of the vagina feels fairly similar all the way around, but when you get aroused the G-spot becomes more firm with blood and other fluids. Grab a vibrator, your favorite sexy movie, or indulge in a hot fantasy.
Now insert your finger into your vagina and curve your finger up towards your belly. Your fingers may be too short, in which case, try a curved toy. The Crystal Wand and the Archer Wand are designed for women to reach their own G-spots. The Nubby G is our most popular vibrating toy for G-spot stimulation.
You’ll know when you press into the G-spot from the texture on your finger, and the distinctive sensation it creates. Remember, you aren’t feeling for something on the vaginal wall, the G-spot is behind it, so you’ll need to press. The texture of the G-Spot can feel somewhat bumpy or crinkly, and feels different than the smooth wall of the vagina, especially during arousal.. Press firmly and stroke your fingers towards your palm (move them in a "c'mere big boy" way). Try various degrees of pressure and a range of motions.
There is no single “right way” to jazz the G. The size and sensitivity of the G-Spot varies a lot. You’ll just have to experiment. Some women like rhythmic pressure on the G-Spot, others like the swooping motion of fingers or a twisting dildo like the Rabbit Habit. Other women really like to have their clits stimulated at the same time their G-spot is stroked. A partner’s fingers stroking the G-spot during cunnilingus can feel simply divine.
Pressure on the G-Spot or the contractions of orgasm can cause women to ejaculate fluid from the urethral sponge through the urethra. This fluid is different from urine and similar to the prostatic fluid of men. Empty your bladder before sex, so you won't worry about peeing. Ejaculate quantity may be slight or copious, or none at all. Objects in the vagina may block the uretha, thus preventing ejaculation. Some women ejaculate after the penis, dildo or fingers are removed. While every woman doesn’t ejaculate, female ejaculation is not uncommon and a normal aspect of female sexual response
During partner sex there are some sex positions that are more conducive for hitting the G than others. Think geometry. Unless your partner had a curved dildo or penis, it’s the cervix, not the G-spot that will most likely be stimulated in the standard missionary pose. Doggy style, or the receptive partner receiving it from behind, puts the G-spot in the bullseye a bit better. You can lift your upper body by supporting your hands against a wall or bedstand and create a more angled space in the vagina. Many women find that if they are on top, they can control penetration for better G-spot stimulation.
Women's G-Spot response varies dramatically: remember there’s no one “right way to experience pleasure.” Rather than turning your explorations into a task or new goal you must achieve, try to approach it with a sense of fun and enjoy all the sensations along the way. Happy sex adventures!
For more information check out © 2002 by Laura Weide
How to find your G-spot
By Laura Weide
The G-spot is portrayed as a mysterious, meandering location on a woman’s body that plays hide and seek with those who look for it. In fact, every woman has a G-spot-- and it’s always in the same place.
The G-spot is about two inches inside the vagina towards the belly, right behind the pubic bone. It’s composed of spongy tissue that is wrapped around the urethra. When women are aroused it becomes thickened and can be felt through the vaginal wall. It creates an intense, distinctive sensation when stimulated. For some women this feeling is similar to the sensation of needing to urinate. And for some women, stimulation of the G-spot can make them ejaculate. Every woman has one, but not every woman loves having it pressed, rubbed, or otherwise stimulated. You’ll just have to try it out to see if you are a fan.
Are you ready to get started? The first step is to get turned on. During arousal, the spongy tissue swells with fluid. When you aren’t turned on, the wall of the vagina feels fairly similar all the way around, but when you get aroused the G-spot becomes more firm with blood and other fluids. Grab a vibrator, your favorite sexy movie, or indulge in a hot fantasy.
Now insert your finger into your vagina and curve your finger up towards your belly. Your fingers may be too short, in which case, try a curved toy. The Crystal Wand and the Archer Wand are designed for women to reach their own G-spots. The Nubby G is our most popular vibrating toy for G-spot stimulation.
You’ll know when you press into the G-spot from the texture on your finger, and the distinctive sensation it creates. Remember, you aren’t feeling for something on the vaginal wall, the G-spot is behind it, so you’ll need to press. The texture of the G-Spot can feel somewhat bumpy or crinkly, and feels different than the smooth wall of the vagina, especially during arousal.. Press firmly and stroke your fingers towards your palm (move them in a "c'mere big boy" way). Try various degrees of pressure and a range of motions.
There is no single “right way” to jazz the G. The size and sensitivity of the G-Spot varies a lot. You’ll just have to experiment. Some women like rhythmic pressure on the G-Spot, others like the swooping motion of fingers or a twisting dildo like the Rabbit Habit. Other women really like to have their clits stimulated at the same time their G-spot is stroked. A partner’s fingers stroking the G-spot during cunnilingus can feel simply divine.
Pressure on the G-Spot or the contractions of orgasm can cause women to ejaculate fluid from the urethral sponge through the urethra. This fluid is different from urine and similar to the prostatic fluid of men. Empty your bladder before sex, so you won't worry about peeing. Ejaculate quantity may be slight or copious, or none at all. Objects in the vagina may block the uretha, thus preventing ejaculation. Some women ejaculate after the penis, dildo or fingers are removed. While every woman doesn’t ejaculate, female ejaculation is not uncommon and a normal aspect of female sexual response
During partner sex there are some sex positions that are more conducive for hitting the G than others. Think geometry. Unless your partner had a curved dildo or penis, it’s the cervix, not the G-spot that will most likely be stimulated in the standard missionary pose. Doggy style, or the receptive partner receiving it from behind, puts the G-spot in the bullseye a bit better. You can lift your upper body by supporting your hands against a wall or bedstand and create a more angled space in the vagina. Many women find that if they are on top, they can control penetration for better G-spot stimulation.
Women's G-Spot response varies dramatically: remember there’s no one “right way to experience pleasure.” Rather than turning your explorations into a task or new goal you must achieve, try to approach it with a sense of fun and enjoy all the sensations along the way. Happy sex adventures!
For more information check out © 2002 by Laura Weide
