fighting the emptiness in my heart

[MMM_wms]

And I am searching for a woman to join up with me, so we can fight that emptiness together.

Of course, talking like this, and feeling that way, is way exaggerated. Neither I nor you – the woman I look for – are really plagued with anything deserving to be called “emptiness”. We still have our life and (most of) the people who have surrounded us always. So how could we possibly feel empty?

But when two people like us no longer feel the erotic attraction our spouses used to give us, and how life had been transformed that way – totally – then a life without such attraction does in fact feel empty. That’s the trouble with two overly sensitive people like you and me; we need erotic attraction like others need air and water.

I am posting this ad today, because I hope to run into a woman like you. And then I hope for you and me beginning to do for one another what – a long long time ago – our spouses had done: lift your and my spirits every day, and fortify our erotic self-esteems. If that became possible one more time, my life and your life also, would become worth living again,

Not only for the reasons it is worth living for today, let’s not kid ourselves, such reasons do exist. But for the reasons we used to wake up for with joy and anticipation, when erotic attraction had not been lost yet.

 

[Bill478]

Hello

I am a divorced, mature male that has been in your current situation.

I'm not sure if there are a variety of strip clubs close by to where you live or might easily visit, but Had some success in meeting a few younger women in places like that to add a missing erotic dimension to my life at the time.

I'm not sure if just sex with a strange woman would be satisfying enough for you.

Perhaps you would enjoy an erotic relationship with an attractive young woman you could select out of a number of dancers working at a club.

You might find some needed satisfaction through a less physical, though very emotionally intense relationship with a sex worker.

That is what happened to me and I ended up falling in love with her, though it wasn't until years later that my marriage actually ended.

Not sure if any of that was any use to you, but your post made it sound like you were in a similar situation to my own about seven years ago.

Good Luck to you.

 

[MMM_wms]

Thanks for your advice, Bill B U T

It ain't going to work for me, what apparently worked for you.

I am afraid I cannot buy mutual affection and a mutual commitment to eliminating emptiness in our hearts. But thanks for your advice anyway.
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[Chasingdreams]

Bumping for your kind words. I hope you both find what you’re looking for.