Fighting over a man ....

[Aphrodisiac]

I was @ the park ... sitting with a friend. We were enjoying the warm weather... I was eating my hot cheetos * crunch crunch* when all of a sudden we heard some loud screams & all of a sudden a fight broke out between two women.

And I do mean women, they were not teenage girls or anything along those lines. Needless to say a crowd formed around them, my friend & I went over to take a look - the women were screaming some thing about a man ... telling one another " he is mine " and what not ... as they grabbed hands full of hair.

My friend and I began to walk away - we assume the fight finally got broken up ....

But as I am walking away eating my cheetos * crunch crunch* I wonder what sort of a woman would fight for a man. I mean it would be obvious this so called " man" was dating or what not these 2 women @ the same time.

I have always said ... I would not degrade myself and fight for a man.... I told my man what went on @ the park and he asked me if I would fight for him. After I stopped laughing I told him I would never ever fight for a man. I think his ego was a little bruised but I would not fight for a man ... regardless.

My question is ...

Ladies - would you fight for your man ?

Men - I guess this can also be applied to you .... would you fight for your woman ?

 

[koalabear]

Never been to a chat room huh?

 

[plasticman33]

Nah, too many fish in the sea! Why bother.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[RawHumor]

Related, but slightly off topic

Have you notice how often people tend to blame their lover's lover for the cheating, rather than blaming their lover?

It's pretty similar to what you're talking about.

The person who you're with owes you loyalty, not the rest of the world.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

i may begin to fight, but it would only be words.. if someone were to hit me within all of this, i would hit her back, but not because of the man, because she hit me. and no one is allowed to lay a hand on me (even in kindness) without my permission. i dont care who it is.

so i guess everyone watching would think we're fighting over the man, and my opponent may be, but i would be fighting over the fact the bitch hit me.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Never. I have too much dignity and pride for that.

How humiliating can you get?

 

[SexySlut2]

I would never fight for a man!There are too many out there to fight for one that has or is cheating on you.

 

[JazzManJim]

I've walked away from women before, I suppose I'd do it again.

 

[glamorilla]

You should see last call at the Roxy...

 

[bluemuse]

No way.....no how......

Any man that would allow two women to fight over him, isn't a MAN by my way of thinking.

If he wants to date more than one woman at a time, fine. As long as he let's the women know.....so that they can make an informed decision as to whether or not they want to get involved with him.

I would walk before I even raised my voice over ANY man.



bluemuse

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Yes, I have seen Jerry Springer and I have been in chat rooms... I am sure women fight over the men ....

I just don't see the point over fighting over a man ... I think its degrading and rather pathetic.

I mean to be fighting over a man who cheats on you - I mean how dumb is that , eh ?

 

[AzureAngel]

I would never fight for a woman in terms of trying to impress her more than another man.

If she's not impressed enough with who I am, then she's not right for me.

If she has so little respect for me that she'd want or expect me to fight... or be disappointed that I don't... she can screw off.

I deserve better than that.
RAAR.

 

[lobito]

Do I have to be the first to say - I'm a lover not a fighter?

I think that it will depend on whether you are married or not. I would, and will fight for my wife. I'd do whatever it takes/took to keep her. Is it fair to say that if you wouldn't, then you don't truly love your S.O.? I'd likely lose the fight, but I'd like to think that I'd still have my wife by my side.

 

[alexandraaah]

I would never fight for a woman in terms of trying to impress her more than another man.

If she's not impressed enough with who I am, then she's not right for me.

If she has so little respect for me that she'd want or expect me to fight... or be disappointed that I don't... she can screw off.

I deserve better than that.
RAAR.

Would you at least be willing to step into the ring with Lav?

 

[Wiggles]

No. It's degrading and ridiculous. If he wants me he'll be with me. There would be no other women to fight with for him. Most men are mature enough to choose their women for themselves.

How do these things work anyway? Do they want the tough bitch who pushed the other girls face into the cement? Or the one who was so delicate she got her ass pummeled?

The Only way I'd fight over a man is if a girl was trying to say nasty things about him. Or, if she was flirting with him after he had asked her to stop.

In my opinion, there are way too many good catches out there for me to be fighting over one guy who obviously couldn't keep his dick in his pants.

 

[KillerMuffin]

Hell yeah I'd fight over a man! I'd pretty much fight over anything and a man is as good an excuse as anything else.

Gawd, I love a good brawl. What a fuckin' rush.

 

[Lovepotion69]

i may begin to fight, but it would only be words.. if someone were to hit me within all of this, i would hit her back, but not because of the man, because she hit me. and no one is allowed to lay a hand on me (even in kindness) without my permission. i dont care who it is.

so i guess everyone watching would think we're fighting over the man, and my opponent may be, but i would be fighting over the fact the bitch hit me.

I agree with Willing. I'd probably fight with words if the woman really pissed me off, but I'd fight properly if she took to hands on violence first. If my man cheated I'd probably be more prone to hit him after finishing my verbal fight with her....

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

I was @ the park ... sitting with a friend. We were enjoying the warm weather... I was eating my hot cheetos * crunch crunch* when all of a sudden we heard some loud screams & all of a sudden a fight broke out between two women.

And I do mean women, they were not teenage girls or anything along those lines. Needless to say a crowd formed around them, my friend & I went over to take a look - the women were screaming some thing about a man ... telling one another " he is mine " and what not ... as they grabbed hands full of hair.

My friend and I began to walk away - we assume the fight finally got broken up ....

But as I am walking away eating my cheetos * crunch crunch* I wonder what sort of a woman would fight for a man. I mean it would be obvious this so called " man" was dating or what not these 2 women @ the same time.

I have always said ... I would not degrade myself and fight for a man.... I told my man what went on @ the park and he asked me if I would fight for him. After I stopped laughing I told him I would never ever fight for a man. I think his ego was a little bruised but I would not fight for a man ... regardless.

My question is ...

Ladies - would you fight for your man ?

Men - I guess this can also be applied to you .... would you fight for your woman ?

If I was to fight for a man...again..and I stress again I would make damn sure it was because I loved this person so much, that I couldn't face the day without them by my side. I am not the kind of person who does something because there is a challenge there or "to win." I've been with my SO for 11 years now...and for 5 of those years..there was a stuggle, with the ex..and others that fell inbetween. As I look back on it now... I have to laugh at my own mistakes and wonder what I was thinking...

 

[BustyTheClown]

I wouldn't have fought in the situation you described, Aphro. The man was "cheating" on both of them, and that was just a stupid, thick-headed, degrading thing for them to do.

However, if my SO was in any kind of physical danger, I would do my best to save him. Lol it would look pretty ridiculous since I'm 5'2" and he's 6'4" -- hell, I don't know if or when he'd ever need my help to save him -- but I think if anything was threatening his life, I'd certainly find the strength to fight for him against whatever it was.

 

[InnocentAngel81]

catfight

after all the stuff we have been through in the last year and a half, i would happy rip out the eyes of the next chick would start with me, especially that seadonkey that will remain namelss.(aww arent you proud of proud of me baby i didnt get violent when I mention that thing).

 

[Liontamr]

Depends what the situation is I think.. If it's obvious she has been seeing both and devoting herself to both, then I am more than happy to let them go.. But if it's a case of a man going too far to take a woman.. Then it's on!

I gotta agree with KM on one thing.. sometimes handing out a grade A ass kicking is so stress releiveing.. Maybe it would be worth to fight if you don't end up looking like a jackass yourself win or lose.

 

[DevilBoy79]

Re: catfight

after all the stuff we have been through in the last year and a half, i would happy rip out the eyes of the next chick would start with me, especially that seadonkey that will remain namelss.(aww arent you proud of proud of me baby i didnt get violent when I mention that thing).

yes mami i am very proud,

 

[Private Vasquez]

haha!! no. There's too many other men in the world to fight over one.

Unless it was one of those Westside Story fights...that mightcould be fun.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Hnmmmm


Not that I can comment on a man, but.


I'd fight for a woman, a woman I was in love with. But I wouldn't fight over a woman.