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Handley_Page
Draco interdum Vincit
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I take it her husband was an idiot.
and didn't think about having his cut ?
why didn't she leave him ?
[ OK, I'll get me coat. . . . ]
and didn't think about having his cut ?
why didn't she leave him ?
[ OK, I'll get me coat. . . . ]
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JAMESBJOHNSON
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HANDLEY
Logically speaking, whatever outcome you get is the meaning of whatever it was you did to get the outcome. I'm reading a new book about decisions making. People cannot possibly process all the information flooding their senses from one moment to the next, so we sample the stream every milli-second or so, and when we get enough data it triggers a feeling (mad sad glad afraid) and we act.
In psychotherapy what you do is cut the link between, say, glad and self-mutilation or maybe shooting yourself or getting drunk. You wanna wire glad to another outcome...like call a close friend or fix a banana-split or have a good cry.
Logically speaking, whatever outcome you get is the meaning of whatever it was you did to get the outcome. I'm reading a new book about decisions making. People cannot possibly process all the information flooding their senses from one moment to the next, so we sample the stream every milli-second or so, and when we get enough data it triggers a feeling (mad sad glad afraid) and we act.
In psychotherapy what you do is cut the link between, say, glad and self-mutilation or maybe shooting yourself or getting drunk. You wanna wire glad to another outcome...like call a close friend or fix a banana-split or have a good cry.
