Fickle?

[FurryFury]

Who do you think is more fickle Doms or subs?

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

*stirs the pot some more*

Fury

 

[Mr. Mann]

THOU ART NOT FALSE,
BUT THOU ART FICKLE

Thou are not false, but thou art fickle,

To those thyself so fondly sought:

The tears that thou hast forced to trickle

Are doubly bitter from that thought:

'Tis this which breaks the heart thou grievest,

Too well thou lov'st --- too soon thou leavest.


The wholly false the heart despises,

And spurns deceiver and deceit;

But she who not a thought disguises,

Whose love is as sincere as sweet, ---

When she can change who loved so truly,

It feels what mine has felt so newly.


To dream of joy and wake to sorrow

Is doom'd to all who love or live;

And if, when conscious on the morrow,

We scarce our Fancy can forgive,

That cheated us in slumber only,

To leave the waking soul more lonely,


What must they feel whom no false Vision,

But truest, tenderest passion warm'd ?

Sincere, but swift in sad transition;

As if a dream alone had charm'd ?

Ah ! sure such Grief is Fancy's scheming.

And all thy Change can be but dreaming !

- Lord Byron

 

[DVS]

Fickle? I don't see all Doms or subs as fickle. Oh, I do see some subs as fickle, and I'm sure there are some fickle Doms, too. I only know a few switches, and none of them seem fickle to me. But, that isn't a scientific assessment.

I don't think this trait follows any BDSM group so I chose "fickle this".
That also sounds suggestively sexy. If you could only see what I'm pointing to, when I say it.

 

[FurryFury]

THOU ART NOT FALSE,
BUT THOU ART FICKLE

Thou are not false, but thou art fickle,

To those thyself so fondly sought:

The tears that thou hast forced to trickle

Are doubly bitter from that thought:

'Tis this which breaks the heart thou grievest,

Too well thou lov'st --- too soon thou leavest.


The wholly false the heart despises,

And spurns deceiver and deceit;

But she who not a thought disguises,

Whose love is as sincere as sweet, ---

When she can change who loved so truly,

It feels what mine has felt so newly.


To dream of joy and wake to sorrow

Is doom'd to all who love or live;

And if, when conscious on the morrow,

We scarce our Fancy can forgive,

That cheated us in slumber only,

To leave the waking soul more lonely,


What must they feel whom no false Vision,

But truest, tenderest passion warm'd ?

Sincere, but swift in sad transition;

As if a dream alone had charm'd ?

Ah ! sure such Grief is Fancy's scheming.

And all thy Change can be but dreaming !

- Lord Byron

Lovely!

I found several fickle types that claimed to be subs too but from my experience it's been online Doms that have been the most fickle. Perhaps they are always looking for something new and usual much like nilla men and the next lay?

Seeing as I've never tried to be a Dom or a sub to a female (though I might like to do so) , I can't say one way or the other about them.

I rather dislike being played with and then cast aside or begged for a task and then the sub doesn't do the task.

Fury

Fickle? I don't see all Doms or subs as fickle. Oh, I do see some subs as fickle, and I'm sure there are some fickle Doms, too. I only know a few switches, and none of them seem fickle to me. But, that isn't a scientific assessment.

I don't think this trait follows any BDSM group so I chose "fickle this".
That also sounds suggestively sexy. If you could only see what I'm pointing to, when I say it.

Ah!

Some action finally! Thank the good Lord! Oh I think I can guess where you are pointing Sugah! *purrs*

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

lost? - why an I always so lost?????


WFT? was the from the FFF?




or I just don't know




I just don't know..

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I must have a fickled finger of fate as I have the pleasure of knowing personally a Dom who does the...come here, come here, go away, go away... thing to me on a monthly basis.

Now who's more fickle him for doing it or me for allowing it?

 

[FurryFury]

lost? - why an I always so lost?????


WFT? was the from the FFF?




or I just don't know




I just don't know..

I'm lost too because I don't understand your post darlin.

Fury

I must have a fickled finger of fate as I have the pleasure of knowing personally a Dom who does the...come here, come here, go away, go away... thing to me on a monthly basis.

Now who's more fickle him for doing it or me for allowing it?

He should be shot.

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

I'm lost too because I don't understand your post darlin.

Fury



He should be shot.

Fury

if I could I'd explain it but...


I just don't know



I just don't know

 

[FurryFury]

if I could I'd explain it but...


I just don't know



I just don't know

Sips wine and shakes head.

I'm not in the best mood tonight.

Peace be with you.

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

Sips wine and shakes head.

I'm not in the best mood tonight.

Peace be with you.

Fury

sorry - nor am I.

I just want to hang out with you all because I like it here, I enjoy most everyone. FF, we have had some fun.

I did not know what to say, but wanted to add something and thought this would be playful and light and funny thread so I just added something silly.

Sorry if I added to a bad day for you.

for you, friend.

 

[FurryFury]

sorry - nor am I.

I just want to hang out with you all because I like it here, I enjoy most everyone. FF, we have had some fun.

I did not know what to say, but wanted to add something and thought this would be playful and light and funny thread so I just added something silly.

Sorry if I added to a bad day for you.

for you, friend.

I hope you feel better soon! Fear not, you haven't done a thing to mar my day.

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

I hope you feel better soon! Fear not, you haven't done a thing to mar my day.

Fury

and hugs

 

[FurryFury]

and hugs

Thanks! I needed that!

Fury *hug*

 

[Netzach]

people can all be stupid and manipulative -- but boy subs have an especially annoying way of doing it.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Online Dominants.

Why?

Statistically speaking, depending on who's survey you want to believe, the reported ratio of sexual dominants varies from 1 dominant for every 5 submissives, to 1 for every 20.

At best that's 20% of the kinky population, at worst 5%. But online we consistently see a ratio approaching 1/1. Hmmmmmm.... ponder the math...

That means that online, anywhere from 80% to 95% of those claiming to be Dominants are, in fact, horney net geeks, posers, users, or predators, who figured out that claiming to be Dominant is a great way to get laid.

QED, online Dominants will be the most fickle group because most of them are not really Dominants.

Yours In Logical Kink,
- Geoff

 

[FurryFury]

people can all be stupid and manipulative -- but boy subs have an especially annoying way of doing it.

I believe this is true!

Fury

Online Dominants.

Why?

Statistically speaking, depending on who's survey you want to believe, the reported ratio of sexual dominants varies from 1 dominant for every 5 submissives, to 1 for every 20.

At best that's 20% of the kinky population, at worst 5%. But online we consistently see a ratio approaching 1/1. Hmmmmmm.... ponder the math...

That means that online, anywhere from 80% to 95% of those claiming to be Dominants are, in fact, horney net geeks, posers, users, or predators, who figured out that claiming to be Dominant is a great way to get laid.

QED, online Dominants will be the most fickle group because most of them are not really Dominants.

Yours In Logical Kink,
- Geoff

That too makes sense!

Fury

 

[raven2]

people can all be stupid and manipulative -- but boy subs have an especially annoying way of doing it.

I would have to take your word for it since i have never dealt with a male sub. I usually don't try to generalize because all people are different and I have certainly met enough women and men who are manipulative.

BTW, I voted for the fickle finger of fate because I always loved Laugh In.

 

[FurryFury]

I got told off today by a BDSM Guide potential candidate. I guess I'm just no fun at all.

Fury

 

[raven2]

I got told off today by a BDSM Guide potential candidate. I guess I'm just no fun at all.

Fury

That's not what I hear. *reaches for lube*

 

[FurryFury]

That's not what I hear. *reaches for lube*

Thank you but it must be true, I have no guide and anyone who ever played with me online went away, thus this thread.

Fury

 

[raven2]

Thank you but it must be true, I have no guide and anyone who ever played with me online went away, thus this thread.

Fury

Well, I won't go away.

 

[FurryFury]

Well, I won't go away.

*HUGS*

Fury

 

[DVS]

I got told off today by a BDSM Guide potential candidate. I guess I'm just no fun at all.

Fury

What or who the fuck is a BDSM Guide potential candidate? some pimply snot nose kid who's been jacking off to pictures of tied up women for all of his teen years? And, I suspect he thinks that makes him a verteran in BDSM.

OK, I'm confused. I've never even heard of a BDSM Guide. Is that like TV Guide or something?

 

[FurryFury]

What or who the fuck is a BDSM Guide potential candidate? some pimply snot nose kid who's been jacking off to pictures of tied up women for all of his teen years? And, I suspect he thinks that makes him a verteran in BDSM.

OK, I'm confused. I've never even heard of a BDSM Guide. Is that like TV Guide or something?

*chuckles*

I did a Personal Ad on Lit in the BDSM section for one. To me my online Dom was in fact more of a guide and quite wonderful. I want that back but I've about given up, perhaps trainer would be another good word?

Fury