Femme, bi, sub/pyl, in the SE US?

[MissJuliana]

If you are a bisexual lady interested in serving me & acting as my toy, you might be what I'm looking for.

I don't believe in a full list of "you must be this or that". Every submissives service is a precious gift to behold. However, there are some obvious "musts" here. You must be:
~ female
~ bisexual
~ willing to (over time) serve me in a r/l BDSM relationship
~ able to travel overnight (after we are acquainted)
~ over 18 & under 50

That is the bottom line. Everything else concerning you will be evaluated following your introduction. We will further discuss my interests and expectations one on one or through posts in this thread. Perhaps one woman might get me to answer a question that each of you may be curious know my response. You just never know.

That being said, here are some things about me to get you started. I am:
~ female
~ mid thirties, always pegged for under 30
~ lesbian identified bisexual
~ Domme to women only

I am an enigma. You will only come to know me after spending time (email, chat, phone, r/l) with me. Some of my positive qualities are that I am kind, fair, protective, firm, and patient. This relationship and serving me will come easy to you, if you are willing. Please realize that our friendship and bond will grow over time, this is not an "over-night fix".

Please excuse me if this seems a bit abrupt. It is not intended to show some sort of false front or power, only to provide a quick glance without the flowery words. Believe me when I say that I have put considerable thought into what I am looking for and do not take this lightly.

Finally, I reserve the right to change, edit, or alter any or all of this as necessary.

 

[MissJuliana]

Well, thank you for the messages ladies. I have been fortunate to meet some very special ladies. BUT... I'm still looking for the right one.

It had been my wish to have some banter within this thread. No, I didn't leave much room for response. Is that a good thing or a bad thing??

In the perfect world, which we all know this isn't, I would find a woman who lived fairly close. Close to where? *evil grin* Close to me. We'll discuss that one on one. Yes, close would be nice because I am not looking for a 24/7 arrangement. That said, I want someone who is my "regular". That sounds bad. I'm only looking for ONE, not many. How's that? It is my belief that trust comes with familiarity.

She would have a serious interest in the BDSM lifestyle, whether she is experienced or not. Hey, we all had to start somewhere. My training methods would be enjoyable for us both. As I previously stated, I'm fair but firm. My warmth, kindness, and patience aid in strengthening our bond. I would prefer to maintain a certain level of relationship, friendship, D/s or whatever, outside of weekend scenes, etc.

The special lady would have to be comfortable with me, obviously. I would prefer that she be comfortable with men as well. However, to start, it will be just us.

That's it for now. Guess I will elaborate more as time goes on.

 

[barebacknubianf]

If you are a bisexual lady interested in serving me & acting as my toy, you might be what I'm looking for.

I don't believe in a full list of "you must be this or that". Every submissives service is a precious gift to behold. However, there are some obvious "musts" here. You must be:
~ female
~ bisexual
~ willing to (over time) serve me in a r/l BDSM relationship
~ able to travel overnight (after we are acquainted)
~ over 18 & under 50

That is the bottom line. Everything else concerning you will be evaluated following your introduction. We will further discuss my interests and expectations one on one or through posts in this thread. Perhaps one woman might get me to answer a question that each of you may be curious know my response. You just never know.

That being said, here are some things about me to get you started. I am:
~ female
~ mid thirties, always pegged for under 30
~ lesbian identified bisexual
~ Domme to women only

I am an enigma. You will only come to know me after spending time (email, chat, phone, r/l) with me. Some of my positive qualities are that I am kind, fair, protective, firm, and patient. This relationship and serving me will come easy to you, if you are willing. Please realize that our friendship and bond will grow over time, this is not an "over-night fix".

Please excuse me if this seems a bit abrupt. It is not intended to show some sort of false front or power, only to provide a quick glance without the flowery words. Believe me when I say that I have put considerable thought into what I am looking for and do not take this lightly.

Finally, I reserve the right to change, edit, or alter any or all of this as necessary.

Unfortunately I don't quite fit the bill - if only due to distance. Why are there no women like you here in my neck of the woods??

 

[MissJuliana]

Unfortunately I don't quite fit the bill - if only due to distance. Why are there no women like you here in my neck of the woods??

Well, I do love to travel. There are so many exciting things on "your side of the world". I'll let you know when I may be headed your direction. Perhaps we might find some time to play.

Believe me, "we" are everywhere. Some of us just come out of the woodwork sporadically. Your Domme/Mistress IS out there. You must remember though, she will find you at her leisure.

While you are waiting, try this trick: pinch your nipples, giving them a good hard tug and a twist. Maybe your hardened nipples will help her find you! Best of luck.

 

[Cassandra_s]

What is a pyl?

 

[RawHumor]

What is a pyl?

pyl = pick your label

It refers to submissives, slaves, etc. It's a generic term to get out of such debates as "I'm not a slave, I'm a sub" or vice versa.

Similarly, PYL refers to Master/Mistress/Dominant...

 

[barebacknubianf]

Well, I do love to travel. There are so many exciting things on "your side of the world". I'll let you know when I may be headed your direction. Perhaps we might find some time to play.

Believe me, "we" are everywhere. Some of us just come out of the woodwork sporadically. Your Domme/Mistress IS out there. You must remember though, she will find you at her leisure.

While you are waiting, try this trick: pinch your nipples, giving them a good hard tug and a twist. Maybe your hardened nipples will help her find you! Best of luck.

I'm not so sure. I've met a fair few subbie j-girls, which is all very fun and exciting, but I've yet to find that woman out here who knows how to find my buttons...Maybe, as you say, she'll find me eventually.

Your trick hasn't worked yet, but it sure felt nice - as I'm sure you knew it would.

 

[MissJuliana]

pyl = pick your label

It refers to submissives, slaves, etc. It's a generic term to get out of such debates as "I'm not a slave, I'm a sub" or vice versa.

Similarly, PYL refers to Master/Mistress/Dominant...

Thanks for being so quick to respond. Maybe I could hire you to manage my affairs?? j/k

Yes, Cassandra, as RawHumor explained - just a generic term. When I do find "the one", I will give her a more clear description and how she will live up to her title. Based strictly on my personal preferences, of course.

Best of luck wading through this world of wonderful thrills! It's a friendly bunch, so never be afraid to ask questions.

 

[MissJuliana]

I'm not so sure. I've met a fair few subbie j-girls, which is all very fun and exciting, but I've yet to find that woman out here who knows how to find my buttons...Maybe, as you say, she'll find me eventually.

Your trick hasn't worked yet, but it sure felt nice - as I'm sure you knew it would.

Yes, you do need a woman to find and push your buttons. I believe that a whole new world will open up to you. Just be patient, it will be well worth the wait. I can almost guarantee it!

Sounds like you might be in need of something a bit different than simple play. Perhaps something a bit more real for you... An opportunity to be closer to the true you...

Many apologies regarding the nipple trick. Maybe you should practice some more. I'm a breast aficionado - all shapes and sizes. One of the most luscious, enjoyable parts of a woman, second only to her skin, of course. So easy to tease and torture, providing endless hours of entertainment. Yes, do keep practicing.

 

[barebacknubianf]

Yes, you do need a woman to find and push your buttons. I believe that a whole new world will open up to you. Just be patient, it will be well worth the wait. I can almost guarantee it!

Sounds like you might be in need of something a bit different than simple play. Perhaps something a bit more real for you... An opportunity to be closer to the true you...

Many apologies regarding the nipple trick. Maybe you should practice some more. I'm a breast aficionado - all shapes and sizes. One of the most luscious, enjoyable parts of a woman, second only to her skin, of course. So easy to tease and torture, providing endless hours of entertainment. Yes, do keep practicing.

I'm teasing them right now - practice makes perfect, after all. Pinching, and tugging...and twisting...

 

[RawHumor]

Thanks for being so quick to respond. Maybe I could hire you to manage my affairs?? j/k

You're welcome.

I'll gladly become your agent in exchange for pictures and/or video clips of any successful meetings.

 

[WriterDom]

While you are waiting, try this trick: pinch your nipples, giving them a good hard tug and a twist. Maybe your hardened nipples will help her find you! Best of luck.

The ol tug and twist technique.

Found any interested subs yet, MissJuliana?