Feminized by family

[Anguished_Amy]

I recently chatted with a guy who grew up with his mom and 2 older sisters. He said it started one afternoon after school his sisters were putting on makeup and did him too for fun. They told him what a pretty girl he would be. Pretty soon they were dressing him up including panties. He even grew his hair so they could give him different styles. His mom neither encouraged nor discouraged it and soon he had his own clothes and panties to wear, which the 3 off them took him shopping for. When he went to college he became a full time sissy and loves it and dates a hand full of guys on campus.
My question is is this common and would you share your experiences by post or PM.
Amy

 

[SissySalina]

Mother made sissy a dress at age 11, it was for a cub scout parade, little Bo Peep. That was the first time sissy ever wore anything female. It just felt so natural.

 

[Marty Fisher]

I recently chatted with a guy who grew up with his mom and 2 older sisters. He said it started one afternoon after school his sisters were putting on makeup and did him too for fun. They told him what a pretty girl he would be. Pretty soon they were dressing him up including panties. He even grew his hair so they could give him different styles. His mom neither encouraged nor discouraged it and soon he had his own clothes and panties to wear, which the 3 off them took him shopping for. When he went to college he became a full time sissy and loves it and dates a hand full of guys on campus.
My question is is this common and would you share your experiences by post or PM.
Amy

OMG! I LOVE this!!!

 

[Marty Fisher]

My Father used to "punish" us boys by "making" us dress in our older sister's dresses when we did something wrong. Little did he know that I REALLY enjoyed it!

 

[Anguished_Amy]

Mother made sissy a dress at age 11, it was for a cub scout parade, little Bo Peep. That was the first time sissy ever wore anything female. It just felt so natural.

So, Sissy, did mother encourage you after that? Did she make you more dresses, etc? My friend’s absolute turning point was when they put him in panties. He loved how pretty he was in makeup, and dresses but the day they dressed him in panties he refused to wear anything else.

 

[SissySalina]

So, Sissy, did mother encourage you after that? Did she make you more dresses, etc? My friend’s absolute turning point was when they put him in panties. He loved how pretty he was in makeup, and dresses but the day they dressed him in panties he refused to wear anything else.

No, mother never put sissy in any other dresses but she did tech sissy to cook, clean and she tried to teach sissy to sew but that part never took. It was the petticoat that she made for sissy that made sissy feel so good.
It was years before sissy did any more dressing but that was the start. sissy did steal her old stocking and wear them and while house sitting for a neighbor wore her bathing suite and some other clothing. she was a dominant woman.

 

[Marshill72]

I've known I had interests in other guys starting back in my early teen days. My dad died when I was four and that left me being raised by my Grandma, Mom, and two sisters. I've often wondered if that might've played a role in my curiosity. And my fem kinks of liking panties, acting slutty, and anal play. It used to bother me alot! I think I was just trying to rationalize how I was and used that as an excuse. These days I accept it and sometimes I just have to let that freak flag fly and have fun. Good thing is that my wife enjoys it and gets off on it.

 

[Phatfeet]

I recently chatted with a guy who grew up with his mom and 2 older sisters. He said it started one afternoon after school his sisters were putting on makeup and did him too for fun. They told him what a pretty girl he would be. Pretty soon they were dressing him up including panties. He even grew his hair so they could give him different styles. His mom neither encouraged nor discouraged it and soon he had his own clothes and panties to wear, which the 3 off them took him shopping for. When he went to college he became a full time sissy and loves it and dates a hand full of guys on campus.
My question is is this common and would you share your experiences by post or PM.
Amy

For me it semi-did.

While I had siblings that were allowed to dress up in Halloween Costumes of their typically corresponding gender, for whatever reason my mother thought it was funny to always dress me in elaborate, and convincing Halloween Customes that were female in nature. The first stockings I ever wore were black ones in being Little Red Riding Hood, but I have worn white ones in being Little Bo Peep, but also Cinderella, Snow White, Cruella, and Anne the orphan, but other female characters of movies too. It started as a little kid and went all the way into my teen years; my mother getting a kick out of the yearly odd family tradition.

My mother was competitive, and I think she liked the challenge of making her son be a girl and still win costume contests. But to win I could not speak because if I did, people would know I was a boy. It was hell because I often was around school mates who did not recognize me, but the second I spoke, they would, making life at school really hard had anyone ever found out. Often times they would insist "we can all take off our costumes" to eat, etc but I never could because then people would know my real gender. I never ate all the great Halloween food they had even though my siblings could because it would ruin my make-up too. I literally was just there for people to look at.

There were elaborate costumes though. Make-up, wigs, etc and the more slutty I looked, meaning shorter skirts with stockings and high heels as I grew in age, etc the more people would doubt that it was a boy within, so the worse it got for me. Secretly I think my mother got off on telling the adults at these parties that it was her son wearing the stuff I was forced to wear, but no adults ever let on that they knew.

All very, very traumatizing.

 

[rockynook]

My older sister raised me. She was very deep into Femdom. She began feminizing me at age 5. I LOVED IT!
This continued for 20 years later. At a party,she introduced me to my wife.

 

[liqueur]

Even though “feminization”, as a kink is not something I'm much interested in — at least certainly not since porn got its claws into it and exploited it — this particular peculiar niche, as lived experience, is something that's always intrigued me. I'd love to hear more personal experiences with it.

 

[wifes_fag]

We lived on a farm about 5 miles north of a little town. When I was growing up I didn't have any friends to play with until I started to school at age 6. I had an older sister that graduated just before I started to school so a lot her clothes were there. We weren't dirt poor but we sure wasn't wealthy. Daddy had cattle and raised hay etc and paid for the place. He worked odd jobs for extra money. We had our own beef, pork chickens and a big garden area. We had plenty of good stuff to eat but recycled and used stuff where we could. When I was growing up I wore my sisters clothes until I started to school. I didn't even know it until much later. I don't remember much before age 4 but I do remember wearing her dresses and shorts after that. Whatever I had on was what I wore if we went somewhere. I remember going to my uncles place in a dress. And I remember going to the grocery store with mom and going by and seeing my dads mom in town in a dress. I guess it was no big thing because I don't remember anybody saying anything. But I distinctly remember the skirt on my legs. When I started to school I got new blue jeans and shirts. But i would take them off when I got home and change into some of her shorts or something.

 

[liqueur]

@wifes_fag — Fascinating I grew up under very similar circumstances, but instead of me wearing my sister's hand-me-downs, my sister wore my older brother’s. I don't ever remember seeing my sister in dresses except for school, or to visit my grandmother. Myself, with my gender “differences,” I was more of a tomboy than a boy. But nobody understood that, and whatever it was that they did understand, they didn't like.

Still, I often fantasize about a different life with a different mom, and more dominant older sisters, feminizing me for fun. And more.

So, I sense just from your username that this upbringing had a profound effect on your adult life. Would you care to share? PM is fine, if you prefer that.

 

[Baddad2004]

Mom used to have my sister and I share underwear… it was her underwear… I was told it was the same thing as whitey tighties. This went on until middle school when we had to change for PE

 

[NCMaleMan74]

Mom used to have my sister and I share underwear… it was her underwear… I was told it was the same thing as whitey tighties. This went on until middle school when we had to change for PE

Kinda hot.

 

[Baddad2004]

Kinda hot.

Probably why it’s my little fetish now

 

[liqueur]

Mom used to have my sister and I share underwear… it was her underwear… I was told it was the same thing as whitey tighties. This went on until middle school when we had to change for PE

I want to ask all the inappropriate but predictable questions, like, “did she wear it first, and then you?” and “did you and she continue sharing on non-gym days?” But I know those are just stereotype fantasies.

 

[BillyWalrus]

We lived on a farm about 5 miles north of a little town. When I was growing up I didn't have any friends to play with until I started to school at age 6. I had an older sister that graduated just before I started to school so a lot her clothes were there. We weren't dirt poor but we sure wasn't wealthy. Daddy had cattle and raised hay etc and paid for the place. He worked odd jobs for extra money. We had our own beef, pork chickens and a big garden area. We had plenty of good stuff to eat but recycled and used stuff where we could. When I was growing up I wore my sisters clothes until I started to school. I didn't even know it until much later. I don't remember much before age 4 but I do remember wearing her dresses and shorts after that. Whatever I had on was what I wore if we went somewhere. I remember going to my uncles place in a dress. And I remember going to the grocery store with mom and going by and seeing my dads mom in town in a dress. I guess it was no big thing because I don't remember anybody saying anything. But I distinctly remember the skirt on my legs. When I started to school I got new blue jeans and shirts. But i would take them off when I got home and change into some of her shorts or something.

That's a fascinating story!

 

[SomaSlave]

For those who experienced this sort of feminization growing up, I’m curious: what happened when you started going to school? When I was growing up, things would not have gone well at all for boys wearing girls’ clothing to school. Of course, girls in jeans and other “male” pants was fine (assuming the dress code allowed it). Ah, for the good old days of tomboys.

 

[liqueur]

I’m curious: what happened when you started going to school? When I was growing up, things would not have gone well at all for boys wearing girls’ clothing to school.

My curiosity is similar. Boys wearing girls’ clothing in school would have been very unsafe when I was that age, except for one thing— it simply would not have been permitted. A girl wearing pants in school (any pants, not just ‘boys’ pants) would likely have received detention; a boy wearing girls’ clothing would have been sent home immediately, and quite possibly have been suspended.

But what about at home? Would the boy have changed into girl's clothing when he got home from school? I've read many stories* about this sort of thing, but no accounts of real-life experiences. That's what I'm hoping to find here.

*(Vickie Tern’s stories are some of the best, if you hunger for them. She used to have her own website. I can no longer find it, but some of her stories are still available on other sites.)

 

[liqueur]

I had an aunt who was the “black sheep” of my family. She called me by the feminine version of my name, and I remember at least one occasion when she played games with us in which I— enthusiastically— played the role of a girl. She would have taken it much further than that if my father hadn't put his foot down.

(“put his foot down”— what a curious phrase. As of he were god, crushing the abomination my budding femininity under his foot.)

 

[wifes_fag]

My curiosity is similar. Boys wearing girls’ clothing in school would have been very unsafe when I was that age, except for one thing— it simply would not have been permitted. A girl wearing pants in school (any pants, not just ‘boys’ pants) would likely have received detention; a boy wearing girls’ clothing would have been sent home immediately, and quite possibly have been suspended.

But what about at home? Would the boy have changed into girl's clothing when he got home from school. I've read many stories* about this sort of thing, but no accounts of real-life experiences. That's what I'm hoping to find here.

*(Vickie Tern’s stories are some of the best, if you hunger for them. She used to have her own website. I can no longer find it, but some of her stories are still available on other sites.)

I didn't wear any girls clothes to school. Mom bought me new blue jeans and shirts when I started to school at age 6. It was kind of a detuning. I could wear anything at home and at first I had to take my good school clothes off and change into something else usually shorts. Sometimes it was a sundress. I don't remember mom ever taking me anywhere in a dress anymore though. Later on I wish she had.

 

[liqueur]

I could wear anything at home and at first I had to take my good school clothes off and change into something else usually shorts. Sometimes it was a sundress.

What about when friends came to play? (I'd have loved to have been your playmate)

 

[wifes_fag]

We lived 5 miles out in the country and my nearest neighbor was a boy in my class a mile away. He WAS the first boy I ever sucked when I was about 10

 

[liqueur]

We lived 5 miles out in the country and my nearest neighbor was a boy in my class a mile away. He WAS the first boy I ever sucked when I was about 10

Again, that similar thread. On our farm, the nearest neighbors were a half-mile away. But they had no children.

Would you tell us details about that first encounter (and whether your femininity had anything to do with it)? Again, private message is fine if you'd prefer that.

 

[wifes_fag]

Again, that similar thread. On our farm, the nearest neighbors were a half-mile away. But they had no children.

Would you tell us details about that first encounter (and whether your femininity had anything to do with it)? Again, private message is fine if you'd prefer that.

He got to riding his bike over some. He asked me if I ever jacked off. I said well yeah.. He suggested we try jacking each other off. I said hell yeah. It felt so good him touching and holding my cock. His felt good too. I just leaned over and started sucking his cock. He sucked mine. God it felt good. We started doing it a lot. He brought a little tube of lotion and said he was going to fuck me. I bent over and let him.