Feminization

[Shadowsdream]

This journey begins in the mind as silk panties caress a cock unfamiliar with the sensation. A new kind of sweet torment is born in lingerie purchased at Victoria Secrets. Each movement of the body is a distraction that cannot be denied as garters gently bite into thighs unaccustomed to finery. In the back of his mind is the possibility of being caught in such a fashion...he is half fearful and half elated..it is part of the fantasy. I will take him to the edge of that possibility from time to time for it pleases Me to view his discomfort and it increases his pleasure in an abstract way.

A new conversation begins!

 

[SpectreT]

My own "Mileage" on this one......

"Feminization" is kind of like a pair of magnets with the same poles being pressed towards each other. There's the resistance; the thought of "God, what if she thinks I'm ridiculous, silly or foolish? Can she lose her respect for, and interest in, me? What if she wants me to go out and buy my own clothes, in public? That's going to slam right into my public humiliation hard limit, and then...."

Then one of the magnets, under too much strain, and with a simple solution, spins and the opposite poles slam together, hard. Feminine attire feels so erotic, its feel and apperance are hard to resist for any length of time. The concerns don't vanish, the apprehension is still there, it's just not a barrier to enjoying the moment any longer.

Mind you, I'm the type of guy who has to ride a roller coaster six times before I "get loose" and really enjoy it. I'm analyzing the experience too hard the first few times; I'm like that in a lot of things.

 

[Lancecastor]

" I used to think that coke, came in a bottle or can; silk underwear, wasn't right on a man...."

Downtown Came Uptown, For You- David Wilcox

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: My own "Mileage" on this one......

"Feminization" is kind of like a pair of magnets with the same poles being pressed towards each other. There's the resistance; the thought of "God, what if she thinks I'm ridiculous, silly or foolish? Can she lose her respect for, and interest in, me? What if she wants me to go out and buy my own clothes, in public? That's going to slam right into my public humiliation hard limit, and then...."

Then one of the magnets, under too much strain, and with a simple solution, spins and the opposite poles slam together, hard. Feminine attire feels so erotic, its feel and apperance are hard to resist for any length of time. The concerns don't vanish, the apprehension is still there, it's just not a barrier to enjoying the moment any longer.

Mind you, I'm the type of guy who has to ride a roller coaster six times before I "get loose" and really enjoy it. I'm analyzing the experience too hard the first few times; I'm like that in a lot of things.

~

I believe it is a polar experience...doubts highlighted by hope...fear by bravery...dreams by nightmares. Yet it is simply another extension of sexuality that one should not deny themselves access to the experience of.

The apprehension is a portion of the erotica, the trepidation and uncertainty act as a catalyst to put your trust in the hands of the one that understands and apparently appreciates your bravery.

Sexuality often tests borders of societies norm but isn't that waht has drawn us to the darker side?

Thank you Spectre T for joining in this new conversation so openly with your own twists and turns so uniquely stated.

 

[Shadowsdream]

" I used to think that coke, came in a bottle or can; silk underwear, wasn't right on a man...."

Downtown Came Uptown, For You- David Wilcox

and what do you think now...

 

[Hecate]

Arrrghhh - damn you Shadowsdream!

Another totally dangerously freudian slip loaded topic for me - and you are aware that there is no way now to NOT get my opinion on that, right?!

Just that this time it will have to be later - if I manage to get my wicked little mind back on track for business that is!

I'll try very hard to now no get lost in pleasant day dreams of masculine muscular legs encased in silky shining nylons ... the desperate attempts to seem disgusted by this forced act against male dignity while the erect cock simply refuses to fit into the tiny patch of satin and lace that I decided to be the panties of choice, betraying all secret desires so clearly!

Oh gosh woman - I really should know better by now thn to pop in here over lunch break!

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: Arrrghhh - damn you Shadowsdream!

Another totally dangerously freudian slip loaded topic for me - and you are aware that there is no way now to NOT get my opinion on that, right?!

Just that this time it will have to be later - if I manage to get my wicked little mind back on track for business that is!

I'll try very hard to now no get lost in pleasant day dreams of masculine muscular legs encased in silky shining nylons ... the desperate attempts to seem disgusted by this forced act against male dignity while the erect cock simply refuses to fit into the tiny patch of satin and lace that I decided to be the panties of choice, betraying all secret desires so clearly!

Oh gosh woman - I really should know better by now thn to pop in here over lunch break!

~~~grin~~~hej nu!

I am always looking for a new way to tempt Your evilness..and I do expend a great deal of brain power to find new intriguing topics to tempt You from Your lunch.

 

[Lancecastor]

and what do you think now...

My manhood is secure enough to appreciate the sensation of the material... when it's properly tailored.

;-)

 

[Shadowsdream]

My manhood is secure enough to appreciate the sensation of the material... when it's properly tailored.

;-)

What a lovely response Lance...security is such a powerful word that can speak volumes of understanding oneself and others.

 

[Lancecastor]

What a lovely response Lance...security is such a powerful word that can speak volumes of understanding oneself and others.

Thanks, SD...I think that knowing one's limits and simultaneously being able to laugh at them is a reasonably balanced place to be.

 

[Hecate]

My manhood is secure enough to appreciate the sensation of the material... when it's properly tailored.

;-)

in short: silk boxers?

 

[Dr. B Evil]

Stockings...

...oh the feel on a pair of freshly shaven legs!

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: Stockings...

...oh the feel on a pair of freshly shaven legs!

sensual..sexual..slutty...provocative?

 

[Dr. B Evil]

Not to mention...

...alluring, arousing, inviting, ...and indeed- truly provacative!

Nice call Shadow! There is a whole host of feelings that I get when I slip them on. To just feel the air against them is highly arousing. Even thinking about it is exciting.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: Not to mention...

...alluring, arousing, inviting, ...and indeed- truly provacative!

Nice call Shadow! There is a whole host of feelings that I get when I slip them on. To just feel the air against them is highly arousing. Even thinking about it is exciting.

Well said..even the question causes a stir of anticipation and arousal would be My guess.

The erotic sensations can begin even before the silk touches the skin.

 

[Dr. B Evil]

Ahhhhhh...

...the power of milk, err I mean Mind, the power of the mind!

 

[Dr. B Evil]

Seriously, ...

...the anticipation of the moment is highly provacative as well. One's mind remembers the exotic sensuality of a moment forever treasured. Then the anticipation grows, the desire to relive the feeling builds, heightened by pleasurable memories. Ahh yes, what a pair of $10 hose can do to a person!

 

["angel" eve]

never been partial to the idea

since i was young i've had fantasies of being a boy, they've been essentially non-sexual ( i was too young), but guys in girls clothes doesn't much appeal personally.

i'd consider it, same as i roleplay a male sometimes, but it isn't on my list of "sexy things"

 

[Ebonyfire]

My take

Both sissy and bitchboy indure feminization. both find it extremely erotic, hence the wet front of their panties almost immediately upon donning them.

I enjoy stripping their masculine arrogance down to the basics. Basics being the need to serve Me at all costs.

How can they do this? First of all respect and care are not even an issue. They would not be Mine if I did not care or respect who they are as men and human beings.

They do it because they need to. They know it pleases me and it enhances the feelings of submission they have in doing so.

Eb

 

[zipman]

I remember...

being young and trying on a pair of my girlfriends panties when she was out running an errand. I put them on - they felt nice - and then I went to look at myself in the mirror

First - then then

They made me feel very ugly and unattractive!! More than I had ever felt up to that point and I don't think I have ever felt that unattractive since. I took them off immediately (almost ripped them off) and have never done it again.

Like many things, it was one of those occurances in life that helps shape our sexuality. That "kink" just wasn't for me. To me, the turn-off wasn't about feminization, it was about beauty, and my glaring lack of it in those panties.

Now put me in a pair of boxers...and I look like an average guy in a pair of boxers, but I "feel" sexy!

Zip - Just sharing a piece of me

 

[Hecate]

Mhhhhh - I told you I would be back ...

*s* I warned you, so don't complain now!

I remember fondly the first time I saw a cock twitch as I rubbed my satin panties against it - as I masturbated him with my panties wrapped around his cock.

And then the first time I told him I thought he would be looking cute in them himself *g* and his disbelief about what I was hinting at....

... and then the first time I had nicely wrapped up his first OWN pantyhose (as opposed to one of mine) - handed over in a filled restaurant *g* watching all those lovely emotions displayed as he unwrapped it ...


What is it that makes it so attractive to me?

I do think it is not only the cross dressing itself that I like about it - though there is such a sexy feel about a nylon-encased leg that is enticing all by itself. For me it is more the thrill of knowing I am pushing a boundary he might not have crossed himself, that I am giving him the chance for an expereince that is forbidden, kinky, humiliationg - but I give him the freedom to experience that without fear of loosing my respect for him - and knowing it will be our safe little "secret", so he is free to savour that mix of emotion, thrill and arousal to the fullest without worries - becasue in the "worst of cases" he can always resort to the "I didn't want to but I had to" excuse.

And it gives me that rush of power that it is within my ability to make him do things he never thought he would - and even learns to enjoy them.

And feminization is a lovely way of "secure" public humiliation ... sending him to buy his own pantyhose or underwear - innocent and not publicly dangerous as far as reputation goes ... but he will KNOW what it is about, feeling that tingle of embarrassment and excitement alike.

And there is just something - inexplicable - about a male rear flashing from underneath a French Maid's outfit

 

[Sandia]

Re: Re: My own "Mileage" on this one......

~

I believe it is a polar experience...doubts highlighted by hope...fear by bravery...dreams by nightmares. Yet it is simply another extension of sexuality that one should not deny themselves access to the experience of.

The apprehension is a portion of the erotica, the trepidation and uncertainty act as a catalyst to put your trust in the hands of the one that understands and apparently appreciates your bravery.

Sexuality often tests borders of societies norm but isn't that waht has drawn us to the darker side?

Thank you Spectre T for joining in this new conversation so openly with your own twists and turns so uniquely stated.

The polarities represent a good image, T. There's a spark.. a friction.. a tension.. in really good sex..

I resent the "normalization" of sex sometimes.. it kills the kinky thrill.

 

[SexyChele]

I'm finding this thread so interesting to read! (Well, as well as arousing, so what can I say?)

What I'm finding truly interesting is the idea that men would need to be coerced into wearing women's panties or other intimates. My first Dom, during play, would sometimes don a pair of my panties. He simply liked the way they felt against his skin. And I have to admit, I loved the way he felt in them!

He also had a pantyhose fetish - he used to keep me fully stocked with him so I could always have plenty to put on when he wanted to play. I never understood the fetish, and discussed it with him. One night, unexpectedly, he came out of the bathroom wearing his own pantyhose. I got to feel the sensation of his body wrapped in nylon - and I have to admit that it was intoxicating!

And to anyone who might be wondering, no, he was not a switch. He was fully Dom. And fully exciting!

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Mhhhhh - I told you I would be back ...

And there is just something - inexplicable - about a male rear flashing from underneath a French Maid's outfit

Ain't that the truth?

I am thinking of getting sissy a new outfit: a tight red dress for Christmas.

Eb

 

[Hecate]

Re: Re: Mhhhhh - I told you I would be back ...

Ain't that the truth?

I am thinking of getting sissy a new outfit: a tight red dress for Christmas.

Eb

Oh nice - or maybe get one with a little swinging skirt-part and then with a cute white fur trim ... I love those *s* and then add little white fur fluffy bits for the wrists and as a "collar" replacement - that is soooooo cute for X-mas!