amorouscanuck
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Oct 26, 2014
- Posts
- 160
Hi Literoticonians 
I'm new to this forum, but I'm excited to join and hope to become a part of your community. I'm 42 and married and interested in conversation about healthy yet adventurous sexuality that is safe, sane, consensual, and transcendental.
My pressing reason for joining relates to my inability so far to nail down a community or genre if you will for the type of erotic expression and experience that most exhilarates me. I've used Femdom lite as the title because that sort of describes what I'm getting at. I'm not especially interested in the full Domme/slave type of relationship (though I have had a lot of fun playing with a Dominatrix I know in the past), but more of a willing servant to a benevolent mistress. I don't necessarily enjoy pain and humiliation, but serving a strong, powerful, dominant woman is intensely erotic for me. In general, I tend to be attracted to more confident independent women with strong personalities. I think the most erotic thing for me is the pleasure and climax of my lover, and there's something about be told what to do that enhances the experience for me. But I lose a bit of the buzz when it crosses over into humiliation or belittling.
At any rate, I find it hard to find porn or erotica that expresses this subtlety. It's easy to find "pure" BDSM and of course traditional male focussed stuff, but I'm hoping that you good people might be able to enlighten me on topic.
Thanks, and I'm glad to be here.
I'm new to this forum, but I'm excited to join and hope to become a part of your community. I'm 42 and married and interested in conversation about healthy yet adventurous sexuality that is safe, sane, consensual, and transcendental.
My pressing reason for joining relates to my inability so far to nail down a community or genre if you will for the type of erotic expression and experience that most exhilarates me. I've used Femdom lite as the title because that sort of describes what I'm getting at. I'm not especially interested in the full Domme/slave type of relationship (though I have had a lot of fun playing with a Dominatrix I know in the past), but more of a willing servant to a benevolent mistress. I don't necessarily enjoy pain and humiliation, but serving a strong, powerful, dominant woman is intensely erotic for me. In general, I tend to be attracted to more confident independent women with strong personalities. I think the most erotic thing for me is the pleasure and climax of my lover, and there's something about be told what to do that enhances the experience for me. But I lose a bit of the buzz when it crosses over into humiliation or belittling.
At any rate, I find it hard to find porn or erotica that expresses this subtlety. It's easy to find "pure" BDSM and of course traditional male focussed stuff, but I'm hoping that you good people might be able to enlighten me on topic.
Thanks, and I'm glad to be here.
