Fidelisani
Experienced
- Joined
- Nov 15, 2010
- Posts
- 81
Hi all.
The relationships I've had with My submissives have been a huge part of my life. I am married (very happily) to the only man I'll ever need, and I love him dearly. But there is an intimacy, a level of emotion and energy, that can only be explored between women. That's the feeling I crave, and I've found that I need it to be complete. While I'm with a woman, my goal is for both of us to have more confidence and feel more complete...and give each other relief.
"So how are you Domme, Ani?"
I have to be in control sexually; I can't give it up. I am also much more of a giver than a receiver -- meaning I prefer to be the one doing the "work" during sex (to the point of tying up my partner if she keeps trying to interfere with what I want to do). Of course I enjoy a woman who can give as good as she gets, but most of my pleasure comes from giving pleasure to her. I also have high expectations when it comes to respect -- I do not tolerate a lack of it. And I give respect in return -- I'm not one to make you feel like dirt. (Make you feel like a dirty slut? oh yeah.)
I love the talk. I love hearing a woman beg and making her ask me nicely for things. I love calling my companion My slut, My pet, My good little girl.
I love providing protection. I listen and encourage; I joke and cry about every part of life with my submissives. I love feeling a woman virtually "cuddle up" to Me and feel safe with My arms around her.
Think you're looking for a male Dom? There are some great ones that can provide a plethora of variations along the BDSM spectrum. Me -- I'm the caring, protective Domme (female) who wants to play with your body and then kiss your forehead and tell you you've been good. If that's the type of dominant you're looking for, and if you've ever thought the idea of sucking a woman's nipples and/or tasting her pussy was a turn-on, then you and I might get along quite well.
Eliminators:
I don't lend out. I have one sub at a time; no more.
You have one dominant at a time (me); no more. RL vanilla partner is just peachy.
That said -- No significant other involvement.
I don't do water sports or scat. Gross.
Dishonesty will get you kicked out my door faster than any other quality.
Outside of appropriate sexual context, I don't care for foul language.
If all you want is to get off...... look elsewhere. I'm more than that.
Most straightforward one: No Males.
There are of course lots more as I'm pretty particular about who I take on as a submissive. But they vary a lot, and sometimes the positives can outweigh the negatives in a relationship.
Hope to hear from some curious women soon.
The relationships I've had with My submissives have been a huge part of my life. I am married (very happily) to the only man I'll ever need, and I love him dearly. But there is an intimacy, a level of emotion and energy, that can only be explored between women. That's the feeling I crave, and I've found that I need it to be complete. While I'm with a woman, my goal is for both of us to have more confidence and feel more complete...and give each other relief.
"So how are you Domme, Ani?"
I have to be in control sexually; I can't give it up. I am also much more of a giver than a receiver -- meaning I prefer to be the one doing the "work" during sex (to the point of tying up my partner if she keeps trying to interfere with what I want to do). Of course I enjoy a woman who can give as good as she gets, but most of my pleasure comes from giving pleasure to her. I also have high expectations when it comes to respect -- I do not tolerate a lack of it. And I give respect in return -- I'm not one to make you feel like dirt. (Make you feel like a dirty slut? oh yeah.)
I love the talk. I love hearing a woman beg and making her ask me nicely for things. I love calling my companion My slut, My pet, My good little girl.
I love providing protection. I listen and encourage; I joke and cry about every part of life with my submissives. I love feeling a woman virtually "cuddle up" to Me and feel safe with My arms around her.
Think you're looking for a male Dom? There are some great ones that can provide a plethora of variations along the BDSM spectrum. Me -- I'm the caring, protective Domme (female) who wants to play with your body and then kiss your forehead and tell you you've been good. If that's the type of dominant you're looking for, and if you've ever thought the idea of sucking a woman's nipples and/or tasting her pussy was a turn-on, then you and I might get along quite well.
Eliminators:
I don't lend out. I have one sub at a time; no more.
You have one dominant at a time (me); no more. RL vanilla partner is just peachy.
That said -- No significant other involvement.
I don't do water sports or scat. Gross.
Dishonesty will get you kicked out my door faster than any other quality.
Outside of appropriate sexual context, I don't care for foul language.
If all you want is to get off...... look elsewhere. I'm more than that.
Most straightforward one: No Males.
There are of course lots more as I'm pretty particular about who I take on as a submissive. But they vary a lot, and sometimes the positives can outweigh the negatives in a relationship.
Hope to hear from some curious women soon.
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