Female "wet" dreams, Oh la la!

[Guest]

At Tolyk’s suggestion I’m starting this thread. In SummerAM’s thread on quitting prunes, the subject arose and T. thought it should not be kept hidden from the AH at large.

Re. wet dreams I said to Vellala, I've had them as far back as I can recall to my teens. I've cum in my dreams unbelievably at times. And when I wake from it I just keep going.

V. responded “teach me sensai” and I riposted: Can't. I never know what prompts them, and however much I try I can't conjure them. Always a surprise. Sometimes when I wake, when my partner's been the right person, I'm so disappointed it was just a dream. If someone could program these for us they'd be fucking (pun intended) filthy (ditto) rich.

Having read other femme’s posts, I want to add that for me, also, some of the orgasms I’ve had in dreams have yet to be matched in real life. After having told that to two too many blokes I stopped (you might guess why).

The other things about my wet dreams is that they seem to last an amazingly long time. In RL, depending on my mood and need, I can come in a few minutes, but in a dream I’m not in control (seemingly) and the pleasure and climax is always long and just this side of painful. I think women will know what I mean when I mention that core feeling, the very inner depth of the orgasm, the millisecond before the eruption. In a dream it is incredibly prolonged for me. Sometimes I don’t orgasm, very very disappointing as I awake just at the point before I should climax. But when I do come it lasts an eternity, like things do in dreams.

Ok, let’s hear from more women, or men who’ve known of this from their gals.

Perdita

 

[tolyk]

*applauds*

Great work in starting with a knowledgable first post Perdita, for a great topic.

As I had said in Summers thread, during times when my ex and I were apart (but not an ex at the time ) she experienced such dreams and would always proceed to tell me about them of course. We are still in good communication about such things, and I like such research, so I'm going to try to help "get to the bottom" of controlling a woman's wet dreams. So to say. It seems a common problem for most that did know about it, to wake up right before orgasm, and honestly, that is definately a problem

So, when I have learned more, I'll be back with a more informed post, but until then, bravo.

 

[angela146]

...some of the orgasms I’ve had in dreams have yet to be matched in real life. ...

The other things about my wet dreams is that they seem to last an amazingly long time. ... in a dream I’m not in control (seemingly) and the pleasure and climax is always long and just this side of painful. I think women will know what I mean when I mention that core feeling, the very inner depth of the orgasm, the millisecond before the eruption. In a dream it is incredibly prolonged for me.

As far as I can remember, I have only orgasmed once in a dream.

However, I do have not-in-control just-this-side-of-painful orgasms. Sometimes I can get there myself but usually my husband is the one to take me there (having him do it to me gives me the not-in-control part which is critical for me).

Of course, my lack of wet dreams might be due to the fact that I masturbate daily, usually twice a day. Do women (and men) who have wet dreams masturbate regularly? Are the wet dreams brought on by unrelieved sexual tension?

 

[The_old_man]

I have been having wet dreams since puberty, usually awakening just prior to ejaculation. In all cases of dream sex, I awake with a full Baldder erection, even on those rare occasions that ejaculation has taken place.

Sexual tension does not seem to be the trigger as They often follow very satisfactory encounters with my wife. I have come (no pun) to the conclusion that a full bladder is one requirement for them. What the other requirements are, I do not know.

My wife has recounted having several of them. usually involving cunnilingus. She claims that they always occur after emptying her bladder.

Most often we both have dreams of being frustrated in a search for a functioning toilet when bladders are full.

 

[angela146]

Sexual tension does not seem to be the trigger as They often follow very satisfactory encounters with my wife.

Hmmm... I wonder what the key is...

Actually, one question: if my husband fondles me while I'm asleep and I have sexy dreams as he's doing it, that doesn't count does it? I assume we're talking about wet dreams that aren't induced by external forces.

 

[Guest]

oh P.. you did the 'vella-la' and its making me smile even before 6am..
since that discussion, i have not had any wet dreams.. moist but not wet.
i do believe that its totally due to the fact that i have been in controll of my body for a while. whati mean is that i have been taking matters into my own hands... and have been satisfied as much as possible without a partner...*sigh*
if i watch an erotic flick before bed and i don't masterbate, i know that i will have them. but other wise, its the luck of the draw...

 

[CharleyH]

V. responded “teach me sensai” and I riposted: Can't. I never know what prompts them, and however much I try I can't conjure them. Always a surprise. Sometimes when I wake, when my partner's been the right person, I'm so disappointed it was just a dream. If someone could program these for us they'd be fucking (pun intended) filthy (ditto) rich.

Having read other femme’s posts, I want to add that for me, also, some of the orgasms I’ve had in dreams have yet to be matched in real life. After having told that to two too many blokes I stopped (you might guess why).

Perdita

P. You really must stop telling your lover's that your dreams give you better orgasms than they do!

Interesting post, but quite frankly I don't ever recall having a dream where I have orgasmed, or where I have awakened to one. When recalling dreams, they are exceptionally vivid in sound, colour, smell, and while I have had sex dreams, in fact just the other day Linda Evagelista and I were in a hotel room, I neither woke wet, nor particularly horny.

On the other hand, I do have exceptionally strong emotions when I dream. This sounds rather odd, but I would say emotions surrounding 'love' that are as powerful as you describe, and to which in reality, I have only ever felt maybe once or twice, and not nearly long enough.

Your post has definately given me something to think on. Perhaps the intensity of any feeling, whether be orgasm, or passion, or love etc. in a dream is what we lack consciously, or further, what we are to afraid to experience in reality because of the lack of control that it exemplifies?

Just a thought

Thanks for the post

 

[Guest]

Charlus, you triggered something in me (no, not that ). Yes, emotions in my dreams can be more intense than in RL. For me, expressing anger has always been difficult (I do it better in writing than in speaking face to face). In some dreams I have let it out, frankly frighteningly. I recall great relief when awaking. P.