Female Trans - New Intense Attraction. Gay, Straight, Bi?

EdgeMark567

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I recently discovered I have a strong attraction to female trans women. I identity as a hetero guy, love a women's body but also appreciate a man's body that's in good shape - love hard bodies both men and women. I had a few threesomes in college with my best friend and our girlfriends. I think the fact we used to jack each other off and only once did we give each other a BJ added to my appreciation of a hard cock. Never kissed a man and that's not something I want to do. I became curious about a female trans body, tits, great ass, and with a cock. I did some searching online and found some incredibly beautify trans women with amazing bodies and cocks. I immediately was turned on and started fantasizing about being with one of these women. The thought of exploring their body was incredibly erotic. On the flip side, I completely love sex with my wife and enjoying her body. She was a D1 Athlete, Volleyball player, muscular, long legs, which fits with my attraction to muscular bodies. I wish I could tell my wife of my fantasy but that's a no go.

So the question I have for you all, where does this attraction put me on the spectrum? Am I somewhere between gay and straight? Or, just a guy that's open to beautiful people and happen to also be open to both?

I look forward to hearing what y'all have to say.
 
I dont find a whole lot of use for labels *personally* but, if we do this game the way I look at it is, youre sexually attracted to trans women, ok, could you see yourself loving and being with one for long term?

Romantic attraction is, to me, a much stronger indicator of orientation.
 
So true. I mean guys obsessed with trans girls, it's always dick, dick, dick and more dick. Really? There is a girl attached to the dick.
I was thinking about this and I went through stages myself. I discovered trans women accidentally by chatting on cam (not a porn site) with someone who turned out to be trans.

After that I went through a long period of confusion and denial but I chatted with cam models who were trans (and some not trans) for years. I was always interested in them as people not just appendages.

Finally, I decided to follow through on my desires and see where it led me. So I can understand how an attraction, whether it's through porn or cam girls or just by accident, can lead to a kind of obsession. The trick is to move beyond it.
 
I recently discovered I have a strong attraction to female trans women. I identity as a hetero guy, love a women's body but also appreciate a man's body that's in good shape - love hard bodies both men and women. I had a few threesomes in college with my best friend and our girlfriends. I think the fact we used to jack each other off and only once did we give each other a BJ added to my appreciation of a hard cock. Never kissed a man and that's not something I want to do. I became curious about a female trans body, tits, great ass, and with a cock. I did some searching online and found some incredibly beautify trans women with amazing bodies and cocks. I immediately was turned on and started fantasizing about being with one of these women. The thought of exploring their body was incredibly erotic. On the flip side, I completely love sex with my wife and enjoying her body. She was a D1 Athlete, Volleyball player, muscular, long legs, which fits with my attraction to muscular bodies. I wish I could tell my wife of my fantasy but that's a no go.

So the question I have for you all, where does this attraction put me on the spectrum? Am I somewhere between gay and straight? Or, just a guy that's open to beautiful people and happen to also be open to both?

I look forward to hearing what y'all have to say.
From my social research and broad interaction in q-dimensions, I've seen three attraction planes: romantic, sexual, and gender. And you need not be all-in on any of them. But more importantly, other people shouldn't be defining your identity.

There's value in labels... the human brain LOVES hierarchy and taxonomy of concepts. Your labels are how you recognize people with identity intersection with whom you might wish to associate; they also give you a shorthand for your relationship to the world or at the very least, the relationship you want to have.

Jacking off a dude probably puts you in there somewhere, but cishet men are still cishet men if they're sexually attracted to trans women. (I just had this conversation with someone). My research shows those men often have an oral fixation and also prefer women with large labia and/or nipples. Sometimes that's all there is to it. Recent events being what they are, all my trans friends that cam said their views are skyrocketing now because of the publicity. Some are curious, some attracted to taboo, some realizing that so many trans women are beautiful, soft, and more feminine than many women.

Wishing you fulfilling self-exploration.
 
From my social research and broad interaction in q-dimensions, I've seen three attraction planes: romantic, sexual, and gender. And you need not be all-in on any of them. But more importantly, other people shouldn't be defining your identity.

There's value in labels... the human brain LOVES hierarchy and taxonomy of concepts. Your labels are how you recognize people with identity intersection with whom you might wish to associate; they also give you a shorthand for your relationship to the world or at the very least, the relationship you want to have.

Jacking off a dude probably puts you in there somewhere, but cishet men are still cishet men if they're sexually attracted to trans women. (I just had this conversation with someone). My research shows those men often have an oral fixation and also prefer women with large labia and/or nipples. Sometimes that's all there is to it. Recent events being what they are, all my trans friends that cam said their views are skyrocketing now because of the publicity. Some are curious, some attracted to taboo, some realizing that so many trans women are beautiful, soft, and more feminine than many women.

Wishing you fulfilling self-exploration.
Thank you for your response. Really appreciate everything you said and I believe that you’re directly on point and I relate to everything you’re saying. Again thank you
 
From my social research and broad interaction in q-dimensions, I've seen three attraction planes: romantic, sexual, and gender. And you need not be all-in on any of them. But more importantly, other people shouldn't be defining your identity.

There's value in labels... the human brain LOVES hierarchy and taxonomy of concepts. Your labels are how you recognize people with identity intersection with whom you might wish to associate; they also give you a shorthand for your relationship to the world or at the very least, the relationship you want to have.

Jacking off a dude probably puts you in there somewhere, but cishet men are still cishet men if they're sexually attracted to trans women. (I just had this conversation with someone). My research shows those men often have an oral fixation and also prefer women with large labia and/or nipples. Sometimes that's all there is to it. Recent events being what they are, all my trans friends that cam said their views are skyrocketing now because of the publicity. Some are curious, some attracted to taboo, some realizing that so many trans women are beautiful, soft, and more feminine than many women.

Wishing you fulfilling self-exploration.
Id be up for it
 
I'm for the most part straight but over the last say 5 years I have been really into really female looking trans with tightly cut cocks. Taylor Maxx for instance drives me nuts. So does Chrystie Street on Reddit (goes by the name of Carie on redgifs) They are so damn fine. I would love to hook up with someone like them. I always l really liked tight cut cocks, they look so awesome to me.
 
From my social research and broad interaction in q-dimensions, I've seen three attraction planes: romantic, sexual, and gender. And you need not be all-in on any of them. But more importantly, other people shouldn't be defining your identity.

There's value in labels... the human brain LOVES hierarchy and taxonomy of concepts. Your labels are how you recognize people with identity intersection with whom you might wish to associate; they also give you a shorthand for your relationship to the world or at the very least, the relationship you want to have.

Jacking off a dude probably puts you in there somewhere, but cishet men are still cishet men if they're sexually attracted to trans women. (I just had this conversation with someone). My research shows those men often have an oral fixation and also prefer women with large labia and/or nipples. Sometimes that's all there is to it. Recent events being what they are, all my trans friends that cam said their views are skyrocketing now because of the publicity. Some are curious, some attracted to taboo, some realizing that so many trans women are beautiful, soft, and more feminine than many women.

Wishing you fulfilling self-exploration.
I like a smooth labia and a sexy bush. Plus a lot of wetness inside. (maybe from a creampie)
 
I recently discovered I have a strong attraction to female trans women. I identity as a hetero guy, love a women's body but also appreciate a man's body that's in good shape - love hard bodies both men and women. I had a few threesomes in college with my best friend and our girlfriends. I think the fact we used to jack each other off and only once did we give each other a BJ added to my appreciation of a hard cock. Never kissed a man and that's not something I want to do. I became curious about a female trans body, tits, great ass, and with a cock. I did some searching online and found some incredibly beautify trans women with amazing bodies and cocks. I immediately was turned on and started fantasizing about being with one of these women. The thought of exploring their body was incredibly erotic. On the flip side, I completely love sex with my wife and enjoying her body. She was a D1 Athlete, Volleyball player, muscular, long legs, which fits with my attraction to muscular bodies. I wish I could tell my wife of my fantasy but that's a no go.

So the question I have for you all, where does this attraction put me on the spectrum? Am I somewhere between gay and straight? Or, just a guy that's open to beautiful people and happen to also be open to both?

I look forward to hearing what y'all have to say.
DO you really need a label to enjoy exploring ALL that life has to offer?!? Tits, ass, cock, pussy in ANY combination is GOOD with me - no labels required!!
 
I dont find a whole lot of use for labels *personally* but, if we do this game the way I look at it is, youre sexually attracted to trans women, ok, could you see yourself loving and being with one for long term?

Romantic attraction is, to me, a much stronger indicator of orientation.
I'm not "into" the label thing either and I've never considered your definition of, "...Romantic attraction is, to me, a much stronger indicator of orientation..." but I think it's an excellent definition as it applies to me. I've never felt a "romantic attraction" to anyone other than a female however, I do enjoy the occasional and casual sexual experience with another guy who is fit, smooth and circ'd...;)
 
I'm not "into" the label thing either and I've never considered your definition of, "...Romantic attraction is, to me, a much stronger indicator of orientation..." but I think it's an excellent definition as it applies to me. I've never felt a "romantic attraction" to anyone other than a female however, I do enjoy the occasional and casual sexual experience with another guy who is fit, smooth and circ'd...;)
I completely align with your comment. I have not been with a guy since my friend in college. More attracted to women but would love a chance to explore a fit, shaved, hard body circ’ d guy.
 
I recently discovered I have a strong attraction to female trans women. I identity as a hetero guy, love a women's body but also appreciate a man's body that's in good shape - love hard bodies both men and women. I had a few threesomes in college with my best friend and our girlfriends. I think the fact we used to jack each other off and only once did we give each other a BJ added to my appreciation of a hard cock. Never kissed a man and that's not something I want to do. I became curious about a female trans body, tits, great ass, and with a cock. I did some searching online and found some incredibly beautify trans women with amazing bodies and cocks. I immediately was turned on and started fantasizing about being with one of these women. The thought of exploring their body was incredibly erotic. On the flip side, I completely love sex with my wife and enjoying her body. She was a D1 Athlete, Volleyball player, muscular, long legs, which fits with my attraction to muscular bodies. I wish I could tell my wife of my fantasy but that's a no go.

So the question I have for you all, where does this attraction put me on the spectrum? Am I somewhere between gay and straight? Or, just a guy that's open to beautiful people and happen to also be open to both?

I look forward to hearing what y'all have to say.
Definitely feel you bro. I am totally into attractive trans women. No fake glam stuff, but passing, natural with a dick. To me it’d be the ultimate way to enjoy another dick…which I want to do as an older married guy. I’m just not that attracted to many men. If the right one comes along…
 
I recently discovered I have a strong attraction to female trans women. I identity as a hetero guy, love a women's body but also appreciate a man's body that's in good shape - love hard bodies both men and women. I had a few threesomes in college with my best friend and our girlfriends. I think the fact we used to jack each other off and only once did we give each other a BJ added to my appreciation of a hard cock. Never kissed a man and that's not something I want to do. I became curious about a female trans body, tits, great ass, and with a cock. I did some searching online and found some incredibly beautify trans women with amazing bodies and cocks. I immediately was turned on and started fantasizing about being with one of these women. The thought of exploring their body was incredibly erotic. On the flip side, I completely love sex with my wife and enjoying her body. She was a D1 Athlete, Volleyball player, muscular, long legs, which fits with my attraction to muscular bodies. I wish I could tell my wife of my fantasy but that's a no go.

So the question I have for you all, where does this attraction put me on the spectrum? Am I somewhere between gay and straight? Or, just a guy that's open to beautiful people and happen to also be open to both?

I look forward to hearing what y'all have to say.
I totally get where you are! I feel the same way! I’d love to explore a beautiful tgirl
 
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